Who is Chang Yan?
I'd like to ask him what his reasoning is for saying that.
I've always customized the term "best friend" as follows:
It's the kind of person who doesn't necessarily share the same viewpoints, but who can have a lively conversation
(you talk about you, I talk about me, and then laugh when you're done);
It's the kind of person who grows up playing with each other, but who doesn't necessarily see each other very often,
It's the kind of person who doesn't always see each other.
(You have your busy schedule, I have my chores, and I can call and tweet anytime);
It is the kind of people who feel happy and relieved when they think of each other
(I always have the lovely image of you when you were a child in my mind, and I think you think of me in the same way.
The two people who never feared to lose their friendship with each other for some external reasons
(Not because of the change of identity, family, status and slowly alienated, good thing that these do not exist for us)......
In fact, there was no such word as "girlfriends" at that time, which means good friends, good classmates, small partners. The first thing you need to know is that you're a good friend, a good classmate, a good partner,....... Only, we have one more reason to be close than others: our moms are good coworkers.
I remember that day of spring (when the elementary school is still spring enrollment), we wore my smart and capable mother hand-made flower skirt, carrying her hand-made flower schoolbag, our little hand was your gentle and lovely mother held tightly, and together with the joy to the school.
At that time, you, rosy round face, showing white and tender beautiful little arms, smiling all day long.
You said it was because Grandma loved you so much that she was afraid you wouldn't get enough to eat, afraid you wouldn't have enough nutrients, and she gave you milk every day.
You're not afraid that I'll get angry?
We don't have a rich grandmother who can buy milk every day, and my arm is like a thin hemp pole, so I'm always reluctant to wear short-sleeved shirts in summer.
But when looking at our picture together, I'm happy again.
Don't look at my arm, but my face is not smaller than yours, and even my eyes are a bit bigger than yours.
By the way, there is my sweater, as if it is also a little bit more beautiful than yours.
I have a younger brother, you have a younger sister, they are also classmates.
The adults joked that it would be better to have a baby wedding.
The two of us were very excited, as if the marriage is us.
Unfortunately, the two of them did not come to the electricity, wasted our two do sister expression.
Slowly growing up, I still like to often visit your home, sometimes too late to squeeze in your cot to sleep.
In your house I feel more comfortable than in my own home, and free and can eat delicious food.
Your father was a kind old cadre, but cynical, I like to listen to his stories of the past.
You didn't like to study and worked early, but your life was real and satisfying.
In your smile, there is confidence and a calmness that comes with the territory.
And I like to read and draw, but they do not seem to bring me much joy.
I've been immersed in my own tragic world, and I can't get out.
With you, we don't talk about ideals.
We talk about good food, gossip about the laughs of the people we know, and talk about every cockamamie little thing about the kids ......
I think it's a lot happier than if I'd been left alone with my thoughts.
However, it seems that the situation has changed a little bit, you began to forward some philosophical or soulful chicken soup type of in-depth articles in WeChat, while I am more enthusiastic about the stars of the eight coats and the street news.
It's good that we've finally harmonized our thinking.
As for now, we come together to say the most words is: five more years, we can go out together, just anywhere,.
Because five years from now is the day of my son's college entrance exam.
You have now realized the freedom of time, so wait for me to the day to realize the freedom of time.
As for the time is to dance, or shopping malls; is to eat street spicy hot, or take the car to the field to see the scenery, good discussion.
By the way, forgot a very important thing, you are my life saver, once because of saving my life and almost lost your own life.
A great favor is not to be thanked.