Do a smart woman
In today's "fast-paced, heavy load, high-pressure line" of the reality of life, often make people put their own brain taut not to say, but to know how to smart life, smooth handling, upright people can not. Therefore, it is said that it is difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a smart woman. In fact, the woman is also half the sky, more to live out of the wind and fire, so you can become a smart woman of the highest quality. So, if you want to do smart women, you must be dedicated to do the following points:
A center: all to health as the center.
Life is always precious, only know how to "respect life" people, can have the life of the bright and elegant. However, health is the core of life, health is more your body's necessary conditions, if there is no physical health, you will not have the capital of the revolution. Therefore, you have to bear in mind: all "health-centered", in general, we must pay attention to strengthen the physical quality of exercise, do not always "putty in the nest", do not always "a heart only read the book of the sages, two feet have been numb! "but rely on the outdoor sports, you have to be in the time allowed and their friends and relatives to go to the wind, breathe fresh air, so that your mind will be more soft and beautiful. The only way to get to the top of the list is to go to the top of the list, and then go to the top of the list, and then go to the top of the list.
Two basic points: a little more elegant, a little more confused.
Everything you can afford, but also put down, so you will be able to do can bend and can stretch. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands dirty. Dashing or not, since you have come to earth, you have to go back, so that you will not regret later. It is true that if you want to walk your life well, you have to grasp it seriously by yourself. Learning to be elegant, although you have made a name for yourself, but you will not get carried away and continue to struggle; although you dream come true, but you will not be intoxicated and forward; although you have made a great step, but you will not be satisfied and visionary; although you wish to have, but you will not beckon to the city and ride the wind and waves.
Once remembered the Qing Dynasty, "Yangzhou eight monsters" one of its poetry, calligraphy, painting, known as the "three greats" Zheng Banqiao said: "Smart is difficult to be confused is particularly difficult to be smart and turned into confusion is even more difficult. Put a book, take a step back, when the peace of mind, not trying to later reward." This is a very rare and precious heart as clear as a mirror. To be confused in everything, it is more necessary to be wise as if you were stupid. Rarely confused, that is, you don't have to go to those trifles, and learn to "turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye", but to do "adults don't remember the little man over, the prime minister's belly can hold up the ship" open-mindedness; that is to say, you don't have to go to those who are jealous of the children's personal feelings, and learn to "rather than tear down ten. And learn to "rather tear down ten temples, not to destroy a pro", but to do "gentleman man beauty, not man's evil," the amount of elegance; is that you do not have to go with the flow of those muddy water to fish, and learn to "out of the silt and not stained, Maundywash and not demon", but to do "a term of office, two sleeves of clean water" for the benefit of; is that you do not have to go to the claptrap of those who have made a name for themselves, but to learn that "a woman without talent is virtue, and tenderness is even more beautiful", but do The "high-profile work, low-profile people" of the revered.
Three forgets: forget age, forget illness, forget grudges.
I appreciate this meaningful words: "forget to forget, remember to remember, change can change, accept can not change." Yes, women should learn these "three forget", so you will be "for their own happiness and live".
Always women are most jealous of others to ask their age, so you have to learn to often forget their own age to do, do not always think of their "this year and your", so you will not be "ruthless years in the reduction of the increase" and worry worry, but you know this kind of forgetfulness. On the contrary, you know this kind of "flavorful poetry after the bitter sweet" of the highest state. Since you can't stop the "age" increase, life is decreasing, then you forget the age and live as if nothing happened.
As the saying goes, "People have a lot of illnesses, but it's hard to avoid one." If you accidentally infected with a disease, and had to take injections, medication, diet, and even surgery, but when you recovered from the first time to learn to forget all the pain. In this way, you will no longer be afraid of "touching things to hurt feelings" and moping. When you get out of your own "magic circle" when you do not have to think about anything, you can make yourself slowly "heart wide body fat", why not!
When you and your friends and family for some of the interests of the conflict, perhaps you will be tit-for-tat abuse or make a big fight, but whether you are in the aftermath of the other party apologized and made up for it. However, please remember this common saying: "meet each other a smile to end the enmity." Yes, as long as you do not go to hate that one "narrow road" of the sheep's intestine, you will meet with others a smile to resolve "grudges" and shake hands. We must know that "the dishes also have to touch each other," not to mention that people live in the same "under the roof", which is not for some ordinary trivia and dispute it, as long as you fight red in the face when you keep in mind that "fire on the Heart to be calm" but laughed off, then you will be a big deal, a small matter. And, when you forget those once grudges, you will win people's praise and affirmation, especially in your later "life stage" but more will be able to show their skills, left and right, like a tiger, wings, wings.
Four have: no matter how strong you are, when you are forty years old, you must have the following four - have a husband, have a residence, have the old bottom (savings), have a few old friends.
