? My junior high school classmates' grades are comparable to mine. On the day of his math exam, he somehow made a fatal mistake and missed a page, which caused great losses. Mathematics is his forte, and such a big mistake naturally affected his mood, and he failed in the following subjects. He could have entered a school to change his fate through his own strength, but he missed the entrance exam because of his own mistakes.
? Looking back on his present life, it was very difficult all the way, but he didn't write the story of "Diaosi attacking the overbearing president". He is just one of thousands of migrant workers who struggle for their lives every day. When COVID-19 broke out in the spring of 2020, all industries stopped work for epidemic prevention, but he was faced with the dilemma of "stopping work". A man who is nearly 50 years old has no decent house, no unit to buy him old-age insurance, and no savings at home. I asked him why he mixed up like this. He said that he earned some money over the years, but it was only enough for the daily expenses of his family, that is, how much he earned and spent, and he had no spare money.
? If he had avoided his mistakes in the exam, he wouldn't be in danger of "stopping work immediately" now.
? Once you make some mistakes, you change the trajectory of your life. What this trajectory will eventually become depends on the people walking. It may be an ordinary life, or it may be always prosperous. But I have always believed that a person who can make mistakes in the big exam of life has little chance of turning over in the wind.
? Parents are important people in children's lives. Therefore, when children take the first big exam in their lives, parents must not hesitate to help them succeed in "Du Jie". So, what should parents do to become god's assists in the exam?
? 1. Create a harmonious, pleasant and relaxed family atmosphere. One month before the exam, parents should sort out their emotions. Don't quarrel, don't quarrel over trifles, don't indulge in short videos, don't be obsessed with square dance, and don't go out to play mahjong. In short, create a warm and comfortable living atmosphere for your family. In such a family atmosphere, children are very steady and practical, and they will not panic in the exam.
? 2. Don't put pressure on children. Whether the child works hard in the preparation stage or not. Don't emphasize the results of the last few days. Instead, tell the children calmly: if study requires hard work, then the exam requires luck, and those who work hard are lucky, so leave everything to luck and don't think too much. In addition, tell children that parents accept whatever results they get in the examination room! After the exam, parents praised their children, but they didn't do well. Parents gave their children support. If parents don't put pressure on their children, their emotions will be relatively stable and their mentality will be very peaceful. In my last Moyaban 10 senior high school entrance examination, many children got the best results in three years. Because these children live in a stable and happy family. The parents of these children approved my advice before the exam, so they turned themselves into qualified psychotherapists and kept their children psychologically healthy.
? 3. Do a good job in logistics support for children. Fighting pays attention to "the soldiers and horses have not moved, food and grass come first", and the college entrance examination is also a war that children must go through in the process of growing up without smoke. Therefore, parents should prepare enough "food" for their children.
? Parents must confirm where their children's examination room is before the exam. How far is it from your home? Is it convenient to go? Are there any obstacles on the way to the examination room? The purpose of figuring out these questions is to avoid being late, uncertain and suddenly injured.
? When my son took the college entrance examination, the examination room was located in a school 7 kilometers away from my home, which was quite close. In addition, the school has unified public transportation, but the only road is very narrow and easy to be congested. I'm afraid that the child will not have a good rest, or there will be uncontrollable situations. I booked a room for the children in the hotel next to the examination room, and I walked to the examination room for 5 minutes. In order not to have an accident on the road, even if it only takes five minutes, dad will personally escort it.
? The examination room for his senior high school entrance examination is in my school, which is only 5 minutes away from my home. Every time he takes an exam, my mother sends it to the school and gives it to his team leader. Before leaving, I will give him a hug, pat him on the shoulder and say: the power of maternal love is infinite, come on! My son is writing in the examination room, and I am waiting patiently in the office. After the exam, I took my son's hand and went home together. When I got home, my father had put the food on the table. We don't talk about the exam, only that it's over and everything has become an established fact. Put the gun down. The exam is hard, eat something delicious and have a good sleep.
