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Some people say that bear children have become more lethal than the square dance mom trouble makers. In life, we can almost anytime and anywhere encounter bear children to create "trouble", and even a lot of already can not be described as trouble, but should be "fear"!
Yes, fear!
Yes, fear!
Yes, fear! In reality, there are a lot of children by the bears staged by the "fear of suspense", some of the fear index even more than the movie and television drama a few points of absurdity.
These are the real "children's horror movies" in reality.
Every time a bear child appears in the people sigh at the same time, almost all parents will come out in defense of "he is still just a child", "why adults have to bother with children". Thus, the public on the Internet to "bear children" behind the "bear parents" of the crusade, no less than the bear children, many people said --
hard to educate him"......
The public seems to have reached a **** knowledge: to condemn parents for not disciplining their children, behind every bear child there must be a "bear parent", so as long as there is a "bear child", there must be a "bear parent", so as long as there is a "bear child", there must be a "bear parent". The first time a "bear child" out, netizens commented on the theory are one-sided condemnation of parents do not control their own children.
"Raising a child is not teaching him or her," said the traditional Chinese textbook "Three Character Classic" more than seven hundred years ago. Bear children's upbringing of the original family has an unshirkable responsibility. Family education is the origin of all education, children's manners and upbringing, right and wrong, value perception, half of the family environment from the subtle infiltration. Bear children make mistakes, parents if repeated "calf", the children will be in this process to produce a parent will be responsible for me, I can not completely according to the rules of the illusion of doing.
The problem of bear child education, family education needs to bear the first responsibility.
These are the first time I've ever seen a child in the world, and I'm not sure if I've ever seen a child in the world.
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From the child croaked to the ground, the social atmosphere to the child to convey this view, do not have to follow the rules of the world, abide by the rules will suffer, do not abide by the rules will suffer.
One of the simplest examples, the Disney entrance queue ticketing children full of anticipation to follow the queue, a few adults all the way through the queue to borrow the first, in the practice of the rules of the public occasions adults for the children to personally demonstrate the benefits of "do not abide by the rules", so that the child illusion of the original can be this way.
In the adult world, this kind of "implied" children do not need to comply with the practice of many, you and your girlfriends in the elevator excitedly talking about this little fresh meat and flowers gossip, children in the elevator discussing today's soccer game, you want to be because of your voice is relatively small, the number of people is relatively small, and dislike of the children's decibel high, The number of people is large?
Being in the age of materialism, people always pay too much attention to self-interest and self-development, while ignoring the role of the individual on the whole social upbringing of the subconscious, many times the adult world will not be because of the rules of the game, violating the norms of the community, and even harming others to produce a sense of guilt, not to mention the children?
Therefore, a child becomes a bear behind the lack of family education factors exist, but if the bear child pot all dumped on the family of origin and parents is unfair. The root of the problem is the collective absence of social education, the break of traditional moral education in the material society.
Let's look at a few real examples:
The list goes on and on.
Bear children "bear things" behind the increasingly serious and social environment is inseparable, the information age children have more ways to receive information, parents and teachers are no longer the only way to accept their moral outlook and values cultivation, the era of materialism, unfiltered mass culture in a naked and even bloody way to present in front of the children. The children are presented with the nakedness and even gore of the popular culture, which has a subtle effect on their morals and values, and they become more and more bearish as they follow the crowd and attach themselves to the group, and in many cases they are not able to recognize what's wrong with the "bears" behind their behaviors.
In the case of bear children, public opinion usually reaches a point where they are spoiled, or they are caused by a lack of love and care from their families of origin, but when we are faced with bear children, what we give back to them is indifference or silence, which is also a kind of "spoiled" and indifference.
Bear children, rather than being a spectator, or a sharp moral defender, may wish to reflect on their own practice of the basic norms of the world, etiquette and public morality, with action to tell them the correct way to open up the upbringing.
If the adult world only attack and condemnation, attack the behavior of the bear children, condemn the bear children's parents of all kinds of behavior, and lack of reflection on their own, then the "bear" is not only the child's parents?