In fact, this state seems to have a little split, as if it is two completely different styles and personalities, but a boy if he can be gentle to you, but when you are not happy and can show a very amusing side, to make you happy, can also prove that he is really a good man.
At this point, a guy's attitude towards you determines whether or not he really loves you, whether or not he really thinks about things from your point of view, and if he's just very cold towards you, just being himself all the time, then maybe she's really showing her true self.
But for you there will inevitably be some uncomfortable existence, like you will feel why she seems to always go to their own center and did not take into account your feelings.
On the contrary, a person who is very gentle to you, and also very interesting, will fundamentally attract you to his attention, you will be more to rely on him. This is also very favorable to the development of the relationship between the two people.
Maybe for the boys, the nature of the tease is a kind of natural born from it, but more or will look at your face, a lot of people's funny, only limited to his very owed, will make you feel more uncomfortable.
But a very gentle and funny to you, from the essence of the person will be very plus points, and will not let you feel that he is very annoying, and even said that you intentionally want to go close to him.
This is why some girls feel that the jokes of the boys are out of place, which will make them more difficult to get out of this difficult feeling, but will add to their own difficulties.
So the character is actually a very powerful weapon for a boy, a gentle and funny boy will be more attractive to girls attention.