When everyone around her, including her husband, her son, the police at Changchun police station, and the counselor in the video, analyzed her from all angles and told her that she was a liar, why didn't she have a little bit of doubt? How come she didn't have the slightest bit of skepticism?
This is the confirmation bias effect in psychology at work
The confirmation bias effect is that: If you've come to believe in one viewpoint, it's very difficult to accept other viewpoints that are contrary to that viewpoint. Even if there has been a great deal of new information proving your view wrong, you will still selectively ignore it. You will only accept information that supports your original view.
So once she actually accepts that her lover is a liar, cheating her out of her feelings and out of her money, then it shatters her dreams of love.
She is afraid that when she wakes up from her dream, she will be her old, uncaring, unloved, lonely self again.
So even though she may be rationally skeptical, she is emotionally unwilling to accept the reality.
So this time, instead of giving her reasoning, we should give her warm companionship and love.
Slowly, when she realizes that even when she wakes up from her dream, she is not alone, and that there are people who understand her and appreciate her, she will have the strength to face reality and come back to reality, and lead a down-to-earth happy life.
The specific incident is known to everyone. Auntie liked "Fake Jin Dong" on the internet. She thought that "Fake Jin Dong" also loved her, and declared her love for her in front of the whole country.
I believe that most people's first reaction to this news is: Big Mom is sick, and very sick.
I have to say that the first reaction is accurate. This big mom is indeed sick. The name of this disease is called delusional love, commonly known as "nymphomania". The patient for others, especially the opposite sex to produce love, each other's every move, a word, the patient is considered to be to their own hints of love.
To put it bluntly, it's a kind of schizophrenia, and it's clear that this is exactly what happened to this woman.
It's funny how a middle-aged woman with a family and a husband can suddenly become hyper-emotional.
Most people don't understand women of this age. They think that they are idle, dancing around and disturbing the people; today they gather in a place to collect eggs and listen to the health of the cheated, and tomorrow they will travel together to shop and take pictures and throw a wink.
In fact, think about it quietly, every girl will eventually become a big mom. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
After the broadcast of "My First Half Life", all Chinese divorced women want to marry Jin Dong played He Han. It's not a bad idea to have this wish. Who doesn't have a wish in their heart?
Auntie doesn't want to be delusional, but she's just too bitter, tortured by loneliness, emptiness, and a loveless life for decades, and her heart has long been barren. Suddenly appeared a "universal good man", on the big mom some confession, this small spray bottle a take, "hiss" a sprinkle, and immediately spring is full of.
So, when you're young, you want to love, and you can chase after them, and it's okay to be ridiculous. Don't repress to old age, and then make jokes, it's not good.
What do you think of the incident where a 60-year-old woman fell in love with a "fake Jin Dong"?
The incident recalls that at the beginning of the year there was a woman surnamed Huang. Due to the epidemic can not go out on the obsession with video and audio video. She is a fan of Jin Dong, rolling around in the video and audio looking for Jin Dong's number. The first time I saw him, I was able to find him in the movie. The "Jin Dong" video on AV has a lot of sweet words. In addition to this woman surnamed Huang, there are also many older aunts who are infatuated with this "Jin Dong". Who knows that this "Jin Dong" is a fake, not only using a combination of edited videos to deceive the feelings of the older women, but also to sell goods. Convinced that the sweet words spoken by Jin Dong in the video were meant for herself, Huang wanted to leave home to see her "lover". Her husband and son were unable to persuade her. After the 13th explosion, Jin Dong has commissioned a lawyer to send a lawyer's letter to the fake account. And strongly requested them to take down their works and accounts.From this incident how to see the big mom and fake "Jin Dong" love thing?
1. A woman's IQ is zero when she's in love, no matter how old she is. Auntie is 61 years old and actually believes Jin Dong will like her or even fall in love with her.
2. It's good for a woman to turn off her beauty face once in a while. 61 years old, should be full of folds too, but if she turns off her beauty face once in a while, she won't believe in the words of a liar. After all, Zhao Yazhi types are still relatively few.
