Left hand life, right hand children, many poor economic conditions of the parents, but also left and right difficult. They are moving bricks while bringing up children, and still living their days to a standstill.
As a last resort, some moms and dads have to choose to go out to work and go all out to make money.
The biggest expectation of these parents is to spend time with their children and witness their growth every day. The first step is to get to the bottom of the problem, and the second step is to get to the bottom of the problem!
Unfortunately, in order to make a living, they have to give up accompanying their children, and have to choose to let their children live in the old people's homes.
This is the first time I've ever seen a child in the world who has been in a state of shock, and I'm not sure if I've ever seen one.
In 2013, the All-China Women's Federation (ACWF) estimated that there were 61,025,500 left-behind children in rural areas in China, according to data from China's sixth population census in 2010. There are 9.02 million rural left-behind children under the age of 16 whose parents are working outside the country.
The biggest voice of the left-behind children: they miss their parents and hope they can come back more often!
Example: 5-year-old Lele is very sensible, he knows that mom and dad go out to work to make money for him. Lele stays in the countryside and lives with his grandparents. Although he misses his mom and dad, he never shouts for his dad or mom.
The happiest thing for Lele is to hear his mom and dad call. The first time I saw this was when I was a kid, and it was a very good time for me.
One time, my father had to go back to his hometown to get his papers renewed, so I had to take the opportunity to stay for one night. The first time I saw this, I was so happy to see you," he said. The father accompanied Lele in the house to play, a moment to play hide-and-seek, a moment to play jumping checker, this whole day, Lele is really too happy, more than usual a year to smile more!
At night, Dad put Lele to bed. But Lele is worried that his father will leave soon, and when he sleeps, he has to hold his father's arm. Grandpa watched and shed tears. The old man always felt that the poor family, really sorry for the child!
The day dawned , Dad wanted to get up and leave before his son woke up, to avoid his son being very sad .
However, after breaking his son's hand several times, he still didn't break it, and his son even slept with his dad's arm tugging. The first time I saw this, I was able to get my hands on my son's hand, and I was able to pick up my bag and go out to work.
Every mother and father of a left-behind child has unspeakable sorrow. But the good news is that the adults who are also working are able to sympathize with them.
Unfortunately, the children are different. They are too young, and some of them may not sympathize with or even mock their peers when they see them "without parents.
Left-behind children are being taunted and tortured!
7-year-old boy was taunted as a "wild child", the boy asked his parents: Why did you give birth to me?
Xiaotong is 7 years old and has been living with his grandparents since he could remember.
Xiaotong lives in a mountainous area, the road is not good at all, Xiaotong even have to walk half a mile to school, wind and rain, eat all the pain.
One day, Xiaotong braved the rain to go to school, fell on the road, and when he arrived at school, he looked very down. The naughtiest boy in the class laughed at Xiaotong and said, "Look at you, you look like a drowned chicken, It's really a wild child without a father or mother ."
Once he heard this, Xiaotong couldn't take it anymore, and all the grievances on the road came out. Xiaotong threw away his schoolbag and beat up the boy without a care in the world.
The class teacher saw this and hurriedly separated the two children. Then, help Xiaotong dry tears. Xiaotong's tears fell, begging the teacher to lend him a phone.
Xiaotong took out the note, called his father's phone, hissed and questioned his father: " You do not accompany me, why do you want to give birth to me?"
Three years ago, Xiaotong saw his parents once. But in the last few years, mom and dad have only called and asked for 70,000 yuan of money, and they have never come home. If it were not for this, Xiaotong would not have been able to vent his discontent and would have cried in his dreams.
"No one asked me if the porridge could be warmed, no one accompanied me to fall into the dusk." A poetic phrase that is fittingly used for left-behind children.
Mom and dad can't afford to be with their children, missing the most important period of their growth, and the left-behind children's hearts are hurt. In life, left-behind children will also have many problems.
The pain of the left-behind children may be accompanied by a lifetime of pain, calling on parents to "do their best to accompany"
The left-behind children may face a lot of problems. The only way to solve these problems is for the mom and dad to do their best to be with their children.
1 left behind children, poor academic performance, do not love to study
Some left behind children, follow the grandparents and other elderly people to live. The old man's way of disciplining the children is usually "loose", and he is not strict about the children's academic performance. Some left-behind children do not like to study, plus no one to supervise, very early to quit school, stay home to help do farm work.
Solution: If mom and dad aren't around, they can still urge their kids to study hard through video and phone calls. Or, mom and dad can set up rewards and punishments for their children, and if the child's grades are good, mom and dad can go home early to visit the child and increase the child's motivation to learn.
2 children left behind are very lonely, easy to character isolation
parents left the child with the old man, so that the child is very young almost "lost" the care of parents, the pain of the child, really big and very tortured.
Some children develop a withdrawn personality, which is difficult to escape.
Solution: Mom and dad must make time to communicate with their children, and go home to visit them when necessary. In addition, if parents really do not have the conditions to do so, but also try to use special ways, accompanied by the child to grow.
For example, to help the child develop hobbies, assuming that the child fell in love with painting, put the mom and dad photos aside to accompany their own, the child will also feel very comfortable, not lonely to the extreme.
Care for the children left behind, from "a smile" to start!
Being a human being is a good thing.
If the parents of the left-behind children are really busy with their lives, they don't have time to pay attention to their children.
If you're looking for a way to get the most out of your life, you've got to be able to get the most out of your life," he said.
The community Li is a kind-hearted person, every year will organize some of the caring people, take the initiative to go to the countryside to visit the left-behind children. Accompany the children to read books and talk about matters of the heart.
The power of love accumulates, we are here to appeal to the power of the masses, appealing to the people around the left-behind children, as far as possible to them more sympathetic, send a little warmth to the children in need of companionship.
Perhaps, a smile from everyone, a kind accompaniment, will make the child's childhood more colorful and more enjoyable!