The daughter went to grandma's house. After a few days, her parents almost didn't recognize her. Netizen: the baby who walked out of the New Year pictures.
Ms. Mo is a fashionable hot mom. She has different dress requirements not only for her own clothes, but also for her four-year-old daughter Youyou, who just went to kindergarten. She dresses her daughter beautifully every day.
For a time, the long sweet wind and princess wind dresses have become an example for parents of baby girls in kindergartens to follow, and Ms. Mo is deeply proud of this. However, just a few days after the child was sent back to her hometown to look after her grandmother during the winter vacation, something happened that subverted her aesthetic standards, which really made her laugh and cry. A few days after sending the children to grandma's house, Ms. Mo and her husband are going to pick them up. However, when she returned to her grandmother's house, she was shocked to see her parents meet her in front of her house. This dress almost didn't recognize her. bow wow: "Which Fuwa is this?"
I saw the little daughter wearing a red cotton-padded jacket, her pink face was red, and a round and red Zhu Shazhi was lit on her eyebrows. Two small balls tied with braids were tied on her round head, and a red flower was tied on each side of the ball. At this point, the yo-yo saw mother, blunt come over with a big smile. His big eyes looked at her like stars.
People and individuals in different times have different aesthetic and life concepts. Having old people take care of our children at home has different influences on their personalities.
First, I can feel the warmth and gentleness of my family.
Nowadays, most parents are busy from morning till night to earn money for work, and have little time to spend with their children. In my spare time, I mostly play mobile phones and watch TV to relax the pressure of life, which can give my children little companionship and care. If the children are left to the care of the elderly at home, not only can the children get timely care, but also some elderly people can be entrusted. Moreover, with the growth of the elderly, their minds are more mature and stable, and they can adapt to the children's playfulness and impatience to a certain extent. This makes the child's character more gentle and caring.
Second, let children have a caring heart.
In the mode of children getting along with the elderly, their common topic is nothing more than food, clothing, housing and transportation, such as "Are you full? Are you picky about food? Dining etiquette? Is it cold to add clothes? " In the details of daily life, children will imitate some behaviors of the elderly under their careful care. It is said that children are best at and most willing to imitate the behavior of people around them. Under the care of the elderly in their daily lives, children are also vulnerable to infection, thus developing a heart that knows how to care for others.
Third, it can reduce children's obsession with electronic products.
Nowadays electronic products are widely used, and children are always attracted by such magical and attractive products. As young parents, we are familiar with all kinds of electronic products, but most old people don't seem interested. Therefore, most elderly people may choose to go for a walk, write, read a book or dance in the square dance in the park, which can reduce their children's exposure to electronic products to a certain extent, and even worse, they may learn a skill from the elderly.
Everything has advantages and disadvantages. The topic of old people taking care of children still needs specific analysis. If you blindly throw your child to the old man,
It is somewhat inappropriate to take care of or dislike the elderly to help with the baby.