3. Women, emotional intelligence can not be high. IQ must have ah!
Not high IQ, perhaps others will say that the temper is strange, or that you are very simple and lovely. A low IQ is just stupid. How can Jin Dong buy stuff, how can Jin Dong flirt with a bunch of 60-somethings.
Hey! It's better to sing less about the courage of Fish Leong.In fact, I wasn't surprised to see the news about the older mom chasing after the star, because my parents are the same, it's just that my mom likes Zhu Shimao and my dad likes Ni Ping. How crazy are Jin Dong's elderly fans?
It all started with a news story about a 61 year old aunt who wanted to divorce her husband and marry Jin Dong because she was obsessed with a fake Jin Dong on a certain voice. No matter how the husband, son, and remember how to explain, this aunt just do not believe. For this reason, she even fought with her husband, believing that it was her love and none of his business. Jin Dong is in front of the whole Chinese people face her confession.
And these fake Jin Dong's account videos are often AI synthesized, which is easy for young people to recognize. In fact, the aunt in the news is just one of the more extreme cases of many deceived aunts. In the major video platforms, such videos are not a few, and the content of the video is also the same: "Sister, you are deleted me? Why don't you return my messages. Sister I miss you so much." These kinds of words. The comments under these videos are very "hot eyes", a group of older aunts have commented "No, brother, sister is busy, sister is very much in love with you, I give you my heart, do you know," and also the
So why are these fake Jin Dongs able to utilize such a low level of deception to do this kind of magic?
Jin Dong, male, Chinese mainland actor, singer, born in December 22, 1976 in Shandong Province. 2003 graduated from the Central Academy of Drama in the Department of Performance undergraduate musical class. 1993, in the TV series "Oriental Merchants" in the role of a teenager Gao Xianyang, and thus embarked on the world of acting. 1999, the Central Academy of Drama, the Central Academy of Drama, the Department of Performance undergraduate musical class. 2005, the star of the
In addition to his acting skills, Jin Dong has often played some decent roles because of his relatively straight features. The aunts who have just learned to "surf" on the internet will mistakenly think that Jin Dong is Jin Dong himself when they see him on the Internet. Plus the fact that older people are relatively closed minded and don't say "I love you" and "I miss you" as young people do, maybe the "I love you" in the fake Jin Dong video is the first time an auntie has heard it in more than 60 years. I love you" in the fake Jin Dong's video is the first time I heard it in more than 60 years, imagine how you felt when you heard it for the first time.
What is the purpose of these videos to deceive auntie's feelings?
I believe many people will be curious, so what is the purpose of these people doing these videos to deceive aunts? The answer is cash, window selling for cash. They will send a video PUA aunt, ask aunty is not deleted me, is not love me, then why I sent in the small yellow car "caring aunt gift bag" you did not buy it? At this time, the anxious aunt will hasten to explain in the comments section, and said that they are looking for young grandchildren to ask for advice on how to shop online. The grandchildren or daughters-in-law eventually ordered the products under the guidance of their grandchildren or daughters-in-law.
What is the reason behind the aunts' crazy obsession with Jin Dong? Is it because of lack of love?
The answer is yes. Marriages in our parents' generation were often marriages between parents and matchmakers, often with the aim of "living together". When the age of retirement, time, but there is no entertainment programs, gradually began to contact the network, and they like Jin Dong like young people like Xiao Zhaobo, Wang Yibo is the same. It's just that they like different types of stars. We don't have to make fun of them, it's just that most of the time, we ignore these elders, who are actually flesh and blood people, and need to be cared for, need to be praised.
It's all about jitterbugs, and at 60 years old, it's all about jitterbugs! I can't believe that I'm so confused, I don't even want to think about who the other person is.
I've always thought that people grow up to create wealth and responsibility. I really don't know what is the use of talking about feelings when you are forty or fifty. But found that many adults are more toxic than fiction.