People are a kind of social animal, so in everyone's life will look forward to that belong to their own perfect love, let the passage of years and not fade. There is a saying: "In the eyes of the lover, there is a beauty", in the eyes of the lover, the other person is perfect, is impeccable, any small defects can be ignored, from the village of Linghai, Jinzhou, Liaoning Province, Li Yucheng Ma Yuqin couples are countless examples of love in the example of the paradigm.
Acquaintance
In 1969, Li Yucheng was born in Liaoning Jinzhou Linghai village of an ordinary farming family, became the second son of Li Baoku, that year, the same village rely on the two-people performance of the life of the Ma Yuqin has been 32 years old, although long ago ceased to be a young young girl, but is still well-maintained, the charm of the eyebrows.
Ma Yuqin, through her own efforts, has become a locally famous northeastern two-people-rotor performer, and naturally has had a number of performances in the village. Li Yucheng has been playful and active since he started school at the age of 8, and his grades are naturally not good enough. His father, after seeing that Li Yucheng is indeed not a piece of study material, arranged for him to learn a trade in order to keep him from starving to death without a job in the future.
Ma Yuqin was Li's elementary school classmate, and when he learned that Ma Yuqin had a good craft, he sent his son to be an apprentice under Ma Yuqin. When he first saw Ma Yuqin's performance, he was impressed by her superb performance on stage and her mature charm.
Knowing that his father and Ma Yuqin were elementary school classmates, he became even more naturally close to Ma Yuqin. For Ma Yuqin at the time, Li Yucheng was just a small child who was obedient and clingy, and he often brought him by his side when carrying out performance activities.
Falling in love
In the early 90s, Li Yucheng had grown into a young and handsome young man in his twenties, and at that time, it was time to get married. Parents at that time but very attentive, afraid of delaying the son's life events, after constantly asking people to inquire about the introduction, finally introduced to Li Yucheng a beautiful and virtuous girl of a good age.
But at that time, Li Yucheng's heart has long been occupied by Ma Yuqin, which still have room for other people, in the long time to follow the Ma Yuqin study period, no matter where the Ma Yuqin performances, Li Yucheng has always followed along.
When Li Yucheng was 27 years old, he finally joined the Cao Tai Opera troupe organized by Ma Yuqin, and finally had the opportunity to perform on the same stage as Ma Yuqin. Whether in front of the stage Ma Yuqin's elegant dance and graceful figure, or behind the stage that seriously focused on the preparation of makeup and pleasant and moving voice, let Li Yucheng y for it, Ma Yuqin in his heart also occupy an increasingly important position, but also let him more and more want to ask her to pursue, and want to be with her forever.
Ma Yuqin's husband died early, the family's life depends only on their own performances to make ends meet, the face of this intrusion into their own lives of young men, in the thought of since her husband left their own death, only performances accompanied by their own all day long, endured too much loneliness and loneliness, more and more heartbeat up.
In the thought of Li Yucheng weekdays since the careful care and pampering: the cold weather in the northeast, in the river crossing is Li Yucheng will be their backs over, but also from time to time to their warmth, give yourself to send food and drink, but also perceived that they have a little status in Li Yucheng's heart.
Every night, Ma Yuqin's figure floats in his mind, let himself toss and turn, hard to sleep, after countless nights of torture, Li Yucheng to Ma Yuqin revealed his true heart, in the face of Li Yucheng open heart, Ma Yuqin happy to accept, and from then on they began to love each other.
In order to make themselves and Li Yucheng look more compatible, 58-year-old Ma Yuchen also went to a cosmetic surgery hospital to do a facelift surgery, although in the postoperative period of time the effect disappeared, but also make themselves look older, but Li Yucheng is still not the slightest bit of disdain, and is still in love.
The controversial marriage
In the face of their son and a woman 32 years older than him, Li Yucheng's parents can be described as furious, that this is against the ethics of the ancestors of the Li family is tainted, coupled with the state of Ma Yuqin today, it is impossible to bring him a child, thus cutting off the Li family's flame. Ma Yuqin's two sons are also strongly opposed and strongly accused, have not understood their mother's approach.
The people in the same village also ridiculed the Li family's situation, which became a laughing stock before and after dinner. Li Yucheng's father, Li Precious, could not hold his head up in the face of the ridicule and public opinion, and was embarrassed to go out of his house, and finally could not stand it any longer, and cut off the father-son relationship with Li Yucheng and kicked him out of his home.
In 2006, Li Yucheng's mother passed away, and before that she was still scolding her son, Li Yucheng, for this abnormal marriage practice, leaving his father, who suffered from severe rickets, to struggle to survive. And the married life of Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin is not all smooth sailing: in more than 20 years of life, there are a lot of stumbling between them, and now Ma Yuqin has reached the time of old age, but had to run around for the sake of life and Li Yucheng, and in the view of many people, their marriage is not so happy.
Summary
In the eyes of some people, love is about being a good match and the pursuit of growing old together; while in the eyes of another group of people, true love should not be limited by external objects, as long as both sides truly love each other, it is enough.
Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin, a 32-year difference between brother and sister love, in the eyes of ordinary people, is in any case is unacceptable, but it is precisely because of this, can better reflect the great power of love, so that people ignore all the difficulties in front of them, and only each other.
But there is a saying that, on the one hand, the story of steadfast love between Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin, who overcame hardships to finally come together in order to be with their beloved, does deserve to be celebrated as a beautiful love experience.
On the other hand, their love also brought a lot of trouble to the bystanders, Li Yucheng and his father severed the father-son relationship, angry at his own mother, and he has no offspring, which to be placed in the ancient times, can be unfaithful and unfilial people, so that the Li family and Ma Yuqin's son lived in the ridicule and criticism of others, is really difficult to let people agree with their marriage.
And the difference in their age, but also to bring a lot of trouble to themselves, Ma Yuqin should be the age of the late enjoyment of happiness but also had to come out to perform, which in the eyes of outsiders, too hard, this can be avoided, but now it has caused the family to turn against each other, and live a life always drifting away, it is really heartbreaking.
I have two views on this, one, people in pursuit of life ideals and beautiful love, indeed, should have the spirit of not afraid of suffering, this is also a major significance of human life, if even the pursuit of the courage are not, then also lost the meaning of this.
Second, in order to their own dreams and love, to lose something is inevitable, but parents are born and raised their own people, from ancient times, the good filial piety first, parents in everyone's life are playing an important role, if even their own parents all day long for their own tears, the pursuit of the significance of inevitably can not pass the moral of that pass.