Long phoenix tire daughter born first, the mother sighed, sister and brother combination and brother and sister combination why the latter is more popular?

Now many hospitals have a very high level of medical team as a whole, they not only have super high medical technology, but also have a strong psychological quality, when faced with the delivery of such a critical moment, the doctor often use witty language to make the mother feel a touch of ease and pleasure, reduce the pressure of the mother, relieve the mother's pain of labor.

Cesarean section surgery, the doctor said a funny mom

A mother of a dragon and phoenix, in the cesarean section surgery, heard the doctor said a first out of the sister, the mother frowned, she has always hoped that the boy out first, so that the brother can protect the sister, if the girl first out of the sister and the brother of the combination of the people always let people think of the "Chicken fly and dog jump".

The mom's subtle expression didn't escape the eyes of the doctor, who smiled and said something like, "Why don't we stuff it back in and do it all over again?

The mother, who was in a very nervous state, heard the doctor's words and laughed out loud.

Netizens praised the doctor's humor and wit, and some said: this De Yun She graduated from the bar, the level of this storytelling paragraph is not ordinary ah!

Why is the latter more popular than the brother-sister combination?

The mother's inner activity is in the psychology of many people, many people want to "brother and sister" combination, and for the "sister and brother combination" is a headache, there are only the following two reasons:

1, brother and sister to get along with a more

Brother and sister combination, more warm and harmonious, brother more willing to guard sister, love sister.

Many families with a combination of brother and sister, the children rarely appear to be jealous of their parents, basically presenting the scene in front of everyone is the family are spoiled little sister.

2, sister and brother combination is said to be the most worrying combination

Sister and brother combination of the degree of worry more than the brother combination, a lot of siblings get along with each other as a child is very difficult, especially the age difference is very small siblings.

Looking at the cases around us, we find that many sibling couples were "beaten" when they were young, as if the elder sister didn't want a younger brother to guard her, and their young hearts were just full of hatred for him.

Why is it that "brother-sister" combinations are harmonious, while siblings have a hard time getting along?

Why is it that a brother can tolerate a sister of his own, and even wants a sister to guard him, while a sister hates her brother so much?

1, the difference between boys and girls

There is still a big difference between the character of boys and girls, many boys from childhood show a kind of protection, they especially like to protect the group weaker than themselves, the existence of the little sister just to meet their desire.

And the little girls don't have this kind of hobby, they just want to enjoy the love of their parents alone, they don't want to have a little brother to share, but if there is a little sister to do the game with them, it may still be acceptable.

2, the influence of the environment

Many regions have a certain degree of "son preference", even if the concept has changed, the form of preference has also changed, the girl as well as the family favorite, but the definition of the girl and the boy is still very different.

Relatives and friends will joke with a little girl that her mother won't like you if she has a little brother, but no one will joke with her brother that her mother won't like you if she has a little sister.

Environmental influences make young sisters especially averse to the arrival of a younger brother.

3. Girls are more sensitive

Girls are more sensitive and vulnerable than boys. When a new member of the family comes, they worry that they will be robbed of everything by the younger brother, and therefore hold strong hostility towards him.

In contrast to the sensitivity of girls, brothers are much more generous, and they are not at all afraid of having their toys taken away from them, or worrying that mom and dad won't love them anymore.

The differences between boys and girls and the environment have led to this phenomenon, and if we want our children to get along harmoniously, the key lies in how we as parents guide our children.

In fact, the children, regardless of the age difference of one year or two years, despite the parents for the children to sort, the children are still children, for some of the difference between the children, especially twins, twins, not recommended to give the children sort, should let the children help each other, rather than requiring the children who are sorted in the front of the children must take care of the children who are sorted in the back.