When I wrote these lines, I was listening to Karen Mok's "Suddenly", with her slightly hoarse and ethereal voice, unlike Faye Wong's so dusty, singing into the heart of the moment is the slightest bit of luck, slowly flowing, and it seems to be able to see her in the silence of the valley sings, sings the satisfaction of love, more like the realization of life.
"Love" is an ability to experience realization, and if it is only about love, it must be more than just love.
In a short article to see by the video site blocked net red girl pearly cry, small fans for her injustice, small fans have said " rely on face value, evening big money is a sense of freedom, is a form of labor." The first look at this speech is so ridiculous, think about it also reasonable. 90 young people growing up in good conditions, was instilled by their parents too much coddling arrangement, coupled with the young and unprofessional, most of them after a number of years may be for the strange idea of cover up the face of self-esteem.
The value of youth to a woman is much greater than a few boxes of brand-name bags, the material price is limited. Any kind of speculation only to be inserted in the struggle of the steel wings may fly in the pursuit of fame and fortune on the road, less steel struggle, speculation is tantamount to the temptation to imprisonment in their own empty consumption.
Even if the back of this pair of wings, seemingly unlimited future, but a loss of life of the true heart does not know how to love it is also difficult to understand the good as water, tolerance is the truth. The weight of the wings to the body and mind overburdened, all the way weighted forward, when encountered in the wind and rain always have to Chi Chi, inevitably feel tired and lonely, and then look back, this life and in order to prove to whom?
Rarely do you see dramas and novels that favor realism, and according to Avery Consulting, this type of romantic drama has been getting a lot of attention in recent years, like "The First Half of My Life," "The Illustrated Guide to Beijing Women," and in Western countries as well. This is not bad, it is in line with the values of the times, hypnotic and inspirational, but compared to more like "No Questions Asked".
There are many forms of self-improvement, deviating from their true nature seems to be the cart before the horse, the woman's genes are destined to be a woman's soft, sentimental, even if they are motivated to become a strong woman in the business world of work, the struggle on the road should not lose the original look, forget how soft.
Every stage of life if you do not feel the love, do not know how to love, is a failure of life. Our self-improvement is even more because of love, love him love life, love themselves also to achieve their own.
Every heart can be enriched by love, and the love of positive thoughts makes life infinite. Your love may be the same sweet **** suffering go hand in hand, perhaps more inclined to a certain side of the pay, even if it will come to a fork in the road, in the face of the choice of fulfillment, but also must have harvested some understanding, harvest each other's different latitude of achievement.
Ding Nai Zhu, the wife of director Lai Shengchuan, has been praised by Dzongsar Rinpoche as the woman with the best practice in the world. The marriage of Ding Naizhu and Lai Shengchuan is as much talked about as Qian Zhongshu's Yang Jiang, both of whom were faithful to their ideals in their careers, but also harvested their love for each other in a long-lasting marriage.
Lai Shengchuan said his wife Ding Naizhu is the word 'happiness' in life. Whether it is life or career, Ding Naizhu has always brightened up Lai Shengchuan's life with her optimism and altruistic state of mind. She is the mother of two children, the founder and CEO of the Shanghai Theater, and owns her own cultural and creative business. She still faces the media and the audience with her rainbow-colored shoulder-length hair in her old age, and her face can always be seen with wisdom, softness, and transparency.
Ding Naizhu said of her husband: "Whenever he encountered a creative bottleneck, no one else could help, and only music and traveling could inspire him. He would find a breakthrough in the transition of space. His ears are particularly sharp, he is a person who cannot work without music, he can always touch the creator's thoughts, so I think Mr. Lai's creative talent is also due to his superior sensory receiver." It's easy to sense from her words that she has full respect for her husband and dotes on him as much as she does on her children.
I know that this is a woman on the man's truest love, always love him with admiration, and sometimes heartache him everywhere like a child. And himself in his eyes is the same, gentle, naive, fragile and hidden courage, as if you can set how many people in one, as if in order to love has the spiritual power to transform at any time. ?
