Reader Li Yun consulted many emotional bloggers and even psychologists, just trying to find an answer: how can I get my mother-in-law to give up her relationship?
Unfortunately, she tossed and turned for more than a year, asked netizens, bloggers and doctors, and failed to find a suitable method.
Li Yun's mother-in-law is 55 years old. Five years ago, her father-in-law died suddenly because of a heart attack. Her mother-in-law rented out her house and moved to her son's house, which is Liu Yun's house.
There is no big contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law is responsible for washing, cooking and taking care of children every day. Liu Yun and his wife go to work normally, and their lives are orderly.
Only a year ago, Li Yun suddenly found that her mother-in-law went out after dinner every day. She didn't know what to do. After several inquiries, my mother-in-law said, "Dance with the neighbors in the next building."
Since her mother-in-law said so, Liu Yun has never been suspicious again.
Wait until one day, Liu Yun had a whim and took the children downstairs to buy things. She didn't find her mother-in-law when she passed the square dance. When someone found out that people didn't know her, she suddenly realized that her mother-in-law had lied.
Later, her mother-in-law admitted that she fell in love under the coercion of her family. The object is younger than himself 10 years old, divorced in his 40 s, the boss of a company, with good personality and looks.
After hearing this, Liu Yun and her husband looked at each other. None of them thought that her mother-in-law went out to date a man ten years younger than herself every day.
"He is really good, also don't abandon my age. He likes mature people and says that I am the best at this age. " Mother-in-law blushed, obviously in love.
At the same time, Li Yun's husband quickly contacted his brothers and sisters who were working in other places, hoping that they could persuade her mother-in-law to get lost and not get deeper and deeper.
Who knows that her mother-in-law is more stubborn after being opposed: "What? We are anxious to get married. You children can't be so selfish! "
True love? My mother-in-law volunteered to lend the other party 200,000 yuan to start a business, and she had to buy a house and get married.
My mother-in-law is like a girl who is carried away by love. She completely ignored the opposition of her family and let go. She is not limited to dating at night, and she is often not at home during the day. She no longer cooks and does housework at home.
"I have served you all my life, and I should find some freedom." My mother-in-law said so.
Li Yun said, "Mom, if you feel tired, you can sit at home and do nothing. No one will complain about you, but suddenly you don't care about anything. We are worried that you will be cheated. "
Mother-in-law patted the table and snapped, "What cheated me? I've been cheated by your cruel father-in-law all my life. I left myself. I want to be free now. Leave me alone. "
If you can't convince each other, you will still be angry with each other, and the children will be difficult to take care of.
It was not until I found that my mother-in-law's passbook was less than 200 thousand, and relatives in my hometown called to ask if I wanted to sell the house, and Li Yun and his wife suddenly realized that they didn't care.
My mother-in-law lent the man 200 thousand, saying that the company's capital turnover was not working, and her money was still lying down. It was better to invest it and get dividends.
Liu Yun said, "Mom, you are confused. You just believe what a stranger says. This is your pension. Why are you so impulsive? "
"I'm impulsive? I have been to his company, and I can still have a holiday. It's heartless of you to start slandering others before you meet. "
Liu Yun was speechless, and her husband took over: "Mom, what does that old house mean? Why sell it? "
Mother-in-law nodded and smiled reluctantly: "After selling the marriage, mom is not a countless person. It is impossible to lead a strange man to live in your house. The house in my hometown has been sold. I bought a set in the neighborhood next door to you, which is close and does not interfere with each other. "
Obviously, my mother-in-law has planned her future, and it is useless to be persuaded by others.
"What can my mother do? It is impossible to lock her in the house and not let her go out. If it is a big deal, she will call Shui Piao and let her learn a lesson. " Children can only compromise and see what happens.
Company 03 was emptied overnight, and 200,000 yuan was sent to Shui Piao.
Sure enough, Liu Yun's mother-in-law was cheated.
Just a month after lee woon-jae searched for ways to stop Huang Diqing's love affair, her mother-in-law went home like a frosted eggplant. As soon as she entered the door, she sat on the ground and cried, exhausted and heartbroken.
My mother-in-law said: "I haven't contacted for a few days, and I want to go to the company to find him. Who knows that the door is closed and I can't get in? When I asked, I said that I moved away half a month in advance. "
Obviously, the other party deliberately cheated money, cheated feelings and cheated money, and then ran away and couldn't find anyone again.
My poor mother-in-law thought she could find a caring person to spend the rest of her life with, but she was really cheated.
In real life, the reliability and success probability of sex is much smaller than that of normal love, because of various difficulties such as age limit, life contradiction and family running-in.
For middle-aged divorced or widowed people, the most important thing is not to blindly choose, let alone blindly confident.
Su Daqiang in Everything is Fine thought that Cai Genhua really liked him and was going to buy her a house and a car. Finally, he was said by his son, "What does she want from you at your age? Picture you are old, picture you don't take a shower? "
It can be seen that you should keep your eyes open, especially when it comes to economic matters, and be more cautious. Don't draw water with nothing, you will get hurt in the end.
Today's topic: What do you think of yellow love?
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