Remember that Confucius planned such a life trajectory for his descendants a few millennia ago: "I am ten years old, and I have the will to learn, thirty years old, forty years old, fifty years old, fifty years old and know the fate of heaven, sixty years old and obedient, seventy years old, and from the heart, do not overstep the limits." This is a rough coordinate of life that Confucius planned for us. Now that we savor it, we should say that it is still very meaningful to us. People, once they have lived to the age of forty there is nothing left to worry or doubt about. (There is a mentality of no choice and no retreat.) But when a woman reaches forty, she should be successful in her career, not be confused by the lack of a career, and have a certain grasp and understanding of life or career. Therefore, you must (must) to "have a husband", never remember not to casually "abandon their children" and reckless divorce. You have to learn the "bed head fight, bed end and good" love and harmony of "husband and wife art". You have to know that their own forty still have a husband, that is, a "ten years to repair the same boat, a hundred years to repair *** pillow sleep" of the well-being!
As the saying goes, "The Dragon's Nest, the Phoenix's Nest, the Golden Nest, is no better than your own dog's nest." Although this is just a flirtatious and funny words, but as long as you have their own residence, that is your smartest epiphany and choice. Forty women, say anything should have their own homes, so you will appear to be "solid" and feel secure. To say the truth, a woman's life pursuit is nothing more than: "first married a good husband, followed by children, third have a beautiful house," so simple things only. When you have a spacious and bright, comfortable and stable residence, you no longer need to worry about labor so much, you no longer need to go wandering and wandering and the four seas for the family, abandoned your "life floating", you will naturally live a very nourishing, cozy, smooth and happy.
It's important to have a good old bottom (savings). No matter how rich and powerful your husband, it is possible that every month he will set you thousands of dollars to spend, but you can not develop that kind of "big spenders, wasteful" habits, and you should learn this kind of "amount of income for expenditure, family frugality" virtue. You have learned to "play small, careful calculation" but secretly save "private money". Of course, this is not to ask you to "embezzle public funds" and go to steal to buy expensive and beautiful fashion, but to wait until the family "in case of emergency" when you can "not blush, heart does not jump"! The "small treasury" to open out of their savings to save the "fire of the eyebrow". In addition, you have the old bottom, you will not always think of "eating old money", you will understand thoroughly "sitting on the mountain empty" of the deep truth of the consequences of self-reliance. More importantly, you mastered the "power of life and death of money", your man will lose part of the "economic source", he would not dare to outside the blatant "fooling around, womanizing, raising a little honey package two women "etc., he will be honest after work immediately rushed home with you and the children will meet, but **** enjoy the "joy of family". Of course, you do not always "wife" to do a "stingy" and like "iron rooster" as a penny, and you have to do "magnanimous, Knowledgeable" "noblewoman, Mrs. broad". You also want to give men the freedom and certain "pocket money", because nowadays men are also under a lot of pressure, he also needs to make friends, parties and entertainment, but as long as he can master the "friends and entertainment of the imperial sword" of the scale, you will be generous enough to let him go! Do what he likes to do with ease! In this way, you can also get a "good wife" honorary title.
Have a few old friends, is your wealth and treasure. Suddenly remembered a song lyric "more friends, the road is good." Yes, when you reach the age of forty, you can have a few "dead pussy", then you have been successful in a big part of the human being. Some women forget their former "brothers and sisters" once they get married and have children. This is a very sad way to live, and she will also get "spiritual shackles". If she is in trouble and suffering, her brothers and sisters will not dare to come close to her but will run away. Therefore, you should have a few old friends who are "friends in life and death, friends in trouble and in distress". Of course, "friends are not to be used to sell", but a "friend heart warming" a wonderful and rare feeling of happiness. Whether in the weekdays or holidays, you have to remember to call your old friends, send text messages, or go to visit, condolences and so on. You have to remember the "friend's benefits and advantages", forget the "friend's shortcomings and shortcomings", you often remember to help your old friend, to help people. In this way, you can be "of one mind, hand in hand, with the boat **** Jinji" to maintain the old friends of the long-lasting deep friendship.
Five things: no matter how old a woman is, she has to sing, dance, and drop (meat), be pretty, and laugh.
Whether you are now twenty, thirty, or forty, fifty, or sixty, seventy, as long as you remember to sing every day like a happy bird, a show of song, then you will sing your beautiful mood. Through singing, every day you move the corners of your mouth, you can hum their favorite or know how to sing the song, from your mouth flowing out of the notes and melody is sure to let their own intoxicated but pleasant to the ear. Singing is healthy for the body and mind! Every day you will learn to "busy to steal singing" it, perhaps until one day you can also go to the CCTV's "Avenue of Stars" singing competition it. Believe that you yourself is the best, you do a "confident, brave, bold, happy" singing "happy" it!