Roy Clift's poem "Love":
I love you because you call out, the truest part of me
My foolishness, my weaknesses, are almost non-existent in your gaze
And the most beautiful part of my heart is illuminated by the light of your presence
No one else has ever bothered to travel so far, and everyone else finds it too much of a hassle to find
That's why no one has ever found my beauty, that's why no one has ever been here
I love you
Because you've done more than faith to make my life beautiful
Because you've done more than destiny to make my life full of joy
And you've done all of this without a single thought, a single word, a single hint
And you've done all of this without a single effort, a single word, a single hint
And you've done all of this without a single word, a single suggestion
You make all this everything, just because you are you
Love, let us become spiritual, and you do all this almost not waste a trace of effort, because you are you, and in your eyes I am exactly the most real me, as if this is the best of the two people who love each other.
Good love, not just see only each other in the eyes. When you y love a person, through the love of the establishment of the far more than and the person between the connection, but and the whole life of the connection, your life, his life. The only thing you can bring to each other is to be bound and tired. When you love with an altruistic heart, what you get from being loved is stability and rest, a more open mind, a love for the wider world and a gratitude for life.
If we can let go of egoism in love, we will no longer be outsiders in true love. The more profound and rich the experience of love is, the more the full depth of life is accounted for, from which we will gain new insights, which often affects the depth of the breadth of life.
Ding Nai Zhu said: If you really want to have love in your heart, just like practicing piano, with full awareness and patience, practicing every day without giving up. Give of your own accord; take care of it sincerely; take responsibility willingly; honor it as it is; and know it as it is.
At the beginning of the venture with Lai Shengchuan in order to save costs, on the theater tickets for each play are they a piece of paper drawn out, the company also encountered a night because of the flooding of all the equipment scrapped, the savings went down the drain of the hit, there is no kind of success can be a smooth sailing.
Imagine Lai Shengchuan encountered difficulties when there must have been grumpy, devastated, and perhaps often take it out on his wife, not to say that women should be tolerated, but try to put down the overweight of self-interest to love, there is Eileen Chang's phrase "because of knowledge, so compassion", a good lover will not let you back off, all of the The good lover will not let you back off, all the tolerance is just emotional appeasement, think differently who can guarantee that they are not wrong.
To have the power of love, feet on the real earth to hold up the strength of the original heart
Whether celebrities ordinary people, regardless of the life of the noble and lowly, in every corner of the world, they have a different skin color; perhaps it is the sunset smoke curls waiting for the husband and children home wife, perhaps running in the disaster area of the elderly and youthful backs, they are involved in a different division of labor in the community, the life of the They are involved in different social divisions, and have different degrees of awakening and realization of life, but the same is that they all have the power of love, and have the power to step on the real earth and hold up the original heart.
A hair little, when we went to school, we saved money *** to buy a fashion magazine, a few years after graduation every time I went back from the field, she always dragged the sea children, nanny-like dress, the two collided occasionally look at her eyes dodge, she said she graduated from the marriage of social phobia.
At that time, in addition to her own children, her husband left a ten-year-old daughter in a previous marriage, the plot is simple and bloody. When she married him, he had nothing but his daughter, the money put together to pay the down payment on the house, the wedding was done rashly after all, topped by relatives and friends do not understand the mockery, remember when she gave birth to her daughter more than ten days to visit, Christmas night with a heavy snowfall east and west to find her to do the month of the shady inn, the child is less than a month due to the flu sent to the intensive care unit, a day of a thousand dollars in medical expenses is the husband in black and white to play a IOUs to ask the child's grandmother to borrow
And then after her husband's career more and more smooth, smooth and Ma signed a contract, the villa to live on the child is also big, she began to run their own small business, in the eyes of her husband is not at all eye-catching small business, she is hot and heavy, said she married her husband is a blessing of the mistake, said that they want to give their husbands as a strong backing in the event of an economic crisis when their husbands are at a low point, they have to bear the burden of a family of elderly people. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product.
That kind of mistaken blessing, but she was unaware of a gift, a unique blunt force, perhaps this is the first heart. From the beginning to the end, she is not slow in love with the appearance of a small woman, by the husband in the arms of the laugh "stupid people stupid blessing".
