The village common mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along, most of them are because the man is working outside or the man's ability is limited, did not meet the needs of the family's life, the woman stayed at home, and wait for the elderly, and wait for the children, inside and outside the woman have to take care of, the man has a seven feelings and six desires, the ability to be limited, and sometimes will be physically and mentally exhausted, and no one can not do every aspect of the reasonably thorough.
If the man then ignore the family, not capable of supporting the family, then when the woman is physically and mentally exhausted, will reflect, and then it will be easy to blame the problem on the mother-in-law, that she did not educate their son to make themselves tired and aggrieved, and sometimes people always say, "the daughter-in-law can not control the people who can not manage the other people, who can control? Sometimes people say, "Who else can control a person whose daughter-in-law can't control him?", which seems to me to be one of the most unorthodox remarks. The son does not teach the father's fault, human qualities and character are cultivated from childhood, no man will go for a woman to change everything, words should be so "a parent can not control the person, who can control?"
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not often because the two are relatively strong, love face, or one of the stubborn and obstinate, they do not do a good job of things still do not listen to the views of others, the same in a family life, the same as a family for the benefit of the same, have *** with the same responsibility, unless the other concessions, or else it will be a daily quarrel.
The world's big, people divided into three, six, nine and so on, what temperament have, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law from two different education, different concepts, different habits of the family, unless the two women are at the same time y in love with the man between them, unrequited, or the man at the same time, impartial and y in love with both of them, if there is a half a bit of bias, the two women will have contradictions.
To say that the man between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are too many people 掕 unclear, always thought that the mother to raise their own adults is not easy, asked the daughter-in-law up to repay, said what to what have to satisfy, no matter right or wrong can not be refuted.
He did ignore the mother-in-law of the daughter-in-law did not have the grace of birth, but also the grace of nurturing, now women have the ability to support themselves, and even higher than the income of men, and not like the ancient times, women rely on men to give food, clothing, housing and transportation, so it is logical to have to go against the grain, men and their families to say what is what, and always do, there are aggrieved do not dare to say.