When my parents were young, the family conditions are not good, the memory of the frugal scene vividly, so I grew up and began to earn money, every time I go home, always buy all kinds of food with a big bag to the parents, the beginning of the time, my parents said that their daughter is more filial how good, I know that at that time, they are from the bottom of their hearts happy, of course, I am also bursting with pride. After that, the beginning of the expansion of my buy things never ask parents, they feel good to buy to their parents, but also persuade their parents to eat, they do not eat I'm not happy, to later, my parents persuade me not to buy, many things they can not eat, I thought they were polite, in fact, it is really eat sweet acid reflux water, eat sugary high fear of three highs, eat hard to eat the bite can not be...
The most important thing is that you have to eat a lot of food and drink. ...
Slowly, I learned that my parents are holding on to my filial piety, and from then on, I began to respect their needs.
The year before last, my sister-in-law was excited to arrange a trip to Hong Kong and Macau for the whole family early in the morning before New Year's Eve, and the New Year's Eve was naturally arranged outside, and everything was arranged properly according to her own ideas.
But everyone's time simply can not get together, coupled with the age of the in-laws, the mother-in-law is also very serious motion sickness, the final trip did not pass, the sister-in-law is very upset, repeatedly emphasized that this matter she has been in front of friends to say out of it, thinking that by the time in the circle of friends to bask in the family happy travel picture, now do not go, she will be in front of friends good face.
Again, in order to save face and in the name of filial piety for their own color. Do children have a piece of filial piety, was originally a gratifying thing, but the impetuous society will always put the concept of people upside down, everything has become so personalized.
Don't always be overbearing: I don't want you to feel, I just want me to feel!
If you really want to filial piety parents, that at least to respect the parents' views, not their own take for granted, otherwise, that is in the name of filial piety kidnapping affection.
If you really want to make your parents happy, take the time to give your parents a tasty meal, help your parents to clean up the oil in the kitchen.
If you have time, go home and walk with your parents to the nearby park, and take a good look at your parents' square dance is also a kind of companion.
If you have the heart, love, everywhere.
Why do you need to go across the ocean to run around!