This week's read-aloud assignment is "Shanghai nanny circle of friends contempt chain," the full text is as follows:
In Shanghai, not only the avocado has a chain of discrimination, the nanny also has.
Shanghai people tube nannies or hourly workers respectfully called "auntie", that is from the heart of respect. In a cosmopolitan city like this, an aunt may have seen a lot more of the world than you have.
Many people have the opportunity to contact a variety of nannies throughout their lives, and among these nannies, there are always some that can reshape your outlook and teach you to be human.
The first time I learned that "Auntie has seen more of the world than I have", my son was not yet born, and I was carrying a round belly to meet my first life coach, Auntie Wang.
Auntie Wang's last employer, the famous Yanlord Riverside Garden in Pudong's Little Lujiazui, was a good place to start.
On the first day she came to my house, after a busy day of work, she leaned against the window at 7pm, looking out over the lights, and let out a sigh of relief: "This neighborhood of yours, it's no good."
My rolled stomach couldn't even flutter a little, and my ears drifted back to my aunt's voice:
"Look, what time is it? It's already past 7:00 p.m., and why are there so many kids running around and shouting outside in the neighborhood? Shouldn't the kids be practicing piano, calligraphy, and one-word drives at this hour?"
I was shocked. This aunt is so hardcore!
Originally, the aunt said that our neighborhood does not work, I thought she was obsessed with the material, attached to glory and wealth ...... who knows that in the eyes of the aunt, she saw is not the surface of these vanity, but the real spiritual core ah!
She disliked the fact that our neighborhood is not overflowing with the sound of the piano at night.
The world has seen the magic of the nanny, forming a chain of homeschooling discrimination -
The child by the nanny with the loose & lt; the child's grandparents with the loose & lt; the child's parents with the loose & lt; the child's parents with the silly reading & lt; the child's parents with the hard work of the quality education She must have taken children to cram schools, gone to the English corner, practiced with the piano and saxophone, gone to the basket under the basketball hoop, and swung a club on the baseball field!
Such a nanny, in the years of immersion, she was also inculcated into a language and mathematics, music and painting can read, out of the home is not afraid of shame, out of the country can also advocate for the Chinese nanny's excellent talent!
When you find a neighborhood nannies do not ask each other "how much money you give the East," but rather ask "how many classes your East children," then the quality of this neighborhood is certainly not too bad, the cultural level of the residents are about the same, and not bad. The first thing I'd like to do is to ask you to do something about it.
Unfortunately, Auntie Wang's visit to my house was just a transition, and before I could learn any more about her philosophy of life, she worked her way up to a high level of certification, and was offered a high-end job in the Biyun neighborhood.
In her words, she didn't ask for much - she knew a little bit of English, could cook Western food, and could pick up her kids at the international school, which was a great place to live.
In her words, she is not asking for much - she knows a little English, can cook Western food, and doesn't have stage fright when she picks up her kids from international schools.
Before leaving, Auntie Wang made a meal of "Nordic-style steak" and told my husband, "Don't dip it in anything when you eat it. I was so scared that my husband took the black pepper hand a shiver, sprinkled too much, the aunt almost turned his face.
This is the magic city nanny another family dining discrimination chain --
All day long to eat takeout < eat big fish < eat Chinese western food < eat original European style meal
Auntie said to my husband with a serious tone of voice:
"You have to work hard, in the future to strive for an early exchange of housing, this neighborhood ah, no no, I'm telling you Oh, our original neighborhood of elderly people every day to organize chorus, waltz, learning computer graphics, you look at your neighborhood of elderly people, in addition to square dancing is rubbing mahjong, tsk tsk ...... "
This reflects the magic nanny neighborhood cultural atmosphere discrimination chain -
rubbing mahjong neighborhood < square dance neighborhood < waste of time gossiping neighborhood < learning atmosphere of the neighborhood < learning are unable to understand the things of the
After the aunt summarized, our neighborhood seems to be at the bottom of the chain of discrimination ah!
Listened to the aunt's advice ...... later ...... we really changed the neighborhood.
So you see, the power of the nanny is infinite.
A good nanny, she does not try to earn much money in your house, figure a breath!
Her dream is to go to the next home when she can proudly say: "My last home in the xx neighborhood, can be good, you this neighborhood ah, no, no."
When our family bought a car before, we bit the bullet and bought one that cost tens of thousands of dollars more. Not for anything else, for my aunt from the car holding the child down the moment, not inferior.
Doesn't this create a virtuous cycle? The people of the city of Magic are constantly striving for improvement and prosperity, and there is also a tacit encouragement and motivation from the aunts ah.
