Auntie held my hand tightly and said: " Xiang Yue, you must save your brother ah, can you bear to be able to look at him worse than death? "Having said that, donating a kidney will not be dangerous.
Four years ago, Auntie asked me to donate a kidney for my cousin, and if I wavered at the time, I didn't realize until now how important " a kidney" is to the human body.
At that time, I happened to graduate from high school, also received a letter of acceptance from a local university, and was preparing to go outside to work and study during the summer vacation.
However, a phone call from my aunt almost made me regret my life, and I was shopping with my classmates and was about to discuss going to drink milk tea together.
A phone call from my aunt came in.
Auntie first in the phone inside the cold, ask me how to live, there is no buy good things to eat ah, got into the university, can be good to study ah, and then she said and said on the sudden silence.
I know that something must have happened, so I asked my aunt what happened.
Then aunt said me lightly said: "Your cousin was hospitalized, the condition is somewhat serious."
I was suddenly surprised, cousin's body has been very good, how good reason on the hospital it, so asked aunt is in the hospital, I will go to visit my cousin tomorrow morning.
Auntie said it was in the " County People's Hospital No. 1"
Early the next morning, I rode an electric car to the hospital, and from the outside, I also bought some fruits and things like these, these are my father taught me, so that I must not be empty-handed, according to Auntie to the address, I bounced around.
I saw that my cousin was still sleeping, and my aunt was sitting on the side looking at him.
Auntie saw me coming and didn't let me go in directly, probably because she was afraid that I would disturb my cousin's rest, she came out and took my hand and said: "Xiangyue ah, I haven't seen you for more than a year, you're looking better and better.
I interrupted my aunt and said: "What's wrong with my brother, his body is so good, how come he got sick for no reason?"
Auntie pulled me to sit on a chair in the hallway outside, wiping her tears and said: "I don't know what the reason is, your brother, he has chronic renal failure."
" Every day, you can only rely on dialysis, to barely maintain the vital signs, I and your uncle! have discussed, to donate their kidneys to him, so that the child has the hope of rebirth, but after the test but found that our kidney source are not matched ".
Now we have searched more than ten hospitals, and still have not found a matching kidney source.
I said: "Auntie, don't be in a hurry, you can surely find a suitable kidney source".
Auntie wiped her tears again and said: "Xiangyue, you haven't eaten yet, right? It's more than 11 o'clock now, so Auntie invites you to have a meal outside."
"Stay with Auntie at the hospital this afternoon, she's too lonely"
Then she led me to the hospital and told me that I could not find a match. >
Then Auntie led me to a restaurant outside for dinner, and we chatted for another hour, It was almost one o'clock when we got back to the hospital again, and when we arrived at the hospital, we ran into the doctor who was treating my cousin on the way, and the two of them were talking in a row, and the doctor told him to hurry up and get out of town.
See if you can find a suitable kidney source out of town, otherwise your son is in danger.
Auntie was in a hurry now, and we continued to walk, only to have Auntie suddenly come up with a sentence: "Xiangyue, why don't you go and do a kidney matching"
I said: "Ah, me? "
Auntie pulled me hard and said, "It's okay, do one, don't waste much time.
So I was half-pushed and half-heartedly pulled to the blood, took a ct, but also filled out the information, in the ward and cousin after chatting a few words, the time has been more than five o'clock, I said hello to the aunt, and went straight home.
The next day, I was woken up by a burst of ringing phones
Because of the lack of classes, I basically slept until ten o'clock in the morning, but I opened my cell phone to see that it was only eight o'clock, and there were already four missed calls from my aunt.
I clicked on my aunt's phone and called her, and her excited voice on the other end of the phone said: "Xiang Yue, your kidney source has been successfully matched, so hurry up and come to the hospital".
When I heard this, I was dizzy.
Almost lying on the ground, I was dumbfounded back: "Ah,, ah, ah, ah, it can not be right"
But I was afraid to go to the hospital at this time, and did not dare to donate a kidney for my cousin.
Auntie on the phone may have learned of my concerns, and continued: " Xiang Yue, there is no relationship, the doctor and I said, even if the human body is missing a kidney, there will not be a great impact"
You just need to donate a kidney to your brother, and when the time comes. Our whole family to support you, do you remember, when you were a child, I was so good to you ah, often buy you food, play, hear here I even some hands and feet shaking.
