How to stay away from unwanted coworkers

There are three more mature ways to have an obnoxious coworker: One, change yourself. There is a saying: can not change a person try to change themselves. This person we can not escape, can not get around, change yourself, is to say that change their views of him. You know, we look at someone or something with emotion. A person and then let a person hate, he will always have a flash point, there will always be so one or two things to do to call you touched, let you intimate, in your eyes and heart on the enlargement of these one or two things, downplaying and ignoring some of his shortcomings, and so on your emotional color of him changed, you will not be so hateful to him. Besides, everyone has their own growth environment and living environment, colleagues of the personality strengths shown is the external form, his growth environment and living environment will have his unique connotation, some things may be your colleagues' personality strengths, there may be your colleagues have to be so. Do you understand all these? Have you approached your coworker's heart and environment? Walk in, it is possible to make their own coworkers to produce a different new view. Second, change coworkers. Classmates, comrades in arms, the same thing that the three feelings are people in the society of the three main emotional support and maintenance, the highest realm can **** life and death, with the suffering. For the same thing, in changing themselves at the same time, but also to heart for heart change colleagues. To change colleagues, 1 is to get closer to him, heart for heart, stand in the perspective of colleagues to understand him, more help him. 2 is to help him, not "help the evil", is to use positive energy to infect him, guide him, *** with to face. It is not easy to change a person. There are 2 points you have to have confidence: can change colleagues, no matter how much, but also the progress of colleagues, or your good deeds; make colleagues change the more, your "better than building a seven-level pagoda" will let you two more confidant. Third, away. The above efforts to go down the drain, away from. Said away, as long as the colleagues, space is unlikely, is that the intersection, to do their own thing is the hard way, "Anyer east and west, south and north winds", I am sure from the still calm. The world will always have people who hate us, no matter how good we are, even if we are RMB, there are people who regard money as dirt. Similarly, there will always be people we hate in this world, no matter where we go, there will always be one or two people with whom we do not get along. When this problem is brought to the workplace, it will evolve into no matter which company you work in, you will encounter people who hate, may hate the degree is not the same, but this person always exists, how to do it? 1, I do not recommend resignation Resignation is a cure-all, I have said above, no matter where you go, such people will appear in your life, so resignation is simply useless. 2, I do not recommend compromising Compromise and pandering may make your relationship have a slight easing, but you will be uncomfortable inside, you will feel very suffocated, every day to go to work with the same mood as the grave words, this kind of class will make people short life. 3, fix a heart, calm as water, such as how to meet the waves, can quickly return to the quiet place This is my view of the ultimate way to deal with interpersonal relationships, in fact, not only do we hate people every day will make us uncomfortable, sometimes with us and our colleagues will have friction with us, this is an unavoidable objective fact. If there is really a coworker in the company that you hate, first you have to ask yourself what you hate about him, there may be two situations: One is for no reason, see him and dislike, presumably an enemy in a previous life. In this case, what you have to do is to cultivate your own heart, because if someone else has not done anything to violate you, you hate him very much, then you look at people with colored glasses and judge others, which is not enough for you to cultivate. The second is that you have had a conflict, and since then you have formed a relationship, or he is targeting you in every way. At this point, we must not miss the past and not fear the future, the past let him pass, but do not be afraid of the future and his friction, if it really came to the point of fighting with him, do not be afraid, do not be afraid to say, to say, the noise of the noise. In fact, a lot of times say open, the gas disappears, the contradiction is no longer. To do everything to things not to people, things in the past on the past, do not keep turning over old scores, because turning over old scores hurt is not the other side, and the torture is your own. In short, it is a sentence, life, work, encounter unhappy things and do not like people, do not be afraid, boldly live, after all, the earth is not worth it, live and be happy is the most important. Try to answer your question, I hope to help you it, first of all, to analyze the following your personal situation at the moment: 1, she is your team leader (supervisor); 2, she is hypocritical, say a set of things to do a set of things to their own interests as the dominant; 3, behind her back, like to say bad things about others.

