China does have a lot of problems, especially medical, you are right, urgent need to improve.
But the current government is really improving gradually, but it will take time, I still have some faith in the country.
Why do you say that?
Because I feel that our lives are still moving in a good direction.
At least now there are more people traveling (holiday attractions are basically full), more people go to restaurants (before this is a luxury behavior), the elderly are dancing in the square (which means that there is a leisure, before my parents have to borrow money almost every month to get by, now they are retired, the monthly income of the 2 people is more than 8,000 yuan, enough to live, and go on trips a few times a year). It shows that indeed times have gotten a lot better.
You said the salary is about 100 now, how can it be? Construction site laborers are earning 3000 a month now.
Now we also have affordable housing, low-cost housing, the people can apply at any time, and many of my colleagues have been successful.
Speaking of housing prices, housing prices used to be very cheap, but my family's housing is very difficult, note: we are Shanghai people, in Shanghai, a family of three generations live in a house are very common, but now per capita housing are more than 30 square meters. 1995, I bought a set of houses, worth 70,000 yuan, when I was paid 200 yuan a month; now this set of houses worth 1.8 million, up more than 20 times, I am now the My current salary is 5,000 yuan (barely medium in Shanghai), also more than 20 times; the ratio is about the same. So I don't think the growth in house prices has exceeded the growth in income too much.
Similarly, in 1995, I bought a computer for more than 10,000 yuan, 486 or 586 or something like that, and now 4,000 yuan to buy a good configuration. You can't just look at prices, you have to look at the whole picture. in 1995 I ate a KFC meal for more than 20 yuan (a burger 10 yuan), and now it's more than 30 yuan (a burger 15 yuan), which is more than 20 years of income growth.
Write this first, see the shortcomings at the same time, but also think about the good side, ask the parents before the specific situation, so that the mind will be better, the day will be a little easier, health is the most important.
Wishing you well!