"Life is like a journey, don't care about the destination, care about the scenery along the way, and the mood to see the scenery". "Negative mindset is a serious disease of the mind that rejects wealth, success, happiness and health! There are no bad people in the world, just bad mindsets! What kind of mindset leads to what kind of thinking and behavior, what kind of environment and world! What kind of future and life!" What a brilliant assertion, what a philosophical summary of life!
Many women are afraid that they will lose their beauty as the years go by, and often suffer a lot. Years and years of change, old age, illness and death, which is the law of nature, who can not go to change, many emperors want to live forever, seek magic pills spirit disease, and ultimately ended up with an incurable death. In fact, everything lies in their own mind, lies in their own view of things. If the heart is good, then the beauty will never pass away. I remember a female scholar spoke a very classic quote, she said that women should always go to God's beauty parlor, God's beauty parlor is those who put a woman's soft, loving power with a lifetime of radiation out of the place. That place is the heart of a woman. Take just one hour out of the day to remove the makeup from your mind, forget for a while who you are, forget your children, forget your husband and lovers, and allow yourself to be truly yourself as the spring breeze cleanses you and the autumn moon illuminates you. Love yourself well, in addition to love your family, friendly friends, but also consider yourself, treat yourself well, not to give yourself too much pressure and limitations. Do what you like to do and love who you love. In this way, you will feel that life is always full of sunshine and moonlight. Then you will still be suffering for the passing of years and the fading of the face?
Anyone who is distressed, real life is like a pile of scattered notes, everyone has their own five-line score. In the emotional variations and the symphony of fate, the state of existence can become a beautiful music, rather than the rhythm of the noise of the jumble of tunes, depends entirely on our state of mind. With a good mood, nature will be open to positively face the pain and joy of life, sadness and joy, the interpretation of life more rich and wonderful.
I am an ordinary woman, there is no transcendent thought, but will insist on maintaining a beautiful mood every day. I will not because of a little thing and self-seeking trouble, but also because of a little success and complacent. When I'm happy, I'll be as happy as a squeaky bird. When I'm angry, I'll turn off all the phones, lock myself in my room, and turn up the music to drive away my worries. Although everyone has a different way of reducing stress, and everyone has a different way of solving problems, there is one thing that should be the same, and that is to have a good mindset, and a good mindset will solve all the difficult things.
In fact, you need to have a good attitude towards family and relationships. If your expectations of marriage are too high, once the reality is not as good as your ideal, then you will feel so disillusioned with life and how hopeless it is. I am often touched by my uncle and aunt's plain and true love, with "hold your hand and grow old with it" to interpret their love and marriage is the best footnote. They have walked together for decades, although not sensational, earth-shattering, there is only flowing water like continuous mutual care, there is not too much of the oath of allegiance and flowers before the moon, there is mutual harmony and tacit understanding. They hold hands to face life frankly, support each other, with a smile to infect each other, the many many unmoving days to live so full and meaningful, I think their ordinary days are not all happy and bright? I also try to fill the most cozy chapter of life with action.
In the ordinary life, Qiong Yao-style love at first sight, sweet and tear-jerking story, in the realization of life sometimes become pale. In the stage of life, we each play different roles, staged ordinary drama. Only cherish the love and affection in front of us, cherish the not thrilling feelings, that is a positive and correct state of mind. Many people seem to be envious of other people's lives, seem to only see other people's strengths, only to forget their own happiness, forget the advantages of the people around them. Truly, there is no framework or exact definition of happiness; it has a different definition in every person's eyes. Only if you cherish the happiness in front of you, you can look forward to the happiness of tomorrow, and that's the reality of the warning.
Maybe there are many people do not care, our life has always been used, and life is full of meaning and value, but life also need us often to maintain and care. Therefore, we have to start from loving ourselves caring for ourselves. So, I will use words to write the spirit in my free time, I feel that it is a means to purify feelings and thoughts, but also the best way to exercise the mind; I will participate in sports after work to strengthen the body and relieve stress. In this way, you will feel that every day is new, every day the sun is warm, and everywhere is full of kind eyes.
Only to do "not to things, not to their own sadness", that is the life of the experience to the highest state, so, what honor and loss can not be put down it.