Nowadays society is not the same as before, the old people's old age has basically do not rely on their children, their thinking is also slowly changing, now the old people's pension is also enough for them to live. In the past, the elderly would always help their children with their grandchildren after retirement, but now the elderly are different, they now want to have their own time to go out into the world after retirement, so many people have stopped helping with their children.
Today's elderly people are beginning to enjoy life, they also want to bring happiness from life, so in the spare time always go to dance some square dance or raise flowers and play chess and so on, basically no longer surrounded by children.
But the more the old man does this, the more the young man's opinion will grow. Because now young people are really too much pressure, everyone is prepared with mortgage and car loan, and every day do not need to keep working to earn money, if so there is no one to help with the child, this time is the most need for the elderly. If the elderly only care about their own enjoyment at this time, not to step forward to help the child to share some of the pressure, the child will certainly have a certain opinion of these old people.
But not everyone thinks this way, there are some young people who feel that the elderly have worked hard all their lives, and that they should just enjoy life in their old age, and have no obligation to help themselves to the children. And I've asked a lot of old people lately, and the truth is that it's happier for old people to bring up their grandchildren or not, because there's the joy of bringing up grandchildren, and there's the joy of not bringing up grandchildren.
If you want the elderly to be happy, the main thing is to have good communication with them. Only after communicating well with the elderly, the elderly will be very happy even when they bring you children. But when the old man does not want to bring the child, he will also give you some money to reduce some of your pressure and so on, so for both sides are better.
After all, nowadays young people, that is also very difficult, if a person full-time to take care of the child then the pressure will be even greater, to be a parent is nothing more than for their own children can live a better life, so a lot of people are still willing to go to take care of the child, they are after they see their own children are happy, they will also be very happy.
So the old man will be happy in his old age, with or without grandchildren is not too big a relationship, the main thing is to make their hearts happy after they will be happy in their old age.