Several behaviors that men love their wives are warm-hearted. Let's see if he has done it. As a woman, you should learn to observe words and deeds, cherish his kindness to you, and reject his badness to you.
1. You can bully him, but he will never fight back.
A man who loves you dearly will not scold you back. It's not that he can't beat you, but that he likes being bullied by you. He knows that when you are unhappy, give him a punch, and after a while you will be relieved and won't continue to be angry. He is patient and won't quarrel with you.
As a man, he is an indomitable man outside and a gentle husband at home. Some men, when they get home, vent their unhappiness at work and are very unfriendly to their families. If a woman has a temper, then two people will fight, and the more they fight, the more fierce they become. Women always suffer when they really fight.
He will finish what you haven't finished.
If husband and wife have a good relationship, they will not share with each other, and both of them can enjoy a piece of food. Sometimes in order to save money, just order a box lunch and eat it in a bowl. Nobody doesn't like anyone.
If a man loves you, he will not dislike the food you have eaten, but will continue to eat by himself. It's a pity that you haven't finished a cake; He didn't want to throw away some small dishes left. It is not that he has no money, nor that he is hungry, but that he knows how to save and care about people.
Never expose your shortcomings in front of others.
As the saying goes:? Wash your dirty linen at home. ? When men talk about housework and complain in front of outsiders, they are actually disappointed with their families or don't want to stay in this home. Especially when two people go to a party together, the man says in front of many people that you are wrong here and not good there. Especially when you go back to your parents' house, men complain in front of their parents, which makes you feel embarrassed.
The man who loves you will accept your shortcomings, even if he can't, he will communicate with you at home and won't take your shortcomings as a talk. He always puts in a good word for you in front of outsiders. Even if you make a mistake, he keeps it in mind, and he doesn't talk nonsense or complain.
When I introduce you to others, I will hold your hand instead of pointing at you.
When a couple goes out, when he meets an acquaintance, he will introduce you warmly and hold your hand at the same time, which shows that the couple has a good relationship. Or, he leans against you and introduces your identity with body language. Others are not fools. I will understand when I see you close to him.
When he doesn't care much about you, or thinks you are annoying, he will point to you and say to others: Look, this is my wife. ? Or he will not point at you, but point at you with his chin and look at you with his eyes. His behavior is actually perfunctory and shows that he doesn't love you.
When you importune, he will cheer you up, not add fuel to the fire.
Women are sometimes unclear. If they are very clear, they are not women. I can't say, because I am narrow-minded and I can't figure out many things. Smart men will understand women's importune, rather than haggle with women. Men should be like men, not petty, but tolerant.
The man who loves you dearly will make you happy and let you go when you importune. If he lets you go, you will be happy and feel that you have won. In fact, it doesn't matter if husband and wife get along. Fighting is a family. If a man deliberately adds fuel to the fire when you importune, he will alienate you, probably because he is not worthy of you and even changes his mind.
Even if you lie, he will believe you.
When husband and wife get along, trust is the foundation. Couples who don't trust each other will have unstable feelings. If they are suspicious, they will all live very tired. Men always doubt you, so they will say something irrelevant and impose it on you, leaving you with a hundred arguments.
If a man loves you, he will believe you unconditionally. Even if you lie, he will believe you. Even if he knows you lied, he thinks you lied in good faith and didn't hurt him or his family. If you are really in trouble, in fact, you can tell him, and he will help you sincerely. You can communicate honestly whether it is about your family or work.
7. After work, he will also do housework instead of reaching for food with clothes.
Someone said:? Whether a man loves you or not depends on whether he can do housework. ? Doing housework, many men may not be good at it, but men who love you will learn to do housework. For example, a man learned to make soup when his wife was ill; When my wife works overtime, I try to cook some delicious dishes and wait for her to come home.
A man who doesn't love you is an old man. He can't do housework and often hates dirty floors, wrinkled clothes and poor food at home. In fact, many families, women also have jobs, not housewives, and they are very tired after working all day. There's really no need to go home and have to be a nanny.
8. He often praises you and often says? I love you? .
It is said that plain is true. However, the marriage that is too dull is getting boring, and both of them feel unhappy. On holidays, as usual, no one remembers; Don't even want to mention the wedding anniversary, pretend to forget; Valentine's day is also regarded as a day to make money, so I don't care. As a woman, such a day will be very disappointing.
A man who loves you will not be stingy with his praise. Even an old couple, he will always praise you. You bought new clothes, and he praised you for your beauty; You go to the square dance, he watches, or joins the dance team, and he praises you for dancing well; On some festivals, he will give you gifts. He often says? I love you? Even if I'm tired of listening, I'm still very happy.