? When the child sleeps, parents should check the air conditioning temperature in his room. The air conditioning temperature should be set at 26 ~ 27 degrees Celsius, and the wind should not be blown directly on the children. When the child is sleeping, parents must set the alarm clock and wake up the child on time. Don't worry too much, because you don't care if you set the alarm clock. What if the child can't hear? My children didn't sleep at noon, whether it was the senior high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination. I'm afraid that if I fall asleep, my child will be late. When is the right time to go to the examination room? Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to arrive at the examination room 30 minutes in advance. Parents should calculate the time required for the rest place to arrive at the examination room in advance. If the journey is long and you drive by yourself, you must take into account the uncertain factors on the road, so it takes an extra minute 10 just in case.
? 4. Help children do a good job of examination. Every year in the college entrance examination, the admission ticket is gone, the ID card is left at home, and the refill is out of ink. Will such a situation disqualify the child from the exam? Of course not! But it will have an impact on children's emotions, which in turn will affect test scores. In order to avoid these unnecessary troubles, parents must help their children to do the inspection work. Some people may argue, and parents will help check the exam stationery for such a big child. Are they rubbish?
? Children of this age will certainly check their exam stationery, but if parents can also participate, can they show concern for their children? We often say that we love children. What's the use of just talking with your mouth? Expressing love with actions can make children feel more loved. At the flag-raising ceremony every Monday morning, there are always some children (mainly boys) wearing dresses with rolled collars or misplaced buttons. Many teachers remind them with their mouths: hey, the collar is rolled up, straighten it! I don't pay any attention to such an adult. I kept silent, went to the child's side, stretched out my hand to help the child straighten his collar, buttoned it, patted the child on the shoulder, smiled at him gently, and turned to leave. Some colleagues always ask me why those rebellious boys are not rebellious in front of you. I can see the details when I button my child's collar. Can the child manage the collar? Can you fasten it? Of course it will! But what does my indulgence mean? This is love! Who will resist love?
? So what is the examination paper? Here, I have made a list for parents and friends to help their children check:
? 1. Transparent stationery bag.
? 2.2B 2 pencils (cut for standby) or 2 machine-readable pens.
? 3.3 ~ 5 0.5mm black ink pens and 4 spare cores.
? 4. Eraser 1.
? 5. There are 1 pad.
? 6.a compass.
? 7. A set of rulers, protractors, right-angled triangular rulers, obtuse triangular rulers and straightedge.
? Special reminder: ID card and admission ticket must be brought! Remember!
? In addition, you can also bring these things into the meeting:
? 1. A bottle of boiled water must be transparent. If it is mineral water, the sticker on the bottle must be torn off.
? 2. A pack of wet tissues.
? 3. A bottle of essential balm or cool oil.
? 4. two or three chocolates, you can eat one before entering the examination room, and don't eat it during the exam.
? So, what can't be brought into the exam? Parents and friends should remember:
? 1. Mobile phones must not be brought into the exam. If they are found in the exam, they will be punished as cheating.
? 2. Don't put the electronic strap into the examination room either. There is a wall clock in every examination room, and it is very accurate to adjust the wall clock in every test center before the exam. And there will be a broadcast in the examination room to inform the examination time.
? 3. Examination materials and draft papers should not be brought into the examination room. If it is found during the exam, it will also be punished as cheating.
I told this information to my parents and friends, just to let my parents participate in the children's battle in time and accurately, so that they can fully feel that I am not alone in this battle! I have strong reinforcement! In this way, the child's heart will be settled and he will be wise!
? Finally, I would like to remind parents and friends: What should children wear during the exam? What to eat? My opinion is: what to wear at ordinary times, what to wear in the exam; What to eat in peacetime, what to eat in the exam! Don't try to be creative and make children feel at a loss.
? Dear parents and friends, is everything ready? I'm ready! Then leave everything to fate! Good luck! ?
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