I read a questionnaire called "What is the best state of life for a woman?
What struck me was that the vast majority of people chose not the need to have extremely beautiful beauty, or inexhaustible money, but a healthy body, a happy family and a favorite career.
In my opinion, I am surrounded by women who are in great shape, most of them are ordinary women, moms, wives, employees, who have troubles and difficulties in their lives, but still can be said to have a happy life.
I have found that the best state of life is not about how much money you must have or how high your social status is, but the balance of mind and body is a state that can be achieved by us ordinary people.
The following points, if a woman has most of them, the day will not be bad, if all have, then you must have a very happy life.
Enough confidence
About confidence, the Internet is this way:
Self-confidence is a will never be taken by outsiders, and will always belong to the woman's own wealth, cover them, become their most seductive beauty.Why do you say that women must have self-confidence? Because self-confidence is a woman's best ornament.
Confident women, not necessarily say to look how beautiful, but because of that self-confidence, they instantly become radiant, light and noble.
In any occasion, they are the most dazzling focus, and never worry about the aging of the face and the loss of charm.
The best state of a woman's life is always a face full of confidence, no matter what kind of difficulties encountered, can raise their sails, all the obstacles will be swept away, living out some of their own world.
The most pathetic thing about women is not that they are getting old, but that they are losing themselves.
Women's most lamentable thing is not that they are no longer in good health, but that they are not confident at all.
Do a confident woman, smile to the sun, bright show self, laugh at the clouds, appreciate the city full of flowers, then, you will be all the way dashing, all the way to happiness.
Stick to sports
What is the best cosmetics and skin care products for women? It's actually exercise.
For women, beauty can be said to be a lifelong career, and the best way to stay beautiful is never plastic surgery or using expensive skin care products, but exercise.
The benefits of exercise for people in their 20s may not make much of a difference, but as time passes, the more you can see how important it is for a woman to exercise.
Women who are able to exercise consistently maintain a better body shape and a better mental state.
The older the body is, the more obvious the benefits will be, such as the lack of pain and suffering, the mood will be more optimistic and calm, more positive state of mind and so on.
Stick to sports, not that there is how much exercise, but have the habit of exercise, you can go out every week, playing ball, hiking, running, and even square dancing can be.
To look younger and more beautiful than your peers, start now and go exercise.
Financially independent
A woman who is financially independent has her whole being glowing.
What she wants, she can earn, and when she encounters a problem, she can solve it herself.
The woman who is independent enough, she herself is her own biggest bottom.
Actress Tao Hong said: My sense of security is all built on my success, are given by themselves.
Life, do not rely on others to be strong, but to rely on their own maturity.
The pain you suffer, the tiredness you suffer, are the best medal on the road of your growth.
Independent women, no matter how much money you earn, how much you have achieved, you can live enough to be comfortable, live enough to be comfortable, because you rely on yourself!
What you earn on your own is the most solid, how much no one dares to shame you.
Kind-hearted
Tolstoy said:
Without simplicity, kindness and truthfulness, there is no greatness.Man's nature is good, goodness is the eternal sunny side of human nature, the more goodness the more fortunate, the more goodness the more great.
A kind woman is more likely to gain the favor and adoration of others, because in front of such a woman, do not have to worry about fear, do not have to keep guard at all times.
Kind women, most of the people are quite good, very popular in life.
They know how to leave a way out for themselves, and no matter what happens, they get angry, but they don't take things too far.
However, the point that must be made here is: women, you can be kind, but don't be too generous.
There is nothing wrong with being a kind woman, but don't take the goodness to bind yourself, so that the standard of doing interferes with the effect of doing things, so that your life is bound by the goodness of the depressed, so it is not worth it.
Kindness is not a bottomless softness, softness is an unfair kindness.
Your kindness, must bring a little sharp, in the fulfillment of others at the same time, do not forget to first complete their own.
Mind and body free
Women, never lose yourself because of a person.
Because you care about a person to pay all your own;
Because you like a person to humble your own heart;
Because you are attached to a person to lose their own happiness.
The feelings of this thing, are two people's things, do not put their own rest of life, will be given to a person who does not care about you.
Those that make you cry your heart out, there is no you in your heart at all.
Zhou Guoping said: life should have the wisdom of not competing. Life can't be all it's cracked up to be, and life can't be smooth sailing.
In the storm, we have to learn to give ourselves an umbrella;
In adversity, we have to learn to give ourselves a boost.
What is the best state of a woman?
Look away and look down, don't care about anything, don't compare yourself, don't get it, don't ask for it, don't fight for it, don't fantasize about it.
Women, I hope the rest of your life is confident enough to insist on sports, financial independence, good heart, physical and mental freedom!
Life is a pile of trivialities, such as if you are too calculating, where there are obstacles, such as if you are relaxed, what is not a problem!