Wearing a mask and his sparse hair was blown straight by the wind, he still insisted on going to work. Everyone at work knows his illness and that he is dressed strangely now. He also knows that his colleagues must be talking about him behind his back. He also knows that his colleagues are a little overwhelmed and don't know what to say. However, he doesn't want to stay at home. He wants to go to work.
Sooner or later, others will know. You can't hide it, and you don't need to hide it. It's normal to be born and die. There is nothing to hide. He doesn't want to hide at home. He doesn't want to be a terminally ill person all the time. He feels good now, so he will live like a normal person. The doctor said that you should not always think about your illness after leaving the hospital, and you can live like a normal person.
This is the recovery period after his first intervention. He stayed at home for half a month and then went back to the hospital for the second interventional therapy.
He has advanced lung cancer and has metastasized. Although doctors and family members are trying to enlighten him, they say he can live with the tumor and control his illness. However, he also has a fundamental judgment. He looked up a lot of information and probably knew his life span. I feel at ease when I think about this. Lower your expectations of life, lower your expectations of life, and try your best to get a better result, that's all.
From the day he was diagnosed with lung cancer, he didn't feel anything terrible about cancer. He thinks he is no different from normal people. If it weren't for a long cough, he had a CT scan to find out the advanced stage of lung cancer. Maybe he is still at work, but he has a bad cough.
After the first treatment, I felt really bad for a few days, such as fatigue, nausea, fever and general malaise. -I don't feel anything right now. My cough is much lighter and I eat a lot, but I often sweat. He feels like a normal person now, so why does he always feel like a terminal lung cancer patient?
The second pre-treatment examination provides the basis for the second treatment according to the effect of the first treatment. He didn't know exactly what was going on, just heard from the doctor. All he can feel is that his cough is much lighter and he doesn't breathe much. He knows that the tumor is still in the body, and sometimes his back and shoulders are a little uncomfortable. He'll wonder if there's another transfer. Before, PET-CT only indicated liver metastasis, so I didn't think much.
In fact, he also had various psychological preparations before he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer. Although I am in good health at ordinary times, I am almost fifty years old after all, and I should have figured out a lot of things.
Death is not terrible. He is worried about the possible long-term pain and suffering, and the pain and burden he brings to his family. -In fact, worry is unnecessary. What should come will come sooner or later. Just be mentally prepared.
The more free you are, the greater your psychological pressure will be, and you will think a lot, but it is useless. So he doesn't want to be alone, and he doesn't want to stay at home alone. He wants to go back to the unit and let his colleagues adapt to his state, and he also adapts to his environment again.
I don't think of myself as a patient with terminal lung cancer, and I don't think about what might happen. Now I am fine, so I can live a happy life like a normal person, so I have no psychological pressure.
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Hello, I'm Dr. Qi Dongmei, an old Chinese medicine doctor in the oncology department of traditional Chinese medicine. Engaged in the diagnosis, treatment, teaching and scientific research of oncology for more than 20 years. It's my pleasure to answer your question. I hope this article can help you.
Cancer has become the biggest killer of health, and China is also the hardest hit by cancer. The number of cancer patients in the world is increasing rapidly. In 20 18 years, the number of new cases was 1865438+ 10,000, and the death toll was as high as 9.6 million. If one day I hear that someone around me has cancer, most people are no longer surprised because the probability of getting cancer is too high. Although I won't be surprised, I am still worried and sad about it. After that, I will take time to go to the hospital or spend some time with me.
No matter what kind of cancer, as long as it invades the oppressed or destroyed organs and tissues, or directly damages the nervous system, it will inevitably bring great pain, and the pain that cancer brings to patients is beyond our understanding, especially when the patient index is not good, what relatives and friends can bring to patients is companionship and treatment.
