I think you should do the following:
First, be kind to everyone around you that you have the opportunity to be kind to, to be friendly and helpful to them, and to increase the chances of socializing and interacting. Even if you are not familiar with them. For you is a kind of interaction experience, but also other people slowly recognize your process, a person recognized, so that it is possible to slowly recognize you more people.
Secondly, don't add trouble to yourself for no reason, it has been such a situation, you give yourself a hard time to think of some uncomfortable things that make people unhappy, I think it is self-seeking trouble. (Beans will be more, personal bias)
Third, seriously do a thing, such as everyone knows the thing, to do him to the extreme, to do all their efforts. This you can try, such as playing basketball, billiards ah, chess ah, singing ah, dancing ah, brush writing ah and so on and so on can be. This way, people will see your characteristics, and it will be very helpful for others to recognize you. (Many times because of different hobbies, interests are not similar, no cross-points, you are interested in everyone does not pay attention to, everyone is interested in something, you know nothing)
Fourth, to be an opinionated, independent, self-confident people, we can recognize you, can not blindly follow. Confidence is what adds to your personal charm. In time you go to fit in, but also to have a degree, not busy without their own opinions and principles.
I hope it helps you!