Methods are as follows:
1, treat the same
Elderly people should learn to divert their attention from the cause, but learn to understand and get along with each other, and do not treat their daughters-in-law and sons-in-law the same. If you like this, alienate it and do unfair things, you will not be able to gain the respect and love of the children. Therefore, we have to be careful to maintain a level of water in front of our children.
2. Don't gossip
Mind your own business and be tolerant and considerate of your children. Even if you find your child unsatisfactory in some way, don't always criticize and blame them. If something is wrong, you can give good guidance and patience. Don't make sarcastic remarks or nag endlessly. This will only add fuel to the fire, so you should learn to control your mouth.
3. Don't demand too much from your children
If the old people don't understand the difficulties of taking care of their children, and always give them some problems and put them under a lot of pressure, I believe that they won't really accept you. So if you want to get along well with your children, try not to demand too much from them on weekdays. If you really want your children to be filial to you, you should pay attention to do more emotional communication with them. You should know how to give way to money and don't put too much financial pressure on your children.
4, learn to play dumb
Elderly people should be more tolerant to their children. If there is an argument or dispute between children, let them fully express their opinions and then try to seek common ground. Don't always fight with your kids and then you have to fight for high or low levels. It's really boring. We are all family. As an older person, learn to play dumb and humble so you don't hurt each other's feelings and leave a rift.
5. Reasonable sharing of household chores to break down the children's pressure
Modern society has a lot of pressure in life, and the pressure of work is not small. Every day, children drag their tired bodies home, just want to have a warm meal to eat and a comfortable place to rest quietly. At this time, if parents can share some household chores, help children cook, mop the floor, etc., children will naturally appreciate your efforts and be more willing to filial piety in the future. Naturally, this family can live in harmony for a long time.