Dry sermons make people doze off, interesting stories to remember, the article tells two interesting stories, one is a successful filial son, he is very filial to his mother, food and use of never treat his mother poorly, thoughtful, but in terms of tone of voice, he is a little out of control, whenever there is a feast at home, the mother afraid of not enough food, quietly hide inside the house, he will be loud and clear, and the mother will be very happy. Whenever the family has a banquet guests and friends, the mother is afraid of not enough food to eat, quietly hide in the house to go, he will say loudly: Mom, you do not want to be like this, you can go ahead and eat, you like this, it will let others say I mistreated you it! Whenever he is not happy with his work, his mother came to talk to her a few words, he would be very impatient towards his mother to lose his temper, this is very wrong, many times his mother quietly behind the person to wipe the tears.
Once at home, he received a phone call from a customer at work, when the first few minutes he was still angry at his mother, when he received a phone call from a customer, he immediately changed his face, appearing to be very qualified, speak voice tone tone of voice as if it changed a person, the mother to see in the eyes, the heart is very sad, and so he finished the phone call and asked: you call the customer tone so good, to the The family pet is also very patient, very tolerant, why single to me, talking is this, after listening to his mother this sentence, the son froze, turned back to him to y reflect on his behavior before, he took his mother as a garbage can of his own emotions.
On the other hand, another story, is a successful entrepreneur, whether he is at work or at a meeting when he received a phone call from his family, he never shouted in a hurry, but rather a pleasant face to the phone on the other end of the family, said, "Mom and Dad, I'm going to have a meeting this side of the meeting, I'll call you back later, okay? His gentle tone is next to the people are dumbfounded, surprised, an assistant asked: boss, you work so busy, but still to the family tone so good so good ah! This old boss said, no matter what time, the family is the first, parents raise us is not easy, I can not let them worry, this sentence after listening to make all the people are moved, this is the real filial son, no matter what time to the parents to speak, are all pleasant, and today this "color difficult" theme is to want to keep, good, the face to the parents that is very difficult
The two stories in the The protagonists of the two stories are filial sons, but their first filial piety is to stay in the shallow material aspects, but in the spiritual aspects of their abuse of their mothers, to say the serious point can be regarded as a kind of unfiliality, once read a piece of news, said that the mother sold the rural house, defected to the son, the son of the high cost of living in the big city inside the pressure of life is very high, he is usually sometimes very depressing or sometimes work is not smooth will be towards their mothers Send some small complaints, and the mother is to hold back not to say anything, one day off work he found some things missing at home to ask the mother, the mother said she cleaned up, and then he said, you do not want to move my things, do not enter my room, said this when the face is very ugly, as a result, the next day he went to work, and so he came back from work to hear the news of the mother jumped off the building, this is a tragedy, people should be Often not only to care about the parents material, but also care about their spiritual needs, such as the family has two sons, the eldest son married married, the younger son did not get married, the eldest son will try to introduce the younger son object, in my opinion, this is also a deep filial piety, is to be able to perceive the parents in the heart of what they are thinking, and then go to do something to fulfill their wishes!
After many years, we have grown up, is not often think of the time when we were sick as children, our parents stayed with us, accompanied us all night long, the situation of worrying about the tired, in the middle of the night, we are sick to send us to the hospital situation, we go to the field of study, our parents reluctant to say goodbye to us to the station situation, look at the wrinkles on the face of the father, the mother full of silver hair, the father tired and bent! Look at the wrinkles on my father's face, my mother's head full of silver hair, my father's tired and bent waist, my mother's hands were slender, but now they are very rough, think about these, if you still want to vent your emotions on them, how can you bear it? The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
Previously, I saw a teacher sharing about another level of filial piety on Jieyin, that is, we can't let our parents live too comfortably, and we should let them develop the spirit of resilience and a little bit of hard work, and take the purchase of furniture, and we can't buy so many sofas for the family, and try to replace them with the kind of wooden benches, because the sofas are easy to make the people from work to set up a Gueguolian shape, and over time, it will be the best way to make the family happy. The shape, over time will make the human spirit slack, too comfortable environment, easy to make people sleepy, thus the body is not as good as a day, to prepare not only in the furniture to have such a cognitive, that is, with not too comfortable appliances. In the spirit of the level, such as the elderly when they are young, because they have to earn money to support the family, do not have time to take into account their own interests and hobbies, and now they are retired, have the time, the children will have to explore more of their youthful interests and hobbies, and actively contribute to them to encourage them to complete the unfinished wish of the young, practicing calligraphy, pull the erhu, painting these are good, or exercise, traditional Chinese medicine The eight duanjin is good, or jumping square dance, these should support parents!
A classmate of mine in my hometown, he did a good job, he and I are about the same age, but also two brothers, he is the oldest, when the family was divided into the mother divided into him, he took good care of his mother, her mother is 86 years old this year, the body is still good, I went to his home in the Spring Festival to sit down and chat with her mother for a while, she felt that her body and mental state are good, I face to face to praise me! Classmates, you take care of the elderly so well, it's really not easy, his older brother is also quite good, I once saw him in his circle of friends to share his older brother burning fire, mother cooking, so the mother and son of the tacit cooperation of the scene, the picture is simply too warm!
There is a nursing home in Japan that uses a point system, that is, after the old people get a card into the nursing home, they have to do something to get points, such as how many push-ups a day, how much can do how much to do in this nursing home, all the material have to use points to exchange, if the old man stops, do not do sports, do not get the points, that his life is facing a great problem, so that the old people themselves are very happy to exercise, so that the old man is very happy, so that the old man is very happy. People themselves are very happy to exercise, because there is something to gain, they are also active sports, so the body is getting better and better, more and more long life, this is a very good way to learn from the method, the Japanese this way and method is really good, it is worthwhile for us to learn.
Summary: On the eve of Mother's Day, I share this kind of article with my friends **** encouragement. May our mothers can be treated gently, filial piety, not just stay in the material level, a higher level of filial piety is at the spiritual level, to understand what is in their hearts and minds, and practical action to reach their wishes, and friends *** encouragement!