Parents always pay more for their children than their children, and there is still no return. No matter how filial, children can't compare with their parents.
In real life, many people may do something unfilial to their parents because of the "evil" of human nature. In addition to children, there are also daughters-in-law.
Originally, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was quite special, but some daughters-in-law haggled over every ounce for one thing, disrespected their mother-in-law and did something contrary to common sense.
An aunt at home came back from her son's daughter-in-law's house and visited our house. She was very depressed and began to wipe her tears when chatting. After listening to my aunt's story, I was surprised that a post-80s graduate student with higher education could do such a big thing to her mother-in-law. Obviously, how bad is her "root"?
Aunt and her wife both worked in factories when they were young. In a small town, they earn hundreds of dollars a month, which is not too bad, but not much better. Life is always tense.
Although life is not rich, she tries her best to provide them with a good education and life.
At that time, she was as busy as a bee every day. After work, she hurried home by bike. When children come home from school, they are only allowed to play and study, and they are never allowed to help with housework. No matter how tired and hard she is, she won't let her teenage children help her.
She said that she and her wife can't make a lot of money just because they don't have a degree, so she must train her two children well and let them live a good life in the future. Therefore, try not to waste children's study time.
Fortunately, these two children are quite successful. Although they are all introverted, they all study well. Two people were admitted to the university one after another, which made the mother who gave everything for them very happy.
My son graduated from graduate school and has a very good job. Although he earns a lot of money, his family has never received a penny from his son.
Auntie is worried that poor family conditions will affect her son's finding a partner. She also saved money for her son to buy a house. However, her worry is obviously unnecessary. Before long, her son found a girl who was his classmate.
After graduation, both of them stayed to work in big cities, and the girl didn't mind seeing the poor conditions at her aunt's house. She made it clear that she was interested in her son's character and ability.
The girl is an only child, and her family is not very good, but in contrast, her family conditions are better than her husband's.
When getting married, my aunt gave all her savings to the bride price and bought a house for her son and daughter-in-law in a big city. I spent all my savings to help my son. As a parent, I have done my duty.
When the son just got married, the daughter-in-law was very filial. Although I don't often go back to my hometown, I always call to care about my in-laws' health and living conditions, and I will leave some money for my mother-in-law every time I go back. But just after the aunt's daughter got married, the attitude of the daughter-in-law changed a lot.
When the daughter got married, her husband's family got a bride price of100000. Aunt doesn't want her daughter to be looked down upon in her husband's family. She gave her daughter 60 thousand yuan saved in the past two years as a dowry. The daughter-in-law is dissatisfied with her mother-in-law because her mother-in-law gave her sister-in-law a dowry of 60 thousand.
Therefore, during the period when the mother-in-law went to serve her daughter-in-law, her daughter-in-law made all kinds of unfilial things.
After the grandson was born, her mother-in-law took 10 thousand yuan to wait on her daughter-in-law by train. Daughter-in-law didn't say hello when she saw her. My mother-in-law was honest and didn't see her daughter-in-law's dissatisfaction at first.
But after a long time, every time I brought a meal to my daughter-in-law, her daughter-in-law was indifferent, and her mother-in-law gradually discovered that something was wrong. At this time, the daughter-in-law recovered almost and began to criticize her mother-in-law. One minute, she said the cooking was too salty, and the other minute she said it was not to her taste.
My mother-in-law has always felt a little inferior. She thinks it's good that people can take a fancy to her son, because her family conditions are not good. As for these daily chores, she doesn't care at all.
However, a good-natured mother-in-law does not mean that her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along well. The mother-in-law choked up when she said what her daughter-in-law had done to her.
I showed my face at first, and then I went out for a month. After returning to work, her mother-in-law took care of the children while cooking at home. It's even more outrageous for a daughter-in-law to come back from work and not let her mother-in-law eat at the table.
Every time a husband and wife sit at the table to eat, the mother-in-law must hold the child first, and then she will eat after her son has finished eating, leaving a bottom on the table. The daughter-in-law won't let her mother-in-law sit in the restaurant, so she can only go to the kitchen to eat those leftovers.
Aunt is sad, indifferent and resentful about these things. She blames her son even more because he has no right to speak at home and listens to his wife.
I think, if my son can be a little stronger, leave the food to his mother in advance, or let his mother eat it first with his child in his arms, it will not make the old man feel chilling.
