It's a lot more than that when it comes to everyday life.
1: often change the look, so that the other party to keep you fresh!
2: Praise each other with your body language at the right time.
3: Make him laugh and develop your own sense of humor．
4: Relationships should be "above friends, below lovers"
5 to have **** the same language, talk about things he is interested in. Impress each other with sincerity, if you are sure you really like him and not planning to play him. Feet on the ground, do not brush any measurement with him to confess your inner thoughts, I think this is more to let the other side touched, at least he thinks you are not a hypocrite, is a very real and honest people, is not it? Love him to say it, do not be afraid of anything, do not worry about anything, but the mind decides everything, if he agreed, you do not rejoice, should treat him well, if he refused, you do not be discouraged, because "is your, want to run can not run, not your, you how to pursue is also futile," reluctant love is unhappy, only two people willingly and mutually. Only two people willingly, mutually love each other, such love is the sweetest, and finally hope that you go well (if you do get stuck in the want to pursue the boy and dare not open the mouth of the plight of words) Taboo one: yellow accent, hairy hands and feet.
Taboo 2: Lipstick and girlishness.
Taboo 3: dirty talk, dirty mouth.
Taboo four: stingy, stingy, stubborn.
Taboo five: the elegant, vulgar and intolerable.
Taboo six: fearful, boring gourd.
Taboo 7: chauvinism, bullying.
Taboo 8: stalking, chasing.
Taboo Nine: unkempt, unkempt Taboo Taboo Taboo Taboo: It's impolite to just give people gifts
Some people are eager to chase boys, like to often things to send people, not knowing that chasing boys is the most taboo this.
As the saying goes, "you don't get paid for what you don't get", you send people things like this is to put pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so they will find a way to return to you, and if they don't have a way to return to you, they will find a way to not socialize with you, so as not to be always indebted to you.
If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask the boy to spend money with you, for example, to find a good restaurant to eat, or to find an expensive place to play together, or something, the boy can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately the two people together to spend rather than turn into something to take home. What kind of first impression should be given to MM (time: just start contacting MM)
1, I think the most critical, is to let MM see your motivation.
Men's greatest attraction is the success of the cause, young people do not work long enough to talk about "success", this time you have to let the MM feel that you are a person with a sense of progress.
Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell MM, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2, to appear confident and responsible
Don't be like a little kid, boys are lazy hope to find a dependence, you have to come up with their own confidence and responsibility.
It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
3, don't be too serious, but not too casual
The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting.
Girls like a little cynical men, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull. 4, look a little more mature, civilized love, can not be forced. The word "love" is a sacred word, means pursuit, also means commitment, and even embodies a responsibility.
The girl who just says "love" is irresponsible.
Any boy's psyche is complicated when he's being pursued. He may be happy, but with a little trepidation, he has the ambivalence of refusing to meet the girl who has come into his peaceful life, she he did not mean it. Don't think he's testing you, he's actually struggling with himself.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring him resentment, you do not take the initiative, he did not take the initiative, but also slowly fade down. If you start the confession was his refusal, that is also very normal ah. Don't be discouraged, who knows what is in the heart of this boy? Maybe you confess twice more, he will be impressed by you, a good boy with a good heart is very easy to move.
If you get a setback, immediately leave, never answer the boy, protect yourself tightly, licking wounds in silence, in your pain at the same time, unaware that the boy may also be in the heart of regret, regret it! Maybe he will secretly cry, regret refusing you, and then see your indifferent eyes, he is also very painful, but he will not say to you, definitely not request you to come back to chase him. Your excessive pride may hurt the boy's sensitive heart.
He'll think you don't sincerely like him, or else how could you have just given up on him?
Some people say it's so hard for girls to chase boys. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social roles of men and women. From the biological and social point of view, men are always passive. If the other way around, so that the men are veins shy, women become courageous and forward, the world is in chaos! Women's shyness is always beautiful, moving ah ~ I have always heard of a brave man overcame how many difficulties, and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are far fewer examples to the contrary.
Some girls, they are afraid of what others say about themselves stalker, fall into a bad reputation. But I think the girls pursue their favorite boys, a little frustrated still continue to this boy good, that people really like, very sincere, if not successful, but also not sorry, and nothing ah? Who let people like it? I hate it when people follow me around, and I hate it when I don't have an idea, and I care too much about what other people think of me, so I guess it's a good thing that I can't find a girlfriend.
It is a woman's right to be brave, the boy is emotional, easy to immerse in love. Although you pay hard, and once your heart impressed him, then you will get more and longer doubled love. Such examples abound around. Girls are very gentle and sweet to their boyfriends, in exchange for this sweet, the beginning of the hard work is nothing ah? And most of the good girls are quite devoted and dedicated to love.