This world is popular poisonous tongue, for such a "rogue" team leader, she can only make their own workplace life is painful, the most advanced way to fight back is to fight fire with fire, so that there is no other heart. Personal advice advice, follow the three principles: Table of Contents:

1, does not involve the work does not communicate; 2, in the event of not cowardly; 3, not behind the back of the bad words

1, does not involve the work does not communicate more than words, talk less can reduce a lot of friction, in addition to the work needs and handover, try not to talk to this colleague, the more the more exchanges, the higher the chances of being disgusted. 2, not cowardly in trouble Some people, even if you do not go to provoke him, he will also provoke you for no reason. Encountered this type of disgusting coworkers should be careful spicy, they may again and again to test your bottom line, and you are disgusting to make people eat malicious harm. This time to be reasoned, but to grasp the degree, so that a few coworkers around to hear it is good. Disgusting coworkers are everyone hates, you stand on the moral high ground, your other colleagues are sure to stand on your side, camp divided into good fear of losing? 3, do not speak ill of people behind their backs You are disgusted by her behavior of speaking ill of people behind their backs, do not go to become such a person. This I think is very important, it will be related to the evaluation of others on your personal character. Try not to complain about another coworker in front of your coworkers, even if he's disgusting, and tell your family or close friends if you complain. Talking behind someone's back will subconsciously give the listener the impression that they may have spoken ill of someone else behind their back.

