It can be said very clearly:Choice without choice is not choice.
To answer this question, we need to know what is lifestyle and what is choice. The main core of this question is: people's lifestyles are "choosing" or "being chosen"? People are faced with many choices in their lives, but often they are not in a position to make them.
One: What lifestyle?
Lifestyle is a broad concept that encompasses the values, morals, and aesthetics of people's material and spiritual lives in terms of clothing, food, housing, transportation, labor, work, rest and recreation, social interaction, and hospitality, as well as the aspects related to these lifestyles. The lifestyle mentioned in the question should refer to the individual's personal life pattern based on his or her own value judgment and value choice. To a certain extent, the individual's mode of life is also affected by a combination of factors such as the outside world.
Two: What is choice?
Choice, meaning to select, choose, or make a decision, to make a judgment in the existing several options or choices, but the prerequisite is: there is a choice, and the option is valid. There is a good understanding, that is, different options are available, the option to establish what is it? Options to establish the conditions that: options and options are equal and difficult to choose. When A and B at the same time in a balance at both ends of the mutual equality of the time, the bear's paw and the fish can not be, you to personal world view of life values as a bargaining chip, and ultimately lead to the fate of the balance of the scales tilted in a certain direction, this is the choice.
So can you really choose your lifestyle? I would say yes, and you are the person you are in the moment.
Why do you say that?
People are born unfair, some people are born sound, some people are born disabled, some people are born rich, some people are born poor, yes, since the birth of the moment from the moment we can not choose, where to be born, when to be born, this is the fate of the arrangement, the life has never been too much to give us too much choice! The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good chance to make your own choice.
Life style is one of the few choices we have, or life style itself is a choice, even if everyone starts from a different point of view, but the rare fairness is that we are equal to enjoy the opportunity to choose,The same is the blindness of the ears, some people are indignant, and some people become Beethoven, the same is a rich kid! Some are infamous, others have benefited a land.
Life is supposed to be a choice, whenever you choose to insist between persistence and abandonment, this is your choice, whenever you choose to tolerate between discrimination and tolerance, this is your choice, whenever you choose between goodness and evil you choose goodness instead of evil, this is also your choice! Don't underestimate these small moments, it is these small moments that have made you what you are now. How much good you've done along the way, how much evil you've done, what you've accomplished, it's all the result of the choices you've made step by step.
Time is short, when life wants to achieve the goal can not be realized, the existing conditions are not enough to support their own ideals, we should not be the first time to start doubting themselves, but should think about how to create conditions for themselves, to fight for the possibility of more choices! Life is never smooth sailing, the important thing is that, in every ordinary day, whenever our self-control is challenged, is the choice to adhere to or compromise, because life is a myriad of moments.