Giving up your seat on the bus, the choice To give up or not to give up?
Faced with the choice of giving up their seats or not, most people say that giving up their seats is a virtue and not giving up their seats is a right. But a few people believe that young people must give up their seats to the elderly.
"Giving up your seat is a kind of self-cultivation and virtue, not an obligation and responsibility." Netizens say, to the elderly is certainly a reflection of morality, but do not give up the seat does not mean "moral corruption".
Many netizens said that whenever they see the elderly dragged hobbling pace on the car, the heart is particularly distressed, every time they will help them to sit in their own seats. Because I wish someone would treat their parents this way.
When the young people got up from their seats and gave them to the old people beside them, the old people had mixed reactions.
Sincere thank-you type
"Giving up my seat to an old man on public transportation, the old man gave me a love card!" A netizen tweeted. Above the card was printed: "Thank you for giving up your seat to me, good people live in peace." The old man added: "Several old friends have made cards. You give up your seat to our elderly, we speak for fear that you can not hear, just give a card to thank you." This netizen said that it is right to give up your seat to the elderly, but this card is also encouragement. All the way to the heart is particularly comfortable.
Mutual humility type
Netizen "Ya Ya" said, I often sit on that bus is the starting station, through the hospital, all the way to the elderly in particular. Every time I see the elderly, I will give them a seat. But very often, the old people are very humble, "only a few stops on the way, you young people work tired, you sit." Every time I see such old people, I feel particularly warm, usually still insist on letting them sit down.
Take for granted type
Netizen "salty fish life" microblogging, said the bus, an old lady with a child on the bus, sitting in the first row of the girl took the initiative to let the seat, the old man couldn't wait to grab the seat, elbow also hit the girl to give her a seat. Afterward, the old man not only did not thank but also blamed the girl, saying that the other side should have given up the seat.
Many netizens said they had a similar experience, good intentions to give up their seats, the other side does not say "thank you" even if the attitude is very bad. "There are times when late to let the seat, the old man will be cursed, said the young people have no quality, I really do not know who has no quality!"
Transfer of seat type
"Li Auntie bus, get on the bus and someone give up their seat. She sat down, stood up again, and gave her seat to a small child. Immediately someone else gave up her seat, and without hesitation, the aunt let an old man, who was even older than her, sit. Everyone gave her a look of appreciation and gave up their seats. Auntie said that it was not easy for commuters to press a man and a woman, two tired young people, into their seats before they finally sat down at ease. In this way, Aunt Li's family of five, all found seats." This is a recent popular segment on the Internet, talking about this type of elderly people.
A lady who was reluctant to give up her seat said, "In fact, I often give up my seat to the elderly, but when I gave up my seat, I found that some elderly people brought their grandchildren (daughters) on the bus, and after I gave up my seat to them, they did not sit down on the contrary, but let their grandchildren (daughters) sit down, which is not a serious injury to our good intentions!
Initiative type
There are not many elderly people who take the initiative to ask young people to give up their seats, usually there is a radio on the bus, and the stewards will voice reminders when they see an elderly person getting on the bus, and there will usually be a seat. "Unless the body is particularly uncomfortable, usually will not ask others to give up their seats to me." An elderly person said.
Blanket understanding type
"It's a favor to give up my seat, and it's my job not to. If you don't give up your seat for me, it's nothing, it may be that the young people are too tired, and I don't have to have a seat for my own body." An elderly person interviewed said.
Dissatisfaction venting type
Thinks that young people must give up their seats to the elderly, not to let not work.
Data survey of young people do not let the seat of the reasons: physical discomfort, too tired to work, the elderly robust.
Survey shows that about 93% of the young people interviewed said, in the encounter with the elderly, pregnant women, disabled and other groups, will take the initiative to give up their seats. 70.40% of the respondents have encountered "initiative to the elderly to give up their seats, but the old man thanked the young people to understand the understanding of the situation". Only 18.24% of the respondents had encountered the elderly actively requesting young people to give up their seats. At the same time, there are more than 3,000 respondents confessed that there has been a case of not giving up their seats, do not let the seat of the top three reasons are: uncomfortable, too tired to work hard to sit down, the old man looks healthy.