This issue calls for sadness, what does it mean? The old man's life is difficult, the social culture, from the heart, who are not willing to suffer from the pain and suffering and endless spending, and do not want to give their children trouble, and now the only son or daughter of their own life is difficult and not easy. Therefore, it is better to die than to suffer in pain.
Sick doctor can not afford, the patient is really also difficult to see those who are seriously ill patients, really hard and painful, some patients can not be cured of the disease but also living suffering, it is better to get rid of a hundred
This question is very sad, the poor old people in rural areas, save them.
In the countryside there is indeed this phenomenon, which is also based on those who have been sick or bedridden elderly, to live lost hope, drink pesticide suicide that is the sad choice.
This happens mostly to the elderly in rural areas, and there are several cases.
One, they have lost the ability to work, penniless, every meal to look at the eyes of unfilial children.
Second, because there is no pension, but also lost the ability to work, there is nothing to do, this is the old hard, living half a bit of dignity are not, can only choose to die this way.
This is the rural part of the old man's present Zhuang, really helpless, how to save these old people it, from the state level to give them a pension, can relieve some of the pressure of the old people, can find some dignity.
The country to build a national pension system as soon as possible, to be free of charge that kind, or the old man pension enough of that kind, or so the rural elderly is very miserable.
The rural elderly in this situation is very difficult, the current rural pension system can only solve the five guaranteed households or widows and orphans. For those who have children or to charge prevail, most of the elderly can not get the money, they want to go to the nursing home can not go, which will give these elderly people to the back road blocked.
This is a very difficult situation for the elderly, their children are still not filial, to the nursing home children do not pay, and they do not have the money, it is really difficult on the difficult.
This problem is still real, and should be a cause for concern for the whole society.
The elderly in rural areas, especially the high-minded elderly, a lifetime of savings is to raise their own children. The children have a family, the old man also changed the role of the children to raise their own, often the children and the elderly easy to produce generation gap, resulting in misanthropy, with extreme means to find their own relief.
Pro village there are three elderly, two hanged, one drank a pesticide, to their own children caused a lot of psychological pressure. Analyze the reason for their suicide is to feel that they can not work, to add burden to their children, the body is sick, afraid of spending money. One of them also served as a village cadre for many years.
Why are they like this? It deserves our attention.
Your question is not a serious one! It makes people have a sense of horror! Is it not a bit too much? To say that most of the rural home more or less some pesticides, this I believe. Because, farmers farming is year after year without pesticides, do not see every time you buy just run out, save some left over point is normal.
It's not accurate to say that a lot of old people in the countryside are hiding pesticides. When you are sick, you don't go to treatment but drink pesticides, this is even more bizarre, year after year, the old man died, a few are drinking pesticides and died! Occasionally there are very, very few. There have been several instances of people drinking pills and jumping into the river to kill themselves, but it's not the case that they don't go for treatment and drink the pills.
Two cases occurred the year before last. A pair of lovers in love, because they could not pay the bride price money, the woman's mother did not agree to marry them in love, the lovers embraced each other and threw themselves into the river. Another is my county, also because of the bride price problem, can not afford to pay the bride price, the son's marriage fell through, the boy's old father, feel sorry for the ancestors, sorry for the son, so cast the South River to kill himself and died. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night.
Last year, a woman in the neighborhood, because of domestic affairs and men contradictions, "drinking" pesticides, she is to scare men, pesticide bottles within the plug cover simply did not open, she took the bottle of medicine to the mouth, and doubtful pretend to "gulp gulp gulp" drank a few mouths, followed by the pesticide bottle broken! The pesticide bottle was broken! The man was terrified and called "120"! Pulled to the hospital, to give her an enema to wash her stomach, the woman screamed "I did not drink pesticides! The man urged the doctor to hurry up quickly, it must be the drug burned her to say nonsense it! Doctors examined and observed, not like drinking pesticide poisoning, and by no longer have to give her an enema to wash the stomach and intestines disinfection. The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was able to see it.