Buddha said all beings have Buddha nature, what is Buddha nature? Each of us is born with the purest awareness of our own nature, which is commonly known as the first heart. This original purest nature of the heart, experienced interference temptation, learned the world of empiricism will start the interests of the game between obsession.
We are not sages, compared to the clear mind to see the nature of living is more for the food, oil and salt, for the next generation of mortgage loans. But the same is alive, it is unlikely to be hit by the lottery in a night, to what kind of state of mind to spend the flow of life, all lies in their own comprehension.
If there is any practice in the world, it must be love and beginner's mind, both of which are equally interdependent. When a person is extremely honest because he upholds the original heart, he is already indestructible. Even painted nails and lipstick do not diminish compassion. When stirring a cup of expensive coffee will be able to see the glass window walking past the hungry beggars, will think of this cup of coffee is not easy to come by, will be in the next encounter with the handicapped old and weak when the heart is vivid thoughts, but also perhaps will be every cup of coffee as the last cup of life to enjoy to cherish.
I love you, so I don't want to waste time with you
I want to waste time with you, like looking down at the fish.
Like leaving teacups on the table and walking away, wasting their nice shadows
I also want to waste time even with the setting sun, like taking a walk and wasting away until the stars fill the sky
I also want to waste time with the wind picking up, sitting on the porch and staring at the sky
Until all of the clouds in your eyes have been blown out of the window
------ Wonsung Lee, "I want to spend my time in vain with you
This poem is written into the hearts of many people, especially those who flawlessly slow down life, I believe the poet is also, it is because of the flawlessness of the waste of time to look forward to that kind of good, so good who do not want it? But most people know that so vain can only be temporary, unless you and he have been old, old enough to pick chrysanthemums east hedge, old enough not to play any social role, old enough to shoulder no longer have responsibility obligations.
We look forward to the purest love without distractions, any kind of pure beauty is just an ideal vacuum state, it is not tortured a storm will be destroyed. Therefore, in addition to the true nature of the same to love to pick up a bear, only in their own feet on the ground without fear of the road ahead of the faith, only the most free and most uninfected emotions, only to have enough to love the bottom of the air.
This suggests that after the love, it should go to it carefully escort, only focus on enjoying the happy mood of the moment, love is very easy to become a bubble of passion.
Two people in the state of letting each other's peace of mind before, in the production of a strong bond before, always send away the passion through the trials and tribulations, there have been contradictions and disputes, there have been doubts about the unknown weighing, may be in order to self-protection will be pushed away from the other side, trying to put the relationship between two people placed in the reality of the position of the emotional security, these negative emotions are most of the human nature will be facing.
But the reason why two people in love will still need each other after the passion has subsided, must be in each other's body to get more positive feelings, the most direct is the true heart. No matter when and where, poor and rich, youth or old age will not be abandoned due to the variables of trust.
Another way to say it is that I love you first because I trust you, I know you are you, even if a moment of disillusionment you are still the hero of my heart, and know that I know you have the courage to be firm, and if you accidentally lost, I will hold you in my arms, kiss you, to make sure that you can sleep at ease, and I'm willing to do everything in my power for you to hold up the world of the lost.
Actor Liu Tao, she is exactly the best portrayal, in the marriage, career, every side of her look so beautiful.
In addition to trust of course, there are a lot of people who love each other for the reason why they love each other, such as Ding Naizhu, Yang Jiang's respect for the appreciation of the lover, all the way to **** in trouble, the love of the lover's heart to heart tacit understanding. Two people's relationship in the positive and negative tug-of-war through the break-in period, which broke the other's psychological precepts into each other, only to have peace **** place.
With this foundation, the rest is for themselves, for each other to eliminate anxiety about the future. It is because of this , I can not and you just so waste time, I have to take care of themselves, so that they have the ability to have the need to live, have the ability to shoulder all the responsibilities on their shoulders, I have enough bottom, without any distractions with you to enjoy the time of love.
Roy Kreeft's "Love", which is very like a paragraph to the end of the topic, but also to give it to each of you with love in your heart:
I love you,
not only because of what you do for me,
but also because,
for you,
I can do things.
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June 2018