This is the single dog that keeps harping on me during dinner.
Feel your love and concern for your parents, because your own personal problems make your parents worry and anxious about it, you feel y remorseful, both want to fulfill filial piety, but also can not get rid of the status quo of their own loneliness and lack of friends. Give you a warm hug, dear you, love others before, first love yourself. Because we can't give others what we don't even have. Let's take a look at the problem:
1. "Men should be married women should be married", poor parents no matter how old we are, in the eyes and hearts of their parents will always be their children, they raise us for a lifetime will not be annoying. But, after all, children also have to belong to their own life, even if the heart does not want to give up, but also to "cruel" children will be "driven" out. I believe that you can fully understand the feelings of parents, when you can see this, first try to reduce your own "anxiety". Parents love and worry about their children all the time, and involuntarily. For example, if you are now married, your parents will still worry about how the couple is doing. Are there any conflicts? How are the children being taken care of? How is the family relationship? Even if everything is fine, they still worry about whether they are tired at work and whether they are safe on the way to and from work. ...... What I want to tell you is a fact: parents' worries and anxieties are "normal". The filial piety to parents is threefold: to support, to honor and to glorify them. The fact that your parents are proud of you and that you show respect and gratitude to them is itself a higher level of filial piety. So there's no need to feel guilty. Besides, marriage is your personal problem. Not something they can rush in.
2. Rebuild your confidence and take responsibility for your own lifeYou say that you will always be single, and that your friends rarely feel lonely. We can try to add a "for the time being", "I'm just single for the time being", "I just don't have any friends for the time being", to bring ourselves some confidence and energy. "Performance occurs where attention is focused" means that when we focus our attention on what we want, it will give us the results we want. For example, if you go on certain dating platforms to post relevant information, or call on your friends and family/enthusiastic coworkers to introduce you to someone, even if it's just to go out and square dance every day to get in touch with more groups of people, you will be able to solve this problem of making friends. The key is to build your self-confidence, maintain your love of life, acceptance and appreciation of yourself. If we don't even appreciate ourselves, how can we gain the appreciation of others? Boosting self-confidence requires boosting a sense of worth.
Continuously give yourself favorable comments, the simple practice can be found every day, 3 of their own advantages to praise. For example, in this paragraph, I can find 3 of your best qualities: filial piety, understanding, quiet.