T (Jiang Taihe) is the owner of a construction company. He and H (Han Yeyun) fell in love at first sight while traveling by train, when H was a college student.
Two people have been in love for five years. During these five years, T worked hard day and night for the company, while H experienced the psychological process of obsession, doubt, sadness and disappointment. In particular, she can't forgive T for not being with her when she needed it most, that is, when her father died, and even not answering the phone.
Finally, H was dumped by T, which made T lose his fiancee, but he was at a loss.
H dumped T and missed her father. For a long time, she was unhappy. In order to get H out of the emotional trough, her mother helped her to set up an interior design company, so that she could fight for her ideals and do what she liked. There are her good friends in the studio, and her mother rents a house for them, so let them pay a small rent every month.
H's company was depressed and his income was not high, so he met N (Nanhe Town) on a blind date. N is a colleague of H's friend, a dedicated and caring plastic surgeon, which makes people feel practical and warm.
He was forced by his mother to go on a blind date, but no one liked him. Although he and H have only been in love for 1 year, he already regards H as his fiancee in his heart. No matter what happens, he chooses to trust H, and he doesn't even care about his privacy. He gave H the password of his mobile phone and room, and H was free to come in and out.
His kindness to h can be said to be considerate Whenever, his shoulders can be relied on, his chest can be hugged, his hands can be firmly held, and he is even willing to fight for H and T.
If this story goes on like this, I still agree with the values of the screenwriter of Discovery of Love. After all, this is life, not living in the past, but living in the present. Instead of being tortured to death by the so-called failed "love", it is better to cherish the people in front of you and live your own life.
Maybe the screenwriter deliberately wants people to realize that falling in love is not easy, or maybe the reality is more complicated than imagined.
H owed her mother an iou because the company was depressed and she couldn't even pay the rent, so that she could enjoy N's kindness while refusing N's proposal.
It happened that the old love reunited at this time. Not only did T not want to compete with H's current position, but T and H also had a cooperative relationship at work.
In the process of work, two people who have hurt each other often involuntarily recall the past and constantly deepen their understanding. In the past five years, things that were too late to communicate and explain have been answered bit by bit, thus clearing the air. With the help of T, H's economic situation is becoming more and more independent, but it also makes the feelings between N and H more and more floating.
In my eyes, n is really a warm man. Although he is not sure whether H really loves himself, he is sure that he wants to marry H, so he has repeatedly tolerated H's mistakes. H didn't want to give up his feelings with N, let alone hurt N, and agreed to N's proposal in contradiction. For this reason, t also decided to quit very carefully. He was treated as a fool by his own feelings, but he still refused to admit that he had lost, and regained H's trust on the grounds of achieving H's career.
Every time H and T work together and don't come back to him, N doubts whether H really loves himself. He didn't understand why H was alone with T for so long when he was with himself, and he cried in front of T. He knew that T also liked H, but he didn't understand their relationship. So sometimes he is afraid to talk to H about his life experience, for fear that he will be abandoned and despised. This kind of depression gave him a headache and had to take medicine. I can't get an answer every time, so I have to give up and let him suppress himself.
After he proposed successfully, in H's room, N found a collection box and solved the mystery in his heart. N finally knows that H and T have been in love for five years, and then they broke up, and they still have each other in their hearts. He hoped that H would stop cooperating with T immediately, but H didn't want to.
N understand one thing, a woman who can't remember her ex can't be loved. No matter how good he is to H, no matter how much he trusts H, he will be unhappy and feel insecure. He hates himself and doesn't want to say goodbye, but he thinks he is the one who should really quit.
The finale is that after N and H broke up, H went to T a year later.
The combination of T and H makes many people feel reasonable, but it turns me off, not only because the reunion of old love is unfair, but also because I think people who know love should not hurt those who love themselves.
If I were a screenwriter, I wouldn't make it up like this. I will write that H was abandoned by two people and worked hard for his career alone. Maybe it's a little cruel and unfair to both men, but if it's really the discovery of love, H should fall in love with herself first.
In this play, H is a seemingly happy person. In fact, she doesn't know much about herself and doesn't love herself very much, so when love comes, she will fall in love with someone inexplicably. She doesn't know what she loves him (T) and she is not sure what the other person likes her. When she really meets a good man (n) and feels fairy-tale love, she doesn't know how to accept it, so that she can feel at ease. There seems to be a lack of some tacit understanding, but she thinks it should be taken for granted. When T helped her find her original dream and untie her heart, she made up her mind to be what she wanted to be, or to face up to her heart.
Love in fairy tales is false, but love in real life is true.
After the "fiancee" in fairy tales met the prince, all her troubles disappeared, but the "fiancee" in real life was the beginning of all her troubles.
This trouble is not a woman's trouble, nor a man's trouble, but two people can't treat each other as an "old couple" when they don't really understand the meaning of "marriage" or are still in love.
The old couple's "feelings" can never satisfy unmarried men and women, because they are too deep and real, so real that they are afraid.
In short, the old couple's feelings are asking for trouble-I know you have short legs, you can't eat well, you lose your temper, you are self-centered, and you have a history of love. I still support and love you, because we no longer regard each other as trouble, but as an indispensable part of my life, and I feel at ease with you. Two people have to think this way to touch their right hand with their left hand.
Many times, people take the "love" of marriage for granted, thinking that time will make "love" more real, and this kind of true love does not need to be "cautious" like love, but "plain".
Like the two people in this story. T thought H should know how busy he was, so he hung up the phone before H finished, didn't answer H's phone, and didn't even show up. Instead, I complain that H is too clingy and naive. N thinks that if you get married, you should find someone who has feelings for yourself and give her H care and love. No matter what happens, just listen, but I'm always worried that I won't know myself and know myself. In the end, the single effort and patience made him disgusted and chose to give up.
In fact, love is language and love is action. It never existed, and I know it without telling me! Never existed, I can understand without you! It doesn't exist, and you didn't give me sincerity to make me fall in love with you.
There is no love called "the love of an old couple" in the world, but there is a feeling called "the love of an old couple". The so-called soul mate is just falling in love again and again. The so-called feelings are just knowing that we will fall in love again. Once the active communication is stopped, it is difficult for the old couple to communicate with each other, and they may even be unable to maintain their feelings.
In this film, I often hear "I like you" and "I love you", but "I'm sorry". Between husband and wife, between lovers, the correct feeling should be "thank you". Thank you for everything you have done for me, for making me feel so good about myself, and for appearing in front of me when I needed it most. ...
Just as all good things in the world need to be created, so do love and marriage. If two people sincerely work together for tomorrow and are willing to take the time to understand and communicate, even the old love can become a new love, otherwise even if there is a new love, it will be an old love.