Look at the situation of the elderly from the side first.
Before chatting with the elderly, you should have a general understanding of the elderly, such as personality, kindness, etc., and then talk with the elderly, otherwise it will easily make the elderly feel unhappy.
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patience
Old people's chats are generally ink, and they will repeat some questions. At this time, your patience is needed, which will make the old people feel very happy and think that you are a good boy, considerate and will leave a good impression on them.
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Learn to listen
Generally speaking, old people talk a lot. At this time, what you need to do is to learn to listen, listen to the old people's explanations, and give some affirmation, indicating that you are listening carefully, so that the old people will be particularly happy.
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Speak louder.
Old people are hard of hearing, so when we speak, we should raise our voices a little to make them sound effortless, so that your communication will be smoother.
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Speak slowly.
Generally speaking, the reaction ability of the elderly has decreased, so you must speak slowly and can't communicate with us at normal speed. After slowing down, the old people can understand our spirit, and they will be more willing to talk to us without difficulty.
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Ask old people more when they are young.
When you ask old people about their youth, I'm sure she will be very passionate and gushing about what she liked when she was young, the life at that time, and you are just experiencing the life at that time.
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Talking about the preferences of the elderly
Hobbies in old age have become a major theme of the elderly, such as square dance, chess, mahjong and so on. We can talk about this, which will stimulate the old people's interest in talking to you and make them very happy.
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Have a drink if you can.
Many old people like you to drink a glass of white wine while eating to make yourself comfortable. If you can have dinner together, you can drink some white wine with your uncles to make them more cheerful. Of course, you must drink a small glass and pay attention to their health.
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