Men looking for a wife, not necessarily to find a beautiful, but must find "suitable" for their own. A man's taste lies in the choice of wife, choose what kind of wife is equal to choose what kind of life. As the saying goes, men are afraid to enter the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, men are not, write "Vegetable Roots Tan" Hong Yingming said "tough wife ìììììììììììììì_, really not as deaf! The strong demon is not as long as the light, marriage is also like this.
What kind of wife is good? Of course is to find a good wife good! But a "good" word includes millions of standards, covering a variety of requirements. The man looking for a wife is a very risky task, because the twenty-something hairy young man looking for a girlfriend, one does not have life experience, two have no social experience, the marriage may be faced with the increasingly dull family life is not fully prepared for the mind.
The attraction to the opposite sex comes mostly from eye contact, not realizing that eye contact at different ages and levels of knowledge may bring men completely different women. Some men pay more attention to appearance, body; some men more important thought and temperament. In any case, there is no right and wrong choice, only suitable and unsuitable difference. But when you marry your chosen wife and live your life behind closed doors, life will give you a clear answer: are you looking for a good wife.
The girl's family:
The most important trait of a wife is the background of her family of origin. Don't underestimate this family of origin, all of a woman's principles of being a man and the way of life come from her family of origin. She is not educated, have character, have insight; can not honor in-laws, under the child-rearing; is not regardless of the good times and bad times can work with their husbands to support, love; in the dedication to the family at the same time, is not still able to enrich themselves; their own life is a what kind of requirements. All the intangible qualities are from the family of origin, and she will teach the next generation. The upbringing of the family of origin is really more valuable than a rich dowry, and it is no exaggeration to say that it will affect a family for generations to come.
Girl's temper:
In the eyes of men, you can not be beautiful, can not be rich, but should be understanding, can not have a bad heart, even if the man did something wrong, it is best not to chase after the fight, men like to be able to give their husbands a little bit of face of a woman with a high degree of emotional intelligence. The woman's character determines the fate, this sentence is not bad at all. In a family, a woman's character may determine the state of life of the family. Gentle and virtuous wife to give you a warm as spring home; open-minded and cheerful wife to give you a happy and relaxed home; hardworking and capable wife to give you a fresh and clean home; of course, bad character of the wife can also let you directly experience what is called worse than death.
Girls' past and present:
Men like women also like to investigate each other's past, but also hope that they can be the only one, the other party can be dedicated enough, who do not have their own prince dream princess dream it. In fact, we all understand very well, in the early stages of the relationship between the two sides will be more or less hide their own character, therefore, a more comprehensive and real understanding of the girl's current situation, including work and living conditions, self-care ability, will be a good basis for boys to judge.
Have a stable income. Not dependent on the man to survive woman can be independent, self-esteem. There is no excessive material desires. This is very important! Since ancient times, the failure of thrift by luxury. Not to mention the status quo and optimistic nature so that she can continue the youth. Excessive vanity tends to make non-"rich" men produce mental tension, and even overwhelmed by it. Should the BMW car to sit, the bicycle can also ride; five-star hotels to live, camping tents do not mind, eat the bitter, the first person.
Women's IQ:
Men who are more intelligent may also be ruined in the hands of a stupid wife, why? Because a woman's IQ determines how smart the next generation will be. Boys accept 100% of their mom's IQ, girls accept 50%. Even if this statement is not so scientifically accurate, you can imagine that a mom with a below average IQ will have a hard time raising smart and intelligent children, that definitely violates the laws of genetics.
Looking requirements are not as strict as height requirements. Men do not like to marry too beautiful and make-up women, from the man himself is not proud, men always think that too beautiful women will face a variety of temptations, in order to avoid their own cuckolding, so the man prefers the body of the average woman tall. Men are attracted to tall women, on the one hand, it is sexy and eye-catching, but more importantly, men will consider the height of the next generation. For this reason, in the pile of men, the dress plain, plain face of the tall woman is the most popular.
What kind of wife do men look for the most prosperous husband? First of all, because the human appearance is with the passage of time and old, the only thing that remains unchanged is the beauty of the soul, a mature man will be more aware of this. Just like why the prince did not choose Cinderella's sister in the end, because of their cruel heart, like Cinderella has good qualities of women is a lot of princes dreaming of the object. So the most important point is the beauty of the heart.
Phases are born from the heart, a girl with a beautiful heart will be helpful to men. She is indifferent to fame and fortune, contentment, in the face of a variety of challenges and temptations in life, she will not be easy to see profit and forget, see money and forget love, and will not be in a difficult situation in the love of the push of thousands of miles, "down the well". Such a woman can really become a man's "spiritual mentor", leading the whole family through difficult times, towards glory.
Men in the absence of pressure, it is easier to stimulate imagination and creativity, women can give him peace of mind, rest assured of a strong backing, no worries he can be free, galloping in the cause of the battlefield, so that men are more likely to succeed.