It is said that young couples will always be together, but it is also an acceptable result of life for Laoyan to prosper in middle age or old age and lose her life and wife.
This is just a beautiful wish, to be a lovebird in heaven and grow together on the earth, two branches of a tree. ..
What is love in the world? Teach people to live and die together. A pair of teenagers, separated from each other from the beginning of their understanding, will be alone sooner or later! On the journey of life, it is good to have a like-minded companion, but what if he gets off midway?
Single elderly women are either widows or divorced. There is no doubt that most elderly women who lost their spouses died of illness, and they were usually around to serve them during their illness. As the saying goes? No dutiful son in bed for a long time? Moreover, it is impossible for ordinary people to wait on a sick person for a long time. That kind of hard work is only known to you. You often see an old woman waiting on an old man in the hospital.
So when the sick wife died, although it was also very painful, it was also a kind of physical and mental relief to some extent. Think about it. If you find a wife again, it will be difficult for people of this age to ensure that they are not sick and not in trouble. They may have to take care of their wives again. If they can get by financially, no elderly woman will want to find another wife.
A person must be strong, take up his backpack again and set foot on the road home.
When people reach middle-aged and old age, their outlook on life has taken shape, their thinking is conservative, and their learning ability has declined. It is difficult to meet someone they like again. At this stage of life, both men and women, suffering and happiness are full of backpacks, prejudice and stubbornness go with them, and the fetters of children and property go hand in hand.
It's time to relax, enjoy the last scenery of life and find another wife. If you like each other, it is better for two people to live together than one person, and it is of course a happy life.
But the reality is that many old widowers are full of bad habits, smoking and drinking, selfish and lazy as parasites. The purpose of finding a wife is to find a free nanny, wash and cook by herself, and bring tea and water before going to bed.
On the other hand, most elderly women are clean, healthy, diligent, neat and gentle. If the economy can be independent, so much the better. They are fully capable of managing their old age in an orderly and dignified manner.
Feeling lonely? In the Internet age, the global village is so small. We cultivate three or five confidants, dance square dance together, travel together, visit parks together, and go shopping together. Why should we be bound by marriage?