Besides, even if the old man has a disease, is certainly a major disease or incurable disease, has to pain through the intolerable or sick to the point, the old man may have this drink pesticide to free the idea, do not want to drag the family, or do not want to waste money, want to seek a death. At this point, they can not care about themselves, water and rice do not enter, there is the ability to get medicine to drink? In addition, at this time, the old man is very sick, in general, should be accompanied by family members, the old man would like to drink will not have the opportunity to ah, their own body has been unable to do so, the life of the dying.
Weekdays, headache and fever, not to see a doctor to drink pesticides, it is not too life-threatening. If, however, people are willing to prepare pesticides long ago, it will not be able to!
Because of the low price of pesticides, it is easy to buy in the countryside. The pesticide is a very effective way to reduce the risk of death, and it is a very painful process, so it is a wise choice to drink pesticide when you are tortured by a disease that is worse than death. Rural people are generally not as rich as urban people, in fact, in the face of serious illness, whether rural or urban people are mostly incapable. Besides, even if you have money, the hospital may not be able to cure you. Just spend more money, suffer more, and in the end, the money is gone, life is gone. The rural elderly have to drink pesticides to commit suicide, the urban elderly have to jump from a building to commit suicide, listening to people's heartache, I hope that the country as soon as possible to promote the euthanasia, so that life is not as good as death in the sleep of the people died happily.
Why is it that many rural elderly people now hide pesticides, and when they are sick, they do not go to the treatment but drink pesticides?
First of all, this question feels a bit not quite right, why? Because in the decades of rural life, there is a disease is not treated but drink pesticides in this case of the elderly is indeed very small, only occasionally occur, and the subject is regarded as a common phenomenon, really let a person feel a little surprised, this is just a personal opinion, please the subject to understand as well.
At the same time, it is very likely that this is the case, the place where the subject is located and the author's rural areas are somewhat different, in the subject of the local, the situation is a little more.
Then on the matter of fact, regardless of this situation more or less, the following to talk about my personal views:
The rural elderly to use the rest of the pesticide to pack up, this phenomenon is very common, but the purpose of its packing up is by no means in order to the future one day, after a serious illness, go to drink these pesticides, but the rural elderly are very frugal, the remaining pesticides are stored up, and so on, when used in the future to take out and use. The first thing you need to do is to get the pesticides out of the way, so you can buy less and save some money.
Nowadays, the problem of rural elderly people's old age and medical problems do have some difficulties. In the previous article, many times and we calculate the normal annual income of a rural elderly, counting the basic pension of about 100 yuan a month, plus a few points to a few acres of income from contracted land, generally a rural elderly only 1500-3000 yuan a year of income. It's difficult to make ends meet, and if there's a bit of illness or disaster, it's really hard to deal with.
In our East Hospital, there is an old Li head, liver cancer last year, the son of the family borrowed more than 10 million dollars in external debt, a *** spent more than 200,000 yuan, although the condition is temporarily stabilized, through the new rural insurance reimbursement of tens of thousands of dollars, there are twelve, thirty thousand dollars in external debt, the family is currently in a financial predicament.
Among them are individual elderly, after a serious illness, know that even if they can be cured, but also have to spend a lot of money, for fear of burdening their children, a moment of thought, do drink pesticides in this case. There is also the possibility that the children are not filial piety, the old man's condition is serious, feel no life, drink pesticide to seek death.
In fact, this situation, do not have to find a whole lot of reasons, the core problem should be "money" problem, if the family is not bad money, is not going to find their own way out, there is a saying that it is better to die than to live, we say is not such a reason?
The old man in the countryside does have this idea, and I'm one of them. Fear is to the end of the time to go suffer no one to take care of, drink some pesticide is also a good choice, but you can not say that many people, you say that many people are scary!
Regarding such a tragedy, Wuhan University has released a survey report, which shows that a rural elderly touching the heart of suicide. There have even been cases of children forcing old people to die: a son working outside took seven days off to go home and visit his terminally ill father. When two or three days passed and his father still wasn't dead, the son asked his father, "Are you going to die or not? I always *** just took seven days' leave, and it was to include the time spent doing the funeral, and I have to go back to work in a hurry." The old man then committed suicide by taking medicine. This tragedy, although there are, but still an isolated phenomenon, farmers what caused the rural elderly to go to this extreme? There are several reasons:One, the rural elderly, a lifetime of earning not much, the age of not much savings, the bag is shy.