In fact, in the hearts of some mother-in-law, they are like a mirror, knowing that their daughter-in-law is different from their daughter-in-law. Just because you don't care about your daughter-in-law, doesn't mean they are easy to bully. It's just that a mother wants to take care of her son's marriage and doesn't want to breed trouble. But they won't be humiliated forever.
As an audience, I am shaking with anger, how much my daughter-in-law has gone too far.
Their family of three went out to travel, taking their mother-in-law with them, even if they didn't let her go. They also instruct their mother-in-law to be a nanny. Before they left, they said to their mother-in-law, "You clean up the room at home. When I come back, don't let me see the garbage and yogurt sent every day. Put it in the refrigerator, don't steal it. "
This is a highly educated graduate daughter-in-law, so difficult for her mother-in-law. To outsiders, I don't know how much I envy this mother-in-law. The son and daughter-in-law are so powerful, but who can think of her anger in front of her daughter-in-law?
After she came back, her daughter-in-law's parents followed her home, showing off in front of her mother-in-law that her son-in-law had bought her more than 10,000 jade bracelets. This shows that the root of her daughter-in-law's "evil" comes from her mother.
Mother-in-law did not converge in front of her mother-in-law She rummaged around in her mother-in-law's room. When she saw the flower quilt on the bed, she began to make trouble, crying and shouting that her daughter was unfilial and put such a good quilt on her mother-in-law.
In fact, the quilt was given to her by her son when her mother-in-law first came. My daughter-in-law probably doesn't know, and she usually doesn't go into her mother-in-law's room. After her mother listened, the daughter-in-law went to see the quilt, which they bought when they got married. She didn't cover it once, let her mother-in-law cover it.
The woman pointed to her husband's nose and asked, "Who asked your mother to cover the quilt I bought?" I have never used it once. You let her report it. How to use it in the future? "
The man hung his head and said nothing. Seeing that the daughter-in-law's finger was about to hit her son's head, the mother-in-law pushed it away and the daughter-in-law became angry. She covered the quilt with scissors three or two times and cut it.
While crying, the mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law, "What happened to me? Are you going to toss us like this? " The daughter-in-law had no remorse at all and said, "Your fault is that you gave your sister-in-law a dowry of 60,000 yuan. If you don't leave the money to your son, what's wrong with your daughter? "
Now my mother-in-law knows what the problem is. My daughter-in-law was concerned about this matter. She was very angry and said, "I am not the mother of my son, but also the mother of my daughter." My money is not only for my son but also for my daughter. Compared with your house, what is the tens of thousands of dollars I gave my daughter? "
The mother-in-law was heartbroken and disappointed in her son. She thinks that her well-trained son will be successful and happy, but he is so afraid of his wife that he can even be described as "timid". She stopped babysitting for them and returned to her hometown that day.
Since then, my daughter-in-law has not come to her husband's house every Spring Festival, and her son has come back by himself. However, even if he didn't get better, her mother didn't want to complain. Every time she comes back, she tells him not to quarrel with his daughter-in-law, to be less angry and to live a good life.
To tell the truth, such a daughter-in-law is really rare in the sky and rare underground. A person can be so ruthless in doing things, coupled with the practices of her parents, it can be seen that the roots of this daughter-in-law are really bad.
Good and evil are in one thought. If it weren't for the daughter-in-law's "evil deeds", her mother-in-law wouldn't go back to her hometown, which also shows that she is not smart enough. Originally, her mother-in-law helped to take care of the children, but she was angry with her mother-in-law, and she had to rely on herself in the future.
However, the most important thing is to say that the aunt's son, even if his daughter-in-law is hateful, his silence gives his daughter-in-law courage. If the daughter-in-law is unfilial to her mother-in-law at first, the son can stop it in time and take the attitude he deserves. I believe that her daughter-in-law dare not hide and will not let her mother be wronged.
What parents pay for their children will never be rewarded in their lifetime. We recall everything our parents did for us when we were young, and even when we grow up, we have to take out their life savings to buy a house for us and help us get married.
But what did we do? A son has no ability to protect his mother in front of his wife. What is there to talk about filial piety?
Time flies. When we grow up, our parents get old. Even if we can't give our parents a good life, it doesn't matter that we still need their help, but at least don't let our parents be wronged.
Parents' love for their children is selfless, so affection has become the most precious feeling in the world. Filial piety can be shown in front of parents, and a filial piety is a good child; Aunt Weng can be filial, but she falls on filial piety and morality.