I know very well that although the missing kidney will not be fatal, but it will cause irreversible damage to the human body, and the child may not be able to give birth to a child, so how can I get married?
So I didn't dare to say anything, and I let the phone stay on while I walked away.
Later, my aunt also looked for me a few times, also and my parents said this matter, my father let me never say donate, this matter let him to solve, now things have been more than four years, and cousin as early as a year ago, because did not find a suitable kidney source.
Has passed away, when I heard the news, I also cried very sad.
Remember the guy who sold his kidney to buy an Apple phone? If I donated my kidney at that time, I might only be able to lie in bed for the rest of my life. I was so afraid of death that I didn't dare to think about donating my kidney at all.
A distant relative of a friend, it seems that because of a car accident, cut off a kidney. He lived a careful life and didn't contact him for many years, not knowing the outcome.
What I want to say is my opinion:
I really don't agree with taking a kidney from a healthy person and giving it to someone else!
If it's between family members, and you can't give up your love, it's okay to volunteer.
If it's between family members, it's only a voluntary request.
It's not as simple as cutting a piece of skin. The human body has evolved to the point where no organ is superfluous! The doctor said nothing, is in everything in accordance with conventional conditions and get. But people eat grains and cereals, three diseases and six disasters are exempted. Tired can not, sick can not, at that time, what do you use to resist? Your life and talk about what quality?
So, no matter who is sick, as long as you do not want to - not urgently want! just be sure to simply refuse to donate!
I think it would be a good idea to think about increasing the publicity and benefits associated with organ donation. This would also go some way to avoiding the underhandedness of organ transplants. For example, if a family member has an organ to donate, the immediate family can prioritize the opportunities in this regard or the major disease discount or something like that, in short, it can be studied. But do not be similar to blood donation, said close relatives can also benefit, the result of hospitals and blood stations are not linked, I can not use! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and you'll be able to do that in the future!
Of course, it is just a means of encouragement, not too utilitarian, and the main thing is to let people have a sense of donation, and anyway, it is also a fire that burns when you die.
But I have to admit: it's easy to say, [facepalm] I haven't gotten over it myself.
I myself am opting out of resuscitation and heavy medical treatments if I'm seriously ill.
Don't like lying on the operating table, so just decided to donate corneas for now.
I hope there are more people out there who are more enlightened and braver than me.
I hope everyone is healthy!
This is a true story of the protagonist, Kang Lin, who gave her kidney under emotional entanglement, and the fate that followed was saddening.
Kang Lin is a rural child, her childhood was spent with her younger brother Kang Lei. Playing, going to school, sleeping, inseparable.
Sisters and brothers occasionally naughty, with together digging people's sweet potatoes, steal other people's watermelon, every time the east window will be mother with a stick to chase two streets, scared two people wow
Childhood companionship, youthful growth, sibling love is unparalleled!
For Kang Lin, her brother is the backbone of her life. She confides in her brother when she has grievances, and lets him take revenge for her when she is bullied. They are all in love with each other, and they love each other.
Later, the two dropped out of school to work, life setbacks, mutual encouragement, mutual progress. Then later, the two have their own families, but also frequent visits, talking about the past of childhood.
Until the two have children, a beautiful and cozy life, gradually toward the black abyss.
Conlin gave birth to a son, fat, round head, very cute. The son often took him to his brother's house when he grew up, because his brother also gave birth to a son. The two siblings hoped that the two children would develop a strong bond, just like them.
Until one day, the younger brother Kang Lei's son Xiao Lei suddenly fell ill, vomiting and fainting in the middle of a few days, and looked very bad.
The family thought the child had a cold, and after a few days of cold medicine, the symptoms were not light but heavy. Kang Lei took Xiaolei to the village health center, the doctor observed a moment straight frowned, because the doctor can not judge where the problem is, it is recommended to go to the hospital to take a look.
On the day of the hospital, Kang Lin happened to take his son to the door, they went, after a series of inspections, get the inspection report of the moment, the two siblings of the face of a completely ugly, as if a thunderbolt blasted the two people's minds.
Congenital renal insufficiency, uremia!
This year, Xiaolei was only eight years old, and no one thought that a happy and healthy child would suddenly get uremia, which had no symptoms at all before.