At this time, it is best not to be sad in front of patients. If you are sad, he will be even sadder and even crushed. Stabilize your emotions, give the patient a bright smile, treat him as usual, and make him feel that he is not bad in your eyes, as before. Be considerate and caring at critical moments, give special warmth to relatives and arouse patients' desire for survival. Treatment is the best way to prolong the life cycle of cancer patients. When visiting a patient, help him establish information about treatment. Encourage patients to actively participate in the struggle to restore health.
Treating cancer with traditional Chinese medicine is an important way in medicine. "Trinity therapy of traditional Chinese medicine" can effectively relieve symptoms and signs, reduce local lesions of tumors, enhance the immunity of the body, ensure the normal operation of the immune monitoring system, enable the body to actively remove metastatic cancer cells and achieve long-term survival with tumors.
In addition, in daily life, we should pay attention to reasonable nutrition, diversify our food as much as possible, eat more high protein, multivitamins, low animal fat and digestible foods, as well as fresh fruits and vegetables, so as to ensure a balanced nutrition, ensure our daily nutritional supplement, enhance our physique and help resist the erosion of cancer cells. Help patients to do some proper exercise, have a full rest, and carry out regular and continuous exercise according to their own situation, so as to improve the immune function of the human body and strengthen their physique, thus effectively preventing recurrence and metastasis.
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Whether it is a minor illness, a serious illness or cancer, a good mental state and a happy mood are absolutely beneficial to the treatment of diseases.
When visiting the patient, Mao Zedong comforted the patient and said, "It is necessary to be safe when you come." . It is good to have a calm attitude towards the disease. However, because everyone's outlook on life, values and world outlook are different, it is easy and difficult to adjust. Some people are afraid of death if they take life and death too seriously. Faced with diseases, they are worried and anxious, unable to eat or sleep well. For such patients, we should guide them how to treat life and death correctly. Who hasn't died since ancient times ! Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws, and everyone is inevitable. It's just a matter of time, not too many waiters. Because of fear and anxiety, you can't cure the disease, and death will not sympathize with you. On the contrary, you should relax a little, and the treatment should cooperate with the doctor's treatment. You should eat and play. If the physical strength is acceptable and the economy is fine, traveling is a good choice to relax. Traveling around can divert your attention and help you forget your illness unconsciously.
In addition, patients should participate in more social activities and chat with friends, but talk about something happy, pleasant and interesting. You can also tell some typical examples of how others fight cancer, so that patients can establish confidence in fighting the disease. Another example is drinking songs with others and dancing square dance. On the one hand, you can forget your illness, on the other hand, you can exercise. In short, it is good for patients to be happy. Telling some jokes to patients often works well.
Thank you for inviting me! Yes, cancer patients are under great pressure, including life and death, economic loss, family relationship, treatment, long-term care and many checkpoints. If all goes well, you can live longer.
The feeling of cold and warm is revealed. Too sick to take care of themselves, comforting face to face and talking behind their backs, the vast majority died early. Because it is not far from death, I can't lift it, and the time is not very short. The closest relatives have done their best. This is also appropriate and normal.
The last thing you should do is to be alive and take care of yourself, so you are abandoned by your family and a little angry. Especially young patients. For example, young couples, their wives are sick, their husbands turn their backs, their husbands are sick, and their wives go with others. This is like living a miserable life, which is really painful.
No home, no delay, no fatigue, early death and early good, understandable. What a heart of stone.
To be a leader, we still have to strive for self-improvement. The elderly patients have children and grandchildren, and some people are comforted. One person is much more self-defeating
These are all fate, health is the best, cherish yourself! thank you
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Being a beautiful patient, although the body hurts, the spirit can be happy.
Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws.
The role of the patient is a frightening and disgusting role, but at this time, instead of accepting it, it is better to assume this role and play it well.
Patients must rely on people around them to recover their health in order to realize their wishes. So first of all, patients need to give up their original social responsibilities, trust the help of others, be willing to accept the help and diagnosis of others, and cooperate with others to restore health.