After the first baptism of life, we also became a better version of ourselves (living in a better neighborhood) ...... the second time we hired a nanny, we obviously have a bit of a bottom.
Without doing so for a few days, the aunt complained to us that she couldn't make friends in the neighborhood and that her social circle was too narrow.
"In the past, our neighborhood ah, a lot of full-time mothers, they pay attention to the parent-child relationship, every day there is a period of parent-child out of the time, then we have those aunts have time to party ah, today Auntie Lee tea, tomorrow Auntie Zhang chat, every day to open the tea party!"
I looked at my aunt's lonely back, but I was speechless.
The nanny of the Magic City on the East mistress of the nature of the work has also formed a chain of discrimination -
work more wages less & lt; work more wages more & lt; work less wages less & lt; work less wages more & lt; do not work
? I'm embarrassed by this aunt's insight into the scam of the century where this old mother refuses to quit her job in order to avoid taking care of her kids.
Finally see me insist on not resigning, aunt resigned.
When my son was little and we took him to the vaccination, my aunt was dressed up and wore a beautiful silk dress. She said, "I can't disgrace the proprietor!"
Without knowing, my mom, wearing a small shirt with a canvas bag also came, hanging down behind the nanny in a brand-name, for fear that people ask "who is the child's grandmother". The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do it.
When I got home, my mom ignored my dad (although it doesn't make sense logically), but, well, women.
Later I summarized: a family comprehensive strength is strong, mainly reflected in the nanny.
There is a nanny in our neighborhood, every afternoon fixed moments, walking the child when the bag stuffed two hand-painted books, other nannies walking the child on walking the child, she walked and walked and sat down, pulled out the picture book, with the child to read a two or three pages, and then continue to walk.
She said, "My last proprietor was a college professor!"
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前二天小区里开有业主大会，业主都在会议室。 The owners are in the meeting room, ragged meeting, nannies with children in the door to play, as far as the eye can see all exquisite and charming, pearl necklaces and gold rings. The nanny also ran in to explain the policy to the owners during the intermission, and she said, "I've seen a lot of this, and I went to the last meeting of the owners of the last house to defend their rights, and I won."
Her mantra was: "Read more about the law, read more about the law!"
One day I saw a group of dog walkers partying in the neighborhood, and all I could say was, "Gee, it's cute, wow, this one's handsome, hey, that one's cute!"
Next to walk an aunt, hand holding four dogs! I'm not sure if I'm wrong, but I'm not sure if I'm wrong, I'm not wrong. Auntie glared at me, "This is a Beagle." Her first time, "That's the Beagle, that's the Border Collie, that one over there, the Cocker Spaniel, the biggest one, the Golden Retriever, and the one that's running next to him, the Labrador."
"Wow, Auntie you're amazing, are all four of these dogs owned by your family?"
"Well, I am his family nanny."
I just felt that this auntie had an aura of 2 meters 8 in that moment, and I was shocked.
The big family, even the nanny who specializes in dog walking, is more knowledgeable than me.
It is said that Magic City nannies have a chain of discrimination against their own main business -
Bellwork & lt; live-in cleaning and cooking & lt; with children & lt; take care of the dog and take care of the dog nannies, and by all the other types of work of the auntie despised ......
A closed loop.
Listening to the neighbors said recently between the aunts and summed up a chain of discrimination with children -
With elementary school students & lt; with kindergarten children & lt; with a small child the smaller the better to bring. There is an aunty with elementary school children, because one of the work tasks is to accompany the child to do homework, the result is too deep into the drama, high blood pressure are guilty.
These days, it's not easy to hire a nanny in the Magic City, and it's not easy to be a nanny either.
I counted, "Shanghai nanny circle of friends contempt chain" **** there are seven, respectively
family education discrimination chain
family dining discrimination chain
the cultural atmosphere of the district discrimination chain
the nature of the host hostess's work discrimination chain
the nature of the host's career discrimination chain
nanny to their own The chain of discrimination against the nanny's main occupation
The chain of discrimination against the nanny's childcare
After reading this article, I realized that the nannies nowadays are also very powerful, and that good nannies not only create a virtuous circle of the family, but also give the owners who are constantly striving for advancement a silent encouragement and motivation. Thank you Mr. Jingchu for your homework! Let me grow in insight.
The author's profile : Thirteen Sisters, the representative of the magic city house corrupted literary slash female youth. She is a columnist, avant-garde psychologist and urban portrait explorer. Independently operates the public number GSSW13. Representative works: "Married for ten years, I finally lived into the big brother of the big brother", "Do not offend middle-aged people, they are ruthless and learn everything", "Every middle-aged tycoon, are quietly eating dirt" and so on.