To jump, that is, you have to learn to dance in a leisurely stroll. If you learn to dance, then you are really a "good song and dance" talent. Now people's standard of living is good, the provinces, cities, counties and towns of cultural squares, entertainment venues are carried out in full swing dance, as long as you dare to participate in it does not require a lot of energy and time, you will soon learn to dance, and its happy.
People, do not always believe in the so-called "food for the people", "eat is blessed" hard truth. If you eat well on the obese up, do not indulge in eating and drinking, and you have to ask your "secret party sisters" to teach how to carry out the "weight loss program", as soon as possible to shrink your muscles, growth of your bones. Of course, you do not want to eat only "green vegetables and carrots" every day in order to lose weight, but also to eat some appropriate "fish and meat soup" to supplement your nutrients.
Pretty, is a great beauty, is a kind of elegant beauty. You should eat less fat and greasy meat, and have a choice to eat some nutritious soup and vegetarian dishes. This way you will always be "pretty up". When you keep your "beautiful, slim body", but also remember to take good care of their lovely face, every day attention to sunscreen cold and other details. In fact, "Beauty is something you take care of"! Cheer up! As long as you remember to keep your "beautiful mood, moderate exercise" and put down the worry, and you also dress up properly, from time to time to wear some of the more fashionable (fashion) of the high-grade beautiful clothes, then you will always be "charming and moving"!
People often say: "Smile, ten years less". Indeed, there will be a very good effect, then you will smile every day, smile sweetly, look back and smile well, so you will get the best people "smile charming award". Often the sweet smile, can be for you to solve problems, can be for you to release boredom, can be for you to laugh at life.
When you learn to sing and dance in your daily life, lose weight and keep pretty, smile like a flower, then even if the world is old, but you are still like a "yellow flower girl" with an "angelic face and devilish body", always letting people have a kind of "jealousy". The first thing you need to do is to get a good sense of what you're looking for.
Six Don'ts: Don't eat when you're hungry, drink when you're thirsty, sleep when you're sleepy, rest when you're tired, see when you're sick, and exercise when you're old.
You don't eat when you're hungry. Women's intestines are very "stingy", you do not often do meals at home but also stupidly waiting for their husbands to return to the *** into the lunch, so you hungry stomach will croak, you better move chopsticks with the children to eat a little something for the better. Otherwise, it is you who are starving, not others, and even to your stomach is "more harm than good". When you're not hungry, whether you're at home or out and about, it's best if you eat your food on time or a little early. You'll be more energized when your stomach is full.
You don't drink when you're thirsty. People say, "You need to drink about three glasses of water a day or more to keep the blood circulating in your body." You do not wait until the "thirsty" time to drink water, water is your "source of life", drink more water and drink soup, will accelerate your "emissions", and at the same time to enhance your physical quality! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
You don't sleep when you're sleepy. Every night, you do not like a "night owl" to stay up late to pass the time, this is a kind of physical consumption, but also a kind of wear and tear energy bad behavior. You need to develop a good regular routine. With enough sleep, whatever you do, you'll be energized and happy.
You don't rest when you're tired. A great man once said, "He who does not know how to rest does not know how to work." Indeed, it makes sense, work tired you temporarily rest, or you long years of "overload" work tired, you have to rest for a period of time. As long as you have mastered the basic knowledge of "working while resting", then you will be able to obtain a sense of refreshment. When you are a housewife, you have to be down-to-earth every day; when you are a full-time wife, you have to seriously do a good job of the role of a good wife and mother; when you go to play in the mountains, you have to be happy to enjoy the beauty of the time; the time you take a long vacation without the need for labor, you have to be happy to let go of the post.
You don't want to be sick before you see. Many people often say: "they are not sick, go to what hospital to see what disease ah, no disease will also see the disease." This is a kind of pedantic thinking. In fact, a person who does not seem to have any disease, may go to the hospital to see will check out the disease, so early to know early treatment will be good. A person who is always yellow and thin seems to be sick, but when she goes for a check-up, she may not be sick at all. Therefore, one's health is also in one's own hands by just taking a look. If you go to a regular hospital for a full body checkup in a year and a half or three years and five years, it's a good thing that you are responsible for yourself and your family.
You don't want to exercise only when you are old. The old man cloud: "When a person is old, he is not useful." Yes, a person to the point of human old age, old age, mobility, then lose a lot of opportunities to exercise. Therefore, one should not always realize that one has to start exercising when one is old, which is the most irrational and wrong choice. You have to persistently adhere to the daily walk after dinner, or get up in the morning to run, so you will move their muscles, so as to achieve the purpose of physical exercise as well as honing the will.
It's true that if you want to be a smart woman, you must firmly grasp the "one center", flexibly grasp the "two basic points", quickly abandon the "three forgets". Three to forget", the real "four to have", calm "five to", and The "six don'ts" of "quick and easy", so that you will surely be "successful in nature" but turned into a "flavorful, tender, like water, The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.