So, it is recommended that some girls be brave, to pursue their favorite boys, do not be so timid, one is your own strange hard, two is the most important still: the last you can not get anything. Happiness is always earned, don't expect others to give it to you!
Adding another sentence, I think it's good to take the initiative a little bit, because your goal is your own sincere favorite, boys are often passive, passive can only choose to accept and reject, so I'd rather take the initiative, love my love, no regrets!
----- Life is beautiful, happiness in it, to learn to find!
One should give MM what kind of first impression (time: just started contact with MM)
1, I think the most critical, is to let MM see your motivation.
Men's greatest attraction is the success of the cause, young people do not work long enough to talk about "success", this time you have to let the MM feel that you are a person with a sense of progress.
Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell MM, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2, to appear confident and responsible
Don't be like a little kid, boys are lazy hope to find a dependence, you have to come up with their own confidence and responsibility.
It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
3, don't be too serious, but not too casual
The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting.
Boys like a little cynical women, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull.
4, look mature
The man who is calm and unhurried has a fatal attraction for MM.
Second, how to start further contact with MM (time: the beginning of the chase stage)
1, this stage is the most critical can not be in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing people.
Think about it, the average person will not look at you at a glance, but will not look at a glance hate you, are the children of the people's home (unless you look like Chow Yun-Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), the good sense is needed to realize with the understanding of the increasing, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to develop further.
Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you are so direct rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact after a while found that you do not like you, then it is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition, basically will be immediately smothered back.
2, to start with a low profile
First of all, the relationship should be positioned as a "friend", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become a "good friend", there is a "good friend". The taste can also ask each other to become a "confidant" or something, in short, never say "chase you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chase" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - you didn't chase her how to reject you!
This will reduce the psychological pressure on the girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Do not fantasize about knowing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not produced out of thin air.
3, do not be too impatient in the process of dating
To have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is so to you, you will be tired. I have a good friend said to me, the key to chasing girls is the eight words - "cold and hot, want to catch the long way" (this is the crystallization of my classmates how many years of hard work).
You pester people all day long naturally do not feel good about you, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits of you in.
And don't come up with "non-marriage" aspirations, too much to fall bad, sometimes you can play a little trick.
4, to create the appropriate opportunity
The previous said, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, this time it depends on your creativity.
You can gather information and find a way to turn a wait-and-see into an encounter, or you can play it cool and find the best possible reason to invite someone to do something with you.
All in all, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice.
5, cut taboo cut taboo: randomly send people gifts is not polite
Some people chase girls eager, like often things to send people, but do not know chase girls most taboo this.
As the saying goes, "you don't get paid for what you don't get", you send people things like this is to put pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so they will find a way to return to you, and if they don't have a way to return to you, they will find a way to not engage with you, so as not to be always indebted to you for favors.
If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask the girls to spend money together, such as looking for a good restaurant to eat, or looking for expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately the two people together and spend it instead of turning it into something to take home.
Three, "girlfriend" in the end what?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise
You and the girl began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to "very very good friends". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person, and then kiss her. She's already your girlfriend at this point, and whether or not she recognizes it, she's already thinking you're her boyfriend.
I know the most brilliant, until the bed have not asked "whether you are willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl was anxious: "How do you not beg me to do your girlfriend ah!
So, don't be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said earlier, confession is actually a formality, and the correct order should be: in fact, it has become your girlfriend, you can confess to others, and the water will flow. Many people do not understand this problem, always think that people first promised to do their girlfriend, and then how to how, I can only say that very very "simple", but also very very "stupid".
3. Is there a time when you have no choice but to express your feelings?
There are times, such as when there is a third party, or when your relationship with a girl is not mature, but the two of you may be apart for a while.
This time the confession is the conditions of immaturity confession, the risk is very great, similar to the game of Go when the situation is critical, the backward party forced to put out the "winners and losers", win, lose can only say that "bad luck are born". The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money and a lot of money. Some of the best words to chase girls:
1, first of all, let him think you can, it is best that he still some like, at least not to make her hate.
2, chase to be tight, but can not let her bored, can not have the suspicion of deadbeat.
3, get on with the people around her, especially her girlfriends, and the girls in the same dorm. And his relatives.
4, sweet words are naturally the most powerful weapon, but not let her think you are shallow. Pitch in and show some aspect of your talent.
5, pay attention to her hobbies and interests, care about her life and emotions, and take care of her without a trace.
6, send gifts is also very important, not necessarily very expensive, but to her like. Let her see your heart, and careful.
7, important time, be bold, the time to strike, do not shrink, the time to strike. If her heart has acquiesced to you kissing her or holding hands and so on, you must be brave and break the boundary. It will be a good thing to do in the future! Oh ...... of course, and even less reckless!!!! If she doesn't want to ...... never yet, that will only make her hate! So the timing of the most important 1!