Back to the bus, Kang Lei put Xiaolei tightly in his arms, the whole person frowned tightly, into the anxiety. And Kang Lin also did not say a word, or simply do not know what to say, she would like to comfort, but can not comfort.
" Don't tell your parents when you get home." Getting off the bus, Kang Lei said seriously. Kang Lin nodded and could only obey.
For the two men's father, Xiao Lei is his own grandson, the lifeblood, the jewel of the family, if the two old men know about the condition, I do not know what will be scared into.
But the future of long-term dialysis, the contrast of the physical condition of Xiaolei, simply can not hide all this.
Kang Lei's wife knows, the two old people know, everyone knows, and everyone is anxious.
Kang Lei's wife was in tears all day long, while Kang Lei's parents were looking around for a parlor, hoping to cure their grandson's illness. But the disease never pity people, Xiao Lei dialysis from the initial once a week, to a year later three times a week.
" Xiao Lei's disease was found relatively late, dialysis can only maintain normal body indicators, but not for long, kidney transplant is the best way."
The family listened to the doctor's advice and begged the doctor to find a kidney source.
" Unless someone donates a kidney, but there is no blood relationship, even if there is a kidney into the bank is difficult to match. There are currently eight patients in the hospital who are waiting for a kidney source. Given that your child's health is currently good, it would be best for an immediate family member to do the matching."
Donating one's own kidney has never been a matter of hesitation for every biological parent. But it was Conlin who was matched by the mating test.
Kang Lin froze, the whole person as if frozen, how could she not imagine that she would be the only hope for Xiao Lei. She was so complicated inside, she didn't know how to deal with all this at all.
She is only 30 years old. If she donates her kidney, what will happen to her health? She is only thirty years old, and if she donates her kidney, what will happen to her health? How can she take care of her children if she is sick for the rest of her life, and her husband won't agree to it?
For anyone to donate a kidney, it takes a lot of courage, even if it's a close relative.
"Go home." Kang Lei did not dare to look at his sister, he did not dare to say any words of request, because that would be too cruel. Sacrificing his sister's health for his son , he was not willing. But what can be done?
In the days ahead, the family was shrouded in gloom, and the laughter of the past became a long-lost luxury.
"You should beg your sister, as long as she can save our son, we can give her all the family property. "Kang Lei's wife kept begging, during which several times wanted to go to Kang Lin, but were stopped by Kang Lei.
Probably because of fear, Kang Lin did not come back in the next three months, as if deliberately avoiding all this.
" What my sister doesn't want to do, I will never force her. "Kang Lei said to his wife, words full of firmness, full of powerlessness, put all the hope to the hospital, hoping that a miracle can find a kidney source.
Kang Lei's parents are also suffering, a seedling, how can you bear to let go.
So the mother rode off on her bicycle alone. She wants to find her daughter, so that she can save her grandson.
Conrad knew there was no escape, and the moment her mother knelt down, Conrad's tangled defenses collapsed.
"Daughter, you can live with one less kidney, but your grandson can't live without yours."
Kang Lin and her mother on both knees, nodded her head vigorously, " I save! " The word weighed a thousand pounds and was finally uttered.
Conlin's husband, however, broke down, wanting to stop it but unable to, especially when Conlin uttered to him, "If you don't agree, we'll get a divorce."
On the day of the operation, the two families stood at the door of the operating room, and all breathed a sigh of relief when the news of the successful operation came out.
On the bed, Kang Lin's face is pale and bloodless, but her look, but looks very relaxed, which is a kind of relief from the pressure.
In front of the bed, Kang Lei cried like a child, holding his sister's hand tightly, ten million words can not express the gratitude and guilt. Although Xiao Lei is also lying in the hospital bed, but in the eyes of Kang Lei, this moment of sister most need care.
More than a decade has passed, Kang Lin's life is very optimistic, physical work is not dry pull, occasionally take some handmade work, or can earn a little money. Sometimes also go to the square dance. But it's a shame that you can't dance for too long.
Kang Lei's son stepped into the community with his own work, every time he came back to visit, will be in front of the Kang Lin close to some, because he knows that his body has a part of the aunt, that is a "I have you, you have me" flesh and blood of the closeness.
From the day of the operation, Connie had two sons.
Conclusion: "Kidney donation" is a word that never stops. The only people who would willingly give their health to others are the parents who would give theirs selflessly. If there is such a person, please treat her well and protect her. Because she is the most kind and selfless person in the world.