1, think differently. Mother-in-law is also from your age, and after all, you will be a mother-in-law. Know how to think differently, think about the conflict when it occurs how this conflict is formed, because of what things, if you are now the mother-in-law, how you will deal with this matter, is the mother-in-law unreasonable or this matter is really their own wrong.
Of course, you are angry after thinking, bystanders clear, the authorities are confused, understand this reasoning, you can also find your friends about this matter to let him analyze this matter is who's right and who's wrong, can not pull the mother-in-law to find her husband face to face to let her husband to comment on who's right and who's wrong, because her husband no matter who's right to comment on who's right to intensify the tensions between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, and will not play a role in easing.
2, focus on the emotional exchange between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a daughter-in-law to get on well with her mother-in-law not only material care but also emotional care, every New Year's holiday a good holiday, may be able to change the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, every day of the warmth is also essential, every time by the mother-in-law's help to express gratitude to your mother-in-law. When your mother-in-law is sick, you need to take good care of her and give her psychological comfort.
3, to give the husband a certain dignity, so that the mother-in-law feels that his son has found a daughter-in-law who loves him. Many people say that mothers-in-law love their sons and ignore their own feelings, which is actually very normal, just like our parents love and care for themselves, just like you love and care for their children.
So when the mother-in-law is in the housework as much as possible do not let the husband out, as long as it is a point of understanding of the mother-in-law will feel that their son has found a wife who loves their own. The mother-in-law will say to the public: look at my son found how much love his wife, in fact, the mother-in-law are like this, you are good to her son, she will naturally be good to you.
In fact, it is not very difficult to live with your mother-in-law, there is one important point, that is, the man. Men are the bridge between the two women, if there is any contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can let the husband to adjust, try not to face the mother-in-law, the first is the mother-in-law face can not hang, your contradictions will deepen again, let the husband to explain, after all, is the son, in how will also give face, and so the gas disappears a family will again and harmonious.