8, step by step, perseverance. Maybe he didn't agree to it now, just testing you, don't be fooled!!!! Maybe she's not treating you well, doesn't seem to mean it, or avoids you, in fact, maybe she's testing you too.
To withstand the test ah ！！！！！
The means of chasing girls (categorized) (to the choice, wish you success!!!)
(1) chase silent and arrogant type of girls
What seems to be quite tricky. In fact, this kind of girls appearance cold, inner often wild, they generally like a little wilder boys. If you are the kind of well-mannered boy, looks and not good, the possibility is relatively small, or another good person's good. If other people's evaluation of you is "so cool oh!" then you're in for a big treat! If you don't get rejected the first time you ask, don't miss your chance! They may start to treat you with disdain. Don't get discouraged.
Be persistent and even persistent. Ask to see a movie, ask to dance, ask to ice skate, go to the study room she frequents, are all good ploys. Be sure to look for more opportunities to express yourself, more and more (of course Iloveyou or save it for last, lol) ...... For this type of girl, your outward show of true feelings is very attractive.
This kind of girl generally chase the time need to be longer. If you're graduating or leaving school soon now, it seems better not to start. So as not to waste ...... Oh. But after chasing her, she'll generally be dead on her feet and you'll be floating around thinking you're the happiest BF in the world! Haha.
(2) Chase romantic fantasy type of girls
If you really like such a girl, I first remind you - you have to taste all the sweet and sour! This kind of girl seems to be more for the pursuit of the spirit than for the material, in fact, the opposite is true. Romance requires money to create. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider carefully. As she is very fond of wind and flowers, flowers and chocolates, you send more gifts can best tug at her heartstrings.
To chase this kind of girl into your hand, don't be stingy with your small money. The sky except the moon, the ground except ...... (What? I can't think of it) as long as she wants, you have to try your best to get it without hesitation. The usual roses, snacks, is more subtle to see the spirit ...... In short, if you want to chase this kind of girl, usually must cultivate more to read the girl's mind ability. The girl around the roommate classmates, don't forget to bribe more.
They will tell you a lot of useful information. And your own dress must be more thought, do not all day rustic. (After chasing a girl, you can rest assured that you can show your true colors, because in her eyes you are no longer dirt.
Looking for her to play it should also be more to the romantic place to go, such as spring tour, dance, watch love story movie ...... She slowly will not be able to leave your care and attention, haha! Such a girl although it is very costly yourmoney, but will also bring you a lot of beautiful fun, as long as you really like, you can still live a happy and fulfilling life.
(3) Chasing a gentle and considerate girl
This kind of girl is the giving type. Once she becomes your GF, she will be considerate and caring and gentle, making you feel the warmth and reliability of love. Can chase this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be better to chase (and suitable for all types of boys), as long as she does not hate you, and you are worthy of her. Now let's discuss the means.
First of all, you need to take care of her in life and study. It doesn't need to be material, but it needs to be a kind of care from the heart, appearing in front of her when she is in need of someone's help. (A word of caution here: you must be more observant in order to find a good opportunity to start.) Of course if you're a romantic, sending a gift of flowers for the holidays is foolproof.
At first, you can send something of a friendly nature, and then when you feel you can express it (for example, when she starts to look at you differently than she looks at other people or when she looks a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send roses! If you do not intend to spread so much, you can study on weekdays after the small talk in the flow of some, and when the time is ripe, suddenly came to a "and you feel so good together," and so on, she is not to avoid, you can take advantage of the iron, said that you have long been wanting to say the words. The best time to choose in the evening: the night people's ability to prevent is weak. If she began to avoid, do not force, you can then silently care, until she moved until.
BTW: If you usually have little contact with her, she does not know you when she has been aiming at her, you can through you and her *** with friends, pretending to know by chance, and then through the same study room and then a few "chance encounters" to deepen the impression, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl honestly, after chasing to be very safe. In fact, it depends on the individual, some do not let her super time away from you, really not, then to diligently write letters, fight.
(4) chase lively cute type girls
This kind of girl seems to like quite a lot of people. And they are often the first to have BoyFriends in new environments. It's not that they're easy to chase, but they're often in the driver's seat. Like this kind of girl, if she also like you, then it is very easy, more and more contact with her, and then occasionally also expressed a good feeling for her, she and you synchronized to the goal closer. If she does not like you (or worse, she even like another person), do not be discouraged. As long as you still have a chance, you have to go for it (of course, if you are just average to her, you don't have to). You can start with her as a friendship and try to cultivate the same hobbies as she has ****. And in the meantime, your humor, open-mindedness is very important, so that she is still thinking about you on the way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she is more active with you than with him.
At this point you can take the obvious plunge and make her your GirlFriend, and if she and he like each other, and if you think she's worth taking the rap for, there's every chance you can strike a final blow before they've even talked to each other. At this point, opportunity is very important.