How to deal with a playboy husband
1, beautiful appearance
A woman's clothes are her "second face". An elegant woman must be a woman who can dress up, dress appropriately, and occasionally change her dressing style, but don't be too outrageous with her temperament.
Step 2 give him face
Men pay great attention to their own face. When you meet a man's friend while shopping, don't be angry when he chats with his friend and ignores you, because he doesn't want his friend to think that he is a henpecked wife.
3, improve the grade
Only women's taste can attract high-quality men, and it is college girls who seduce men with their faces. When youth is absent, enrich the connotation. Improve your taste and make your man feel that you are a different place and temperament from other women.
4. Be proud of him
Men pay attention to their careers, and men with careers have a sense of accomplishment and conquest. At this time, a woman must be happy with him, no matter how successful she is. Men have made progress in their work, and women should show a state of joy and make him feel that you are proud of him.
5, improve the grade
Don't let men think you are rustic and become a veritable "housekeeper". Women don't always have endless bargains. In men's eyes, you have no taste. It is also an affirmation that men have the ability to support their families and go to the mall to buy something with texture.
6. Catch your appetite
There are too many foodies in this society now. Even if your man is not a foodie, he has to eat. The so-called "basic necessities of life", eating is the key. And to tie a man's heart, we must first tie a man's stomach. This sentence must be familiar to everyone. But it does take patience and hard work to achieve it.
How to keep marriage fresh
1. Make eye contact between husband and wife.
Eye contact is the best helper in communication. If we are too busy to look at each other and hold hands with each other, this excuse will make us sad, so we won't do this to our children. So put down your phone, what are you doing, and find out what's wrong with him. When you are depressed, just skip cooking and ask pizza to sit on the sofa and watch a movie.
2. Be calm when there are contradictions.
Couples will always quarrel over something when they live for a long time, but the most important thing is to calm down and sit in the park near their home before talking. Nature has a healing effect. The vast world, a wisp of breeze and a few birdsongs all help to extinguish anger and stabilize emotions. Breathing more oxygen outdoors will also make your mind clearer.
3. Husband and wife should know how to make concessions.
Everyone has his own temper. In marriage, you are usually strong and weak, or I am strong and weak, but it is best to take turns to give in, instead of "I have the final say" and "I am right" every time. Different from outsiders, showing weakness to the other half is a sign of love and coquetry.
4. Buy a gift that suits your heart.
When buying something for each other, many people think that they will need it. In fact, there are also careful machines to give gifts to each other. For example, if your wife gives your husband a vacuum cleaner (in order to make him smoke more), it is better to give him stickers of his favorite camera and game machine, because your gift expresses "I love you, but more importantly, I understand you." It is not easy for the old couple to get along with each other, but it is also worth the effort, because they have walked hand in hand for so long.
How to keep love in marriage?
1, know how to seek common ground while reserving differences.
After marriage, two people with different personalities live together, and their living habits, temper and hobbies will be different. If you are too picky and insist on changing the other person to meet your own standards, it is likely to make the other person dissatisfied and disgusted: I am like this, change it, or myself? It is wise to seek common ground while reserving differences on major issues.
2. The economy is relatively independent.
If you think that if you marry your husband, you will become rich and lazy; Or openly treat her husband as her long-term free meal ticket, which is very dangerous. Once the economy is completely dependent on the husband, marriage will easily deteriorate. A woman can't earn much money, but she must be able to support herself. Even if you want to consider being a full-time mother, you should think twice. Although we know that stay-at-home mothers actually pay a lot, the credit is pale, because there is no actual economic income. Don't quit your job easily, unless your husband fully supports you, or your family is well-off, or there is nothing you can do for other reasons. The days of being a full-time wife have passed for a long time, and because there is no income, it is inevitable that I lack confidence. Even if the husband doesn't look down, the occasional uneasiness will follow.
3. Be confident in yourself.
A confident woman is a charm in itself. If you can't recognize yourself, how can you let others realize that self-confidence depends not only on appearance, but also on connotation, cultivation and morality? A woman with elegant manners is more attractive than a beautiful woman, and a gentle woman is more acceptable than a fierce woman. Improving your self-cultivation may be a lesson that every married woman can't stop.
4. Know how to love others and love yourself at the same time.
After marriage, a woman wears several hats and has responsibilities on her shoulders, so she should cherish herself. It is natural for a married woman to love her husband and family when she is doing housework, and she cannot forget herself. Cherish yourself, in fact, is to cherish your family. There is no doubt about the importance of women in family. It is no exaggeration to compare a woman to a man at the helm. Only when the people in front paddle hard and the people behind firmly steer can the ship sail smoothly to its destination.
5, don't be confused about big things, don't care about small things.
Every home has a stall. We should be principled on major issues and not be confused. It's best not to be too picky about trivial things. If couples often quarrel because of irrelevant things, feelings will not heat up over time, but may also lead to the disappearance of love and the cooling of family ties. How can we be happy if complaints and nagging often echo in our ears?
6. Have certain housekeeping skills.
If you want to run a good family, you will feel powerless without certain housekeeping skills. Women should learn to be a proper "housekeeper". Women often play a very important role in the healthy and stable development of families. The perfect combination of husband and wife's double swords can only be attributed to heaven and nature; But it seems much easier for couples to learn from each other's strengths. A married woman should not only learn how to manage the family, so that she can handle all aspects of the family happily and skillfully, and avoid being overwhelmed and exhausted.
7. You can still keep your hobbies.
Women still have to be themselves after marriage, and they must not be victims of the family. If you don't have your own time, interests, hobbies, entertainment and so on. Except for your family, husband and children, it is easy to feel lost and depressed if there are some minor disappointments from your family. After marriage, women should keep one or two hobbies, have an independent spiritual garden in their spare time, and have their own friends space in real life.
Conclusion: It is said that marriage is the grave of love. In fact, this sentence is not false at all, but it is not true. It depends on how we manage it. Smart women always manage love or marriage well, and they still live a chic life. Such a woman makes us admire. Of course, you can do the same. Don't think that you should invest less in yourself if you get married and have a family. This idea is very wrong. You can't even run a marriage well, let alone a family. So you must love yourself and be an understanding person, so that you can be deeply loved by your husband and catch a man's heart.