Don't let negative energy dominate your life, when negative energy is piled up and not properly released, it will only make yourself miserable and negative, and become sick of the atmosphere and even the world, so please forgive these people who will make you have negative emotions, life is short, why waste time for green tea biao work, there will always be a lot of bad things, especially the colleagues, but also the people who will make you feel bad. There are a lot of things that are not as good as they should be, especially from coworkers, which can be seen everywhere! There are people who hide their swords and play tricks everywhere, just to different degrees. Not only one or two, no Zhang San and Li Si, no Li Si and bachelor. The reason is not in others, but with yourself. Whether you are happy or not actually has something to do with yourself. Most because of other people's mistakes to make themselves unhappy are generally idle to find their own, I say so you do not upset, do not belittle your meaning. The people you meet at work, especially coworkers, is not for your will to shift, just like you off the birth to what family, fate. The word karma is neutral, good karma is happy, bad karma is painful. The solution is only your own thoughts, to adapt to all kinds of karma, if full of light heart will be bright, full of good things heart will be happy. Because you hate that person you change can not forget him, then you have to change yourself, more to find his advantages and strengths. Look at the advantages of others is not how good it is for others, but how good it is for yourself, there are many benefits. Look at other people's merits, they can be happy; subconsciously can learn other people's merits; can be good solidarity with others; can improve their own quality and style; for good work is a great help; can prolong life and not sick. And so on, the benefits are many. As for the bad practices of others, they will be punished. That's a lot to say, I hope you're happy! Good dance music can not top the temptation, have to jump off the square dance, "Miss opposite" 32 steps is very nice, welcome to share! Thanks for the support! /group//?app=news_article&timestamp=&group_id= What to do when you have an annoying coworker? Hello! I'm Joy who loves to sing! I'm happy to answer your question! 1. First of all, I will look for the reason in myself, to see what I have not done well enough, because 1/3 of our 24 hours a day are spent with colleagues. If we don't look for the original cause from ourselves first, the problem can never be solved. 2. 2. Try to talk less and do more in the organization. Just keep a normal relationship with your coworkers. We should treat every colleague the same, help each other, do not make right and wrong, and politely get along with each other. In the work should not be sneaky and slippery, should be down-to-earth to do a good job, especially when the collective and colleagues work together, should pay attention to their own words and deeds and every move. What kind of a person are we? Every move in the unit, we all see in the eyes. Never play smart to colleagues, because everyone is not stupid, do all of these. I believe that if we get along with our colleagues for a long time, everyone will recognize us. In case something happens, we also have a clear conscience, right? 3. If we make ourselves good enough. Then I believe that the colleagues will not come to give us trouble, there is no such thing as a nasty colleague. Besides, our colleagues do not eat our food or drink our food, why should we hate our colleagues? We are all adults. Besides, we may work together for years. Who would want to have a bad working environment every day. Of course, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. We just have to try to be tolerant and understanding of others. As the saying goes, one step back and the sky is the limit is the truth. When we survive in society, we will always encounter people and things we don't like. But you have to understand one thing, you hate her at the same time she did not lose a hair, and you become very bad mood, so you are using other people's shortcomings to punish yourself, this is not desirable, according to our common people say not cost-effective. For now, her hypocrisy doesn't affect you, it's just that the gesture makes you look uncomfortable; her selfishness will need to be sensitized slowly. My advice is: change yourself, adapt to the environment, sincere for sincere. In fact, the most difficult thing for people to do is to recognize themselves and change themselves, others in your eyes is not necessarily the real others, then your heart of their own is not necessarily the real themselves, your shortcomings you do not necessarily find in time, then she is the same, she may not recognize their own behavior is very annoying. Since you can not kick out of this unit, and can not give up this job (and as if it is not worth it), and every day still have to spend time with her, then only slowly try to change yourself, at the same time in the possibility of sensitizing her, this is a very good way to save yourself. Change, fit, these will make you comfortable. The survival of the fittest, human beings are able to reproduce on the earth, while the dinosaurs, which are hundreds of times more powerful than human beings, became extinct, the reason is that people have a strong adaptive ability, adapting to the environment is the embodiment of our ability, and it must be clear that we are going to adapt to the environment, not for the sake of other people, but for their own sake. Hello! How to get along with annoying colleagues is a difficult thing, first of all, you can't ignore the matter, because you need to cooperate in the work; on the other hand, you also can't fight with each other coldly or hotly, because it will make the atmosphere of your office become very awkward, affecting the mood of work. Like the situation you described, your coworker really did not do a good job, I contact you to try 1, peacefully get along with each other Do not show your disgust on your face. In the daily work, you should still treat him the same as other people, such as meet and greet friendly, speak without sarcasm and irony. After all, you may also want to *** with the work of things, and low head to see the head, the relationship between the rigidity of your no good, but also affect your mood. 2, forbearance Forbearance is a very high state, is a virtue, not all your emotions are ready to burst out. You think he did not do a good place, do not rush to lose your temper, friendly remind him, perhaps you will receive an unexpected effect. Too much dwelling on trivial matters will seriously affect your life. 3, think differently When you have an aversion to a person later, it will cause a chain reaction. You will do all the things he did a hundred nitpicking, no matter what he did will not let you feel satisfied. At this point you need to adjust your emotions, why don't you do a shift in thinking. If you are in this position, you are not the same will do so. 4, minimize contact There is a saying that can not afford to avoid, if you really hate this person, no matter how difficult to convince themselves to change their views, then try to minimize contact with him. You hate a person, this belongs to private matters, in the company, pay attention to the private and public affairs clearly, do not feel that they hate her, refuse to discuss with her, cooperation, so that the loss will be their own. So even if you have how dissatisfied with each other's behavior, and then work. Above should also try to do their best, not because of personal feelings and make the work of a big mistake, so it is really not worth the loss. I don't know if I'm right, can I help you? I don't know which aspect of this colleague makes you hate? If it is character, then try to stay away from him, or transfer away from this department so that he does not give you small shoes, if it is tolerated some small problems, or choose to tolerate it, because after all, you have to see each other every day, make it too stiff, if you get up to the mood of the class will not be good. How annoying can it be? Look at others do not see eye is their own cultivation is not enough. The three views of different respect and far away from it can also. A gentleman like jade is warm to the touch. To be a gentleman, we should be a modest gentleman, as tolerant as the sea, and let people feel like a spring breeze. Guanzi. The Art of the Heart": The heart is in the body, the position of the ruler. The heart is the monarch of the people, the pattern of grandeur, the heart of the broad people regardless of good times and bad times can be sure of peace. As the saying goes, it is better to have distant relatives than close neighbors, which is the importance of the people around you. Colleagues are together every day. More tolerance and understanding to help will certainly deal with the relationship. Remember, they have beams in their eyes will see others have thorns in their eyes. Every company has so annoying coworkers, I believe many people have this experience. In my last company, the most annoying is not that she will gossip, but she gossiped about your things after you have to go around with others, bluffing and exaggerating the facts. Even in your face, my party did not say a word to comment, you are how idle, gossip all day long about other people's seven miles eight miles, but also add oil and vinegar afterward, chewing on a couple of mouths as a flavoring agent for others, not tired? "@ Sui Xiao Er said" in every work environment there are people hate uncomfortable colleagues and even leaders, the terrible thing is that such people are still complacent every day, behind the back of the people to say goodbye to others, instructing others to do this and that, etc., there is a person like this can be annoyed with the death of all of us, but there is no way to change it. What should we do? Do yourself a good job, adjust your mindset, do their own share of things, the other, all things with the heart newborns for the people, all for the first time.