This is a very common phenomenon, people once to the 40s and 50s are keen to give the handful of unmarried men and women around, a girl in Jiangsu Province, a day was arranged for a 30 airport airport blind date activities, directly said "people can not remember, with what to talk about love it", most of the time parents introduced the object is often unreliable, can not help but think of a female friend's painful experience, but also a woman's friend's experience. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
About five or six years ago, a female friend's family introduced an object, the introduction of his father's business partners, some local reputation, which may also be his father felt that the introduction of a reliable one of the reasons. The introduction of the object, is a young talent, the People's University graduates high school students, foreign companies work, in his early 30's on the savings of three houses, the only drawback is that people in Shenzhen (my friend was in Xi'an), the boy is bent on running career, can not take care of the life of the big things. The friend's parents think the conditions are good, people are also progressive, dumping other dating object ten thousand eight hundred thousand miles, in the face of such a good son-in-law, the old couple than the daughter is also on the heart.
The two a Xi'an, a Shenzhen, eight months away from each other, love is also talked about like glue, the man is also very willing to give my friend spend money, may not be around, a variety of gifts full, I also followed the dip light. That year's National Day my friend booked a plane ticket in advance, the National Day a vacation to go to Ben now, that year's National Day circle of friends by the two love records stuffed full.
The vacation is not yet over, my friend went back to Xi'an. It turned out that during the National Day, the two somehow talked about marriage, the man simply did not have 3 houses, only a small set, there is more than a year before the delivery of the house, the friend is a little lost, but think about it as long as the person is good to her, the house can be two people together to earn. What happened in the next few days, so that this sister is more puzzled. My friend found that there are a few nights the man will always go downstairs to make a phone call, asked that is the company's transatlantic phone for fear of affecting the rest of my friend, which can be justified. The fifth day of the holiday, the man said to go home with his parents, the woman said to not together, just to meet your family, the man said that he did not talk to his parents in advance, for fear that they are not fully prepared to slow down the woman, so that she is aggrieved, the two so each back to their own homes.
Once a woman is suspicious, the whole body pores of the sixth sense will open. The first time I saw this, I was able to find a way to get my hands on the car, and I was able to find a way to get my hands on the car, and I was able to find a way to get my hands on the car.
This time the friend of her father could not sit still, angry to find the introducer, the introducer said he went on a business trip on the road to meet, 2 people in the high-speed rail chat all the way, he felt that the conditions of this man (decent work, 3 sets of houses) is good to think of the handful of people together, and they do not know that this man is married and have a child, the farce is so over.
Middle-aged men and women are eager to give the next generation of singles a chance to get together as soon as they are old enough, and my mom is one of them. My brother-in-law's brother is single, my mother he danced together with the square dance aunt's sister's daughter is also single, this is not a New Year's appointment to meet together ah, after the year, each went to work, there is no contact we do not know, anyway, my mother than my brother-in-law anxious about people's brother's marriage. My cousin is single, my brother-in-law uncle uncle's daughter is also single, about the same age, New Year's Eve to set up together, I do not know how the two chat, anyway, parents chat quite high.
This kind of needle threading work my mom really did not do less, I said you introduced if you become a good, in case not it, this later meet how embarrassing ah. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it.
Why do you say that most of the people introduced by relatives are unreliable? Relatives introduced to consider the complexity of the factors and the actual, similar age, parents relationship and harmony, the family economic conditions with the right ratio, plus a pro on the relatives, only no love element, and young people's love often start from love, there is a foundation for this only after the other factors. The purpose of the two generations is a consistent, but the starting point is completely different, which ultimately led to a completely different result.
Parents' understanding of others is often one-sided, and the introduction of people in order to be able to facilitate, often picking up the good to say, as in the case of my sister's encounter in the previous article, the other people to give the information true or false, or artificial filter out the negative news. Parents' view of love is that people are honest and reliable, and now young people choose a spouse to improve the standard, the aesthetic face is the first step, see not willing to look at what to talk about!