My advice is not to divorce.
Just had a baby, is already a complete family, this time to hastily say the word divorce, it is not good.
Reasons why you can't get a divorce:
Firstly leaving the baby away from his dad or mom and growing up in a single parent home will have a big impact on his character.
Secondly, both husband and wife have not tasted the joy of raising a child with ****, hasty divorce, missing the most lovely growth process of the child, it is really a regrettable thing.
Thirdly, your husband has not yet tasted the flavor of not raising a child who does not know his parents' kindness, and has not yet seen his daughter-in-law's hard work, so he can't get a divorce.
The reasons why your husband dislikes you:
1. The child's crying interferes with his rest
2. The couple's life is affected
3.
5. You neglected to care for him.
Couples with children, life has entered a new stage, they have to raise children together, but also work, housework and so on, these pre-marriage did not think of the trivialities, so that longing for romantic people do not know what to do, and even hand to hand.
The arrival of a small life, disrupting the balance of life, but also to the couple's relationship adds to the trouble.
Unattractive because you are focusing on your child and neglecting your own beauty.
Most women have children, feel tired, sleepy, no spirit, exhausted every day, there is no time to dress up their own, with the housewife confused.
The most important thing is that you should not neglect the maintenance of your own body even if you have a child, because a beautiful woman is attractive.
Every day, when the children go to bed, you have to clean up, disturb the house, wash your face, make a mask, wipe your face, do not maintain the person looks like a big difference with the same age.
A clean and tidy home is irresistible, and a beautiful and gentle wife is even more irresistible.
Divorce is not a solution to the problem, the best way is to remodel the former beauty, around the bad to practice yoga, Latin dance, square dance.
If you have poor skin, you should buy some good skin care products. People are like machines, they need to add lubricant frequently to keep the machine from rusting and keep the best condition.
While dressing yourself, do not neglect to care about him, only two people with one mind, family happiness will be guaranteed.
At this time, you must remain independent of yourself, do not take the family, the children as their whole life.
While you are taking care of your family, you should also dress up like you did before you got married and before you gave birth to a child, and go out with your girlfriends once in a while to get together.
You can also dress up as beautifully as you did before you gave birth to a child, and never become a housewife.
The first thing you need to do is to have your own business, your own job, and not to be too dependent on a man.
When you have time, read more books, only try to improve their temperament, the connotation can better attract your husband.
As the birth of two children over the past, you did not find a good husband, but married is married, if you are still breastfeeding, is suspected of fat or how to be normal, because you are fat, but if once weaned to change the situation, do not want to listen to the wind is the rain is not moving on the divorce with children, I have not heard of this kind of people can live a good life, sometimes to endure, married, do not! Like a child also expect others to treat you like a child, you have to learn to change, some men are not good things, but not necessarily, for the woman who decided that he is still very important, you have to tolerate him, and then slowly change their image, even if you can't go back to the previous, the person in front of the still have to be bright and shiny some, in that case try not to give birth to a second child, so that you will be even more time to take care of their own, etc. The child is a little bigger, you can go to work, and so on, and so on. The child is a little bigger, you can go to work, you have to go to work, earn their own money to spend, try to put the husband's money in their own hands, but not to mess with anything, you have to learn to have a tempered life, and so the child is older if he is mature, nature will understand the pain of the wife, only married or small, can only see the surface of things, you have to cater to him a little bit, etc. He has been unable to let you go, you can only be considered to have won. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
It is best not to divorce, there is an impact on the child. He is not嫌你没有吸引力，没有魅力吗，你就把孩子交给他看，你打扮自己，身材啥的都好好恢复，然后买一些新的衣服，每天都化个小淡妆，然后最重要的是锻炼 pelvic floor muscle，这个在G动APP就可以锻炼，效果很不错。 My daughter-in-law after giving birth to a baby is on it to exercise, can prevent and improve the postpartum leakage of urine constipation uterine prolapse and so on, more importantly, can be tighter, very good, so my daughter-in-law has always been attractive to me. There is no man who will not be attracted to tight women.
A lot of women have just given birth to a baby, and because their bodies haven't recovered yet, they look fat. Plus take a baby to do housework and so on. Very tired, do not want to clean up their own. But a woman has to pay attention to herself at any time. You even fat. You have to be able to dress. You don't have time to put on make-up, but you can't be disheveled. At least make yourself look good. I'm pregnant now and I'm fat. I'm afraid I'll be disliked when I give birth. Full of belly, full of thigh lines.
Take the baby and go back to your house. I just don't know if you bought yourself a house before you got married. If you did, then go back to your own house. I don't want to go back to my mom's house. Women really need to have their own piece of land at all times. Otherwise, where to go if you are bullied outside. I advocate that women should have their own private house