Farmers planting, a kind of is not much income, a lifetime will not have much savings, especially now has entered the flower armor, the old and thin this group of old people, they are from the hard life out, can send what wealth?
The two big things for rural people are: building a house and marrying a son. After these two things, people are also old, money is gone, late life, can only count on the children.
Two, the rural elderly, unlike the elderly in the city can be pension, no hundred dollars of pension subsidies is really a drop in the bucket.
At present, the rural pension must rely on children, but based on the current rural family structure, the elderly farmers are difficult to have children can be surrounded by, young people need to go out to work, need to earn money to support the family. And the number of elderly people in rural areas is increasing, rural areas can not afford to build so many nursing homes.
Three, the rural elderly are most afraid of getting sick, and even more afraid of creating a heavy burden on their children.
"Nothing to be afraid of, just afraid of having a disease", the rural elderly are most afraid of getting sick.
Age, and no money, many elderly people are "small disease carry, big disease, etc. si".
Those who have a serious illness to go to the extreme of the elderly, there must be a lot of unspeakable, and then is not willing to give the children to increase the burden.
When the city's elderly in the park to walk the dog, dancing in the square; many rural elderly are still in the fields and hard work, not that they were born to love to labor, just that they wooden way, wait until the day of complete loss of the ability to work, waiting for them is the fate of the late years. "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that with the help of your own personal computer.The phenomenon of the old man hiding poison in the countryside does exist, and it has really happened in my side of the old man after the bedridden, with the poison prepared in advance to take the poison of the tragic events.
A colleague's mother, very early on, said that she would be old and could not move, absolutely no harm (dragged down the meaning of) their own children.
The old man has four children, two sons and two daughters, and four children's economic conditions are not bad, usually very filial.
The old man is very small, dry and thin rural old man, the body hard, life is on their own, raising chickens, planting vegetable gardens. The old partner did not die when the old couple alone over, but also planted ration fields. Then the old partner died with the youngest son's family together.
As the old man usually revealed his future will not drag the idea of children, so, several children are also very attentive to some of the old man's demeanor.
Then one time, the rainy day, the old man went out and fell down, broke the bones of the waist, the children try to give her medical advice, but because of the age of too big, can not be fully recovered, can only be bedridden, and the future of the life of the living need to be special waiting. The first time I saw this, I had to go to the hospital to find a way to get to the hospital, and then I had to go to the hospital to get to the hospital.
But then a few days later, the old man still serving rat poison killed himself. The old man's determination to die is evident in the fact that he has hidden a packet of drugs in the crevice of his bed, which he has been using for a long time.
This kind of thing, in the countryside, although it is a rare phenomenon, but there are really some old people, will be for various reasons, especially in the encounter of major diseases, choose to cut themselves off.
These are some of the most important things you can do for your family.
The first thing you can do for your family is to get out of your bed, so you don't have to worry about being a burden on your family. The mother of this colleague of mine, mentioned above, belongs to this category.
Secondly, if you have a serious illness, the expensive medical bills may force the elderly to take the road to extinction.
We have a nanny aunt on our street, usually very cheerful and optimistic, and then one day went to check out breast cancer, and not long after that, she hanged herself and died.
Thirdly, it's hard to bear the pain of the disease, and you'd rather choose to relieve yourself.
One of my classmates' mother, bedridden for many years, and insomnia day after day, year after year, the pain is unbearable. Eventually unbearable, in the middle of the night secretly climbed out of the house, threw himself in the pond in front of his house, is also very miserable.
Fourth, there is no economic source, low income, for the sake of life, as well as some other external reasons.
Just during this year's epidemic, a sweeping sanitation worker in our town, seventy years old, hanged himself in the grove. The reason why the old man hanged himself is not known, but the old man's life is usually very hard and embarrassing, but it is the real truth.
Compared with the city, the rural elderly do not have financial resources, the old age is more difficult, after a serious illness, some will choose to self-expression.
In addition to the warmth of the family, we hope that more social forces can pay attention to the elderly in rural areas, and give them more care, so that they can really enjoy their old age.
These are the most important things that you can do for your family.