"Man, either lonely or vulgar" Do you think lonely is terrible, or vulgar is terrible?

Loneliness is not terrible, vulgarity is very terrible! Most lonely people are smarter and self-aware. Many lonely people, in some way are very good! And vulgar people are extremely scary! Because vulgar people, on the surface look very smart, in fact, can not distinguish between good and bad, and even more lack of mastery. There are often reports on the Internet about how many people have been cheated tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, millions of dollars, these people usually think they are smart, but in fact, they are very vulgar people, otherwise how could they be cheated out of their hard-earned savings? Lonely people are also divided into two kinds of people, one is a lonely person with autism, the other is to make more time space, conscious loneliness.

So many people say loneliness is not terrible, think vulgarity is terrible. But I'm partial to vulgarity not being scary.

If you were given 10 million dollars to live vulgarly, would you do it?

Let's look at what vulgar means: mediocre and despicable, no opinion, people also cloud, go with the flow, do nothing, get by, do not think about making progress, these are the manifestations of vulgarity.

So most of us are vulgar people!

We disparage vulgarity, but we favor it.

We all know that music is elegant, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting is Yangchunbaixue, but still have no choice but to go to the bar, karaoke, playing mahjong.

Literature is elegant, right, but those who all recommend to you the world's most famous books, you may never go to read.

You will be more likely to read a novel that makes you cry and laugh.

There are so many scientists in history, so many famous people who have contributed to society, and yet they don't have the same impact as a few vulgar celebrities.

Vulgarity may not be great, but it is certainly powerful.

Why is it that there are so few listeners to "The White Snow" and so many fans to "The White Man"? Because the more ordinary people, the more lack of distinctive features, because it is difficult to find their own sense of existence, he prefers to get close to those things similar to him over and over again, from which to find the fuzzy image of self.

But why do so many people fear vulgarity?

People have the desire to succeed, are not willing to be mediocre, so even in the vulgar world, even if it has become a mediocre person inside, but still fantasize about being a lonely person.

Loneliness is the high and low, is the total people are drunk I wake up alone, really has been let a person alone down really not terrible?

Only the truly valuable people will not be afraid of loneliness, because he does not have to get anything from others.

You and I are all mortals

Born in the world

All day long, we run hard

A moment of leisure

Since we are not immortal

Inevitably, there are distractions

Laozi is lonely, but I dare to say that he is happy. Confucius is lonely I also dare to say that he is happy, a person can taste the joy of life in loneliness is a very high level of life existence. Then is in the solitude to enjoy belongs to the high quality of happiness, or in the vulgarity of the pleasure of flattering others, high and low self-evident.

A person should be able to withstand the prosperity and also to endure loneliness, loneliness is difficult, but do not become vulgar.

From childhood to adulthood, many talented people which is not experienced the baptism of loneliness

It can be said that loneliness is the gift of life.

All are not terrible: one, lonely to have the ability, hard-hearted, can be hard on themselves. Wood show in the forest certainly beckons the wind, and then if, difficult to not grow backwards? Secondly, vulgar also line, is not just thick skin! Mediocre will be able to see the scenery to join in the fun, whether it is a square dance or mahjong poker, as you wish, not with the loner general knowledge, do not have to pretend