Illness is a state in which some needs are not met, which brings a lot of discomfort and even death to patients. Therefore, patients need to admit their own needs and actively find ways to satisfy themselves (mentally or physically).
Patients need to have a desire for survival, hope for the future, give up relying on roles and deal with daily life problems independently.
When I was in the hospital, I took the initiative to get to know my patients, and after being accepted by everyone, I could satisfy my sense of belonging. Actively get familiar with the new environment as soon as possible and reduce the anxiety caused by strangeness.
Find your favorite pastime and fun. For example, I often listen to my favorite songs, read my favorite books ... and play my favorite games. Anyway, I feel happier.
Being sick is also a way of life and a reminder of the body.
"You are so tired, you should have a rest!"
At this time, we have many different experiences and feelings ...
Maybe that's why we know what's most important to us.
Human life is very fragile, and all living animals will be desperate to survive. But if they and their relatives suffer from terrible cancer, the blow is equivalent to the doctor's critical notice, and they are extremely scared and collapse. Persuading others is simple. Only when it's their turn and their relatives' turn can they deeply realize that kind of disappointment and helplessness. As close relatives, they will definitely talk about cancer discoloration like patients at first, and they can't accept the fact that they are depressed. But if you think about it carefully, you must calm down. The best medicine for cancer patients is mentality, and relatives should not be depressed. Companionship and care are the best way for relatives to treat patients. I believe that scientific and advanced doctors will use the best treatment today to prolong the life of patients as much as possible, and everything will be in line with God!
A person diagnosed with cancer is the most frustrating beginning of life. After all, the countdown to life has begun. In fact, in daily life, no one will really think about the day when they will leave. This is because they are not prepared for death. Since ancient times, there has been almost no death education. Unlike us, there are many death education abroad since childhood. But how to educate people not to want to die is objective. If it's cancer diagnosed in the early and middle stages, don't think about psychological counseling. It's useless. Surgery must be done if it is possible, and it cannot be delayed. Now, after many cancer patients are diagnosed, it takes ten days or even more than a month to toss from small hospitals to large hospitals for various reasons, waiting for various examinations to confirm the operation. Cancer is a multiple growth per unit time, which may be found in the early stage, and surgery is also in the middle and late stage. After the operation, the doctor will advise the patient to undergo radiotherapy and chemotherapy according to the pathological staging results. This suggestion is determined for you according to the treatment guidelines formulated by international or domestic cancer authorities or research institutions. In fact, getting a tumor is like pouring a glass of water on soft soil, which is completely absorbed and dispersed in an instant. As for whether to do radiotherapy or chemotherapy, you need to carefully scrutinize your doctor's advice and pathological results, and consider the value of life and death at the bottom of your life. Money is also a constraint. Truth: If you have cancer, you will decide the time of your future life, whether you want to live long or short. Psychological counseling is a false proposition. Can you help patients show relief in front of you? Don't patients understand that they are facing death? This is a good man who adds his psychological consciousness to the patient. Therefore, patients with money to live, no money according to the conditions, they are entangled in radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Remember: the most important thing is to minimize the patient's physical pain. Some people think that it is better to let patients enjoy their normal life for half a year than to live in pain for a year, which is why people need to carefully consider the decision to continue treatment after surgery. Relatives care more, and couples, fathers, mothers and daughters use time to talk about good memories of the past, and emotional communication is the most important. I hope I can spend every day safely. The best psychological counseling is family communication, less tossing and less pain, and taking sedatives early. The heartache of loved ones is hard to express in words!
Fear is inevitable, and no one is calm, but the key depends on everyone's tolerance. If you are indifferent to life and death, you must live a long life. Half of cancer patients are scared to death, their anxiety, fear and mental state are getting worse day by day, their spiritual support collapses and they die faster. This is the same cancer patient, some lived for several years, and some died for several months. This is the difference. Of course, they need active treatment, and their optimism may be different from that of ordinary people.