How to say, the modern society is different from the past, people in this regard is not as conservative as before, as long as the other party is not mandatory, you love me, and does not involve money transactions, then this is not illegal, against the morality of the matter, as for whether to refuse, that is your own thing, their own lack of self-love, self-respect, and others have nothing to do.
In my opinion, it is a normal behavior to have a married life during the period of husband and wife relationship, and it is not possible to rely on platonic love only to maintain the marriage, and some marriages have problems with the problems in the married life have a lot to do with the husband and wife life, so it is possible to maintain a normal married life during the period of husband and wife relationship. But if one is already divorced from one's husband and already living separately, what are the reasons and justifications for continuing to maintain a conjugal life? This is what I can not understand, a couple can enter the marriage hall, is bound to be in addition to the physical needs of the spiritual satisfaction, and the reason why the decision to divorce, that is bound to meet some irreconcilable contradictions, have reached such a point, and still keep in touch, maintain this relationship, really can not understand how you think.
But this is nothing, after all, there is no legal provisions on this, based on the existence of a husband and wife relationship, as long as the ex-husband did not force the meaning, and does not involve money transactions, then this is what you love me, outsiders can not comment on your behavior, can only say that you have some self-love, and not self-respect. In reality, there are some people choose to do this, either need to get some of their own needs from their ex-husband, or self-control is poor, and some psychological problems, but no matter which kind of problem, we have to remember one thing, if the two people after the divorce are single, to maintain this kind of relationship is quite understandable, but if one of the parties has a family, but also continue to maintain this kind of relationship! But if one of the parties has a family and continues to maintain this relationship, then it is a bit serious, although you were a couple before, but now from a legal point of view, you are no longer, and then maintain this relationship, that is to destroy people's families, once known by outsiders, I am afraid that the shame is their own, but also fall a bad reputation.
So, I hope you can think clearly about these, don't do something that is painful to the relatives and fast to the enemies. Women live a lifetime although they need to rely on a man, but don't degrade yourself to do these things, a failed marriage doesn't mean you have a failed life, pick yourself up and live a good life on your own, it's much better than to keep the relationship as it is now. In addition, no matter what kind of needs they have, they have to find a way to overcome, now the name is not right to keep this kind of relationship, say husband and wife is not a husband and wife, say couple is not a couple, if the two of you have children, the children grow up to know this kind of relationship between you and how to look at you as a mother, you can not care about these, but also for the children to think about it.