1, choose your spouse carefully
Don't lower your standards of mate selection just because you are lonely. All kinds of people want it. If others treat you better, they will think it is true love. Slow down and wait for the right person to appear.
2. PUA without self
Never influenced by others, what they say and do is none of my business! I just want to be myself. Why should I reflect on my own problems when the other party said those hurtful words?
Don't lower your posture outside.
People with personality will gain the respect of others. What are you afraid of talking to people? You owe him money? Or stole his rice? The more humble you are, the more people look down on you! So stand up straight!
4. Cultivate pure sensibility
If you dwell on the past, a mistake will keep you awake for several nights. When people look at them, they think they are speaking ill of themselves. Whatever they say is their problem, not yours. Caring for someone who has nothing to do with you will only make you lose more than you gain.
Step 5 have your own opinions
The rich will tell you that if you want to succeed, you must work hard. Ordinary people will tell you that hard work is not necessarily rewarding. Everyone has different experiences and different world views. Cultivate your own opinions and tell yourself what road to take with your own experience.
6. Know how to keep silent
Don't tell everyone everything from the heart, but also speak ill of others at once. Remember to speak ill of others, and sooner or later your secret will become better than others.
7. It won't last three minutes.
I want to learn guitar today and editing tomorrow. There are a lot of tutorials. Click section 1 Close. Stop this behavior and make up your mind to do one thing for at least a week. If you do it, you win.
8. Spiritual independence
Emotionally and mentally, you don't depend on anyone. Others just give you advice and can't make decisions for you. Stop saying these words: "whatever, I'll do it, I'll do it. What do you think? What should I do?" Let's talk about it when we have our own ideas.
9. Be kind to your parents.
Only parents can really think of you. People who are kind to you in society will consider their own interests. The essence of interpersonal relationship is value exchange, and only parents rarely have selfishness towards you.
10, keep exercising.
It's not the pursuit of vest line and A4 waist, these are materialized women's values. But for your own health. Keep warm blood and keep exercising. It is also to stay away from illness and have a good body in the future.
1 1, never give up.
Giving up is just a synonym for the weak. Failure 1 time does not mean failure. So what? Everything in the world has its own internal laws. As long as you master them, you can succeed. Giving up now is tantamount to saying goodbye to your previous efforts.
12, away from short-lived happiness
TV series, games, entertainment variety shows will make you happy in a short time. Those who make you unhappy in the short term will definitely give you great returns at some point in the future.