Women must know: to be a lover junior than to be a confidante!
Your relationship will not be sensitive and fragile to unbearable, because there is no money hold, do a man's confidant, you can be his listener, is his mind reader, there may be a lot of words he will not tell his wife or friends of the same sex, but he will tell you. In this world, what men need most, in addition to a wife, may also have a confidante. The most important thing about being a confidante is to adhere to boundaries. Confidante is not a lover, so there will be no love, but no love is not necessarily no love, men on confidantes is more of an identity, sometimes such as siblings, sometimes as friends, you can go drinking and traveling, you can also sing and dance, because it is not a lover's relationship, so I feel particularly open and fearless, is that there are rumors and gossip will not care. Can dare to be a man's friend of the woman must be chivalrous woman, and this kind of bright character for men to appreciate at the same time will taste your femininity. Usually, the wife is the confidant, and confidant is the listener. In front of her man can be a tired bird is a prodigal son, can be tired, lonely, escape, idleness, and confidant can accept your dark night, give you quiet, do you restore energy space. Only those women whose character is full of open-minded tolerance, only those women with a beautiful heart are qualified to be a man's confidante, she will not steal people's husbands, only want to share a good man's home of the mind, in his home of the mind to do a short stay, so that each other's hearts are full of pleasure, and love is completely different. Just as a man is sick, the wife will cry, she is afraid of your pain, afraid of your death, hate for your pain, for you to die, she cried and cried, obsessed, let you move, let your mind is difficult. And confidant not, she just come to comfort you, let you choose to be strong, choose to bear the things that should be borne in life. Crying because of love you, do not cry because understand you, the two nature is absolutely different. A man once said, if there is a life of beauty such as flowers virtuous wife, and then there is a sword and guts confidant, that because of how lucky men. Do men's confidant, the key is to grasp the "degree", do not give you any opportunity to transfer to the lover relationship, that will only let you go farther. Because the road of the lover is nothing more than two, one is divorced you married, built on the pain of others love will never be happy; the other is to break up, there is no forever lover, lover will not be forever. But confidant is different, you can be his life confidant, lover has countless tears, and confidant is always sunny. So do confidant condition is to give him the appropriate care, but not to give him deep love, so that he did not fall in love with the threat of him, but also not let him fall in love with your impulse and enthusiasm, this is to do confidant skills. If you are a smart woman, do the man's confidante, because, confidante is the world's most beautiful woman. If you like this article, welcome to press a like and share it out!