1, all parents are for the good of their children. Especially the parents of most men, the requirements for women are not too high. Before the son makes it clear, he will tell his son what kind of daughter-in-law he wants, and he will find a woman with ulterior motives for fear that his young son will be cheated. Rich people are particularly worried about this. Therefore, under normal circumstances, the best way is to go directly to see your parents, show your good side, be diligent, virtuous, gentle, sensible, and be United with your husband, so that even harsh in-laws will be satisfied. Generally, as long as a man decides that his daughter-in-law is really a virtuous person, it doesn't matter whether it is suitable or not, unlike a girl who has to find someone with a car and a house, because a man himself is rich, and as long as he can carry on the family line, his daughter-in-law will be satisfied. Whether it can make his family richer is only a dispensable added value, but many girls are different, pointing to getting married to make money and jumping on the branches to become a phoenix. This is also the most worrying thing for many men with good conditions.
The man's parents are completely concerned about their own interests, only about their own business and industry, and don't care about their son's happiness at all. Such parents are rare and generally appear in selfish and dictatorial families. In this case, you should not consider and worry about this problem yourself at the beginning, because you only speculate from your boyfriend's mouth and some fragmented descriptions, which is a very one-sided and irresponsible cognition. Whether parents are such people should be judged by the man himself, and it should also be the cognition after long-term contact and a lot of communication. If they are such parents, the decision should be left to the man, not to the weak one. So in this case, you shouldn't have any interference that may affect your boyfriend. If he loves you enough, a man will make the right choice and will not regret it. If you don't love you enough, you will eventually get married, and you will also face the tragic ending that your in-laws oppress your husband and be indifferent. It's better to finish early. There is only one thing you can do, and that is to tell your boyfriend that everything is up to him. No matter what decision he makes, he will support him. If he goes out clean, you can accompany him to live in a hut, eat steamed bread and wear rags. If he finally gives up on you, you will understand him and won't pester resentment.
3, there is no need to kowtow, cry, deliberately get pregnant, hide elopement, etc. If it is true love, even if your boyfriend is kicked out of the house and can't inherit a penny, you will look down on it in vain and think that you have ulterior motives and deliberately put on a show to marry into a rich family. The most correct way is to keep a normal mind, not deliberately make public, not deliberately hide. If you think it's almost time to be in love, you should be ready to meet your parents. If you face both parents, you should be an ordinary neighbor elder. Whether you accept it or not, if you are pleasant, you should behave well and try to show your best. If you encounter such hints as face-to-face refusal or hint of separation, you should also spread it out generously and explain the reasons. If it is indeed an unchangeable factor such as family background, it means the freedom of love and the expectation of acceptance. Men need to take the lead here, and everything can be handed over to boyfriends. Slowly, the impression of the man's parents can be reversed, and normal people can even choose some clothes for their parents. Don't treat each other as giants, no matter how luxurious the door is, the aunts also dance square dance, and the aesthetics are very popular. The clothes they wear are also the norm in the 1960 s and 1970 s. If you keep staring at the word giant, it means that you really care about each other's money, or you put too much pressure on yourself, thus giving people the impression that you are narrow-minded, shallow-minded and have never seen the world.
There are no giants in the world, only people feel inferior. Only when you feel unworthy and poor, will you think that the giants are the biggest obstacle. In fact, no matter how luxurious your boyfriend's home is, when they look at the Royal Princess of Morocco, they will feel that they are a terrapin and totally unworthy. On the other side is a giant. Wang Jianlin is also stingy, and Ma Yun likes to rub his nose after digging. Ren Zheng Fei always takes the subway. They are no different from ordinary people except that they have more money to do more influential careers than we do, and they will not live for decades. At that time, they can only get one box. Didn't the Japanese mayor's daughter marry a farmer in China and raise chickens and feed ducks every day?