As the saying goes, "There are all kinds of birds in a big forest, and why shouldn't people be like that." There really is such a son, away from home for 20 years, never contact with the family, and even his mother is critically ill and wants to see him was refused, which in the end is why? And follow me to see the truth of the matter.
Mother is critically ill, want to take a look at his son
The mother is 73-year-old Guo Qiaodi, and she has been wanting to see his son is Wang Yongqiang. 73-year-old Guo Qiaodi has been critically ill, can only lie in a hospital bed, she relies on oxygen little by little to the end of life. She has only one wish, which is to see her youngest son again before she leaves. But that wish may turn out to be a regret and go with her.
Guo Qiaodi's youngest son is Wang Yongqiang. Wang Yongqiang was born in 1969 into a poor family. His father supported the family by selling rat and mosquito pills, and his mother did some farming work at home, which made for a very poor life. Wang Yongqiang also has a brother with polio, and their family became one of the poorest households in the area. Parents said to Wang Yongqiang since childhood that he would be the backbone of the family, they say "the poor family's children early in the family", Wang Yongqiang since childhood talent, coupled with hard work, grades have always been among the top, Wang Yongqiang naturally became the other parents of the mouth of the "other family's children. "
Wang Yongqiang at the age of 18 with excellent results in the University of Suzhou, the family poor did not give him 18-year-old Bar Mitzvah, but he gave himself a big gift. In those days, the children usually go to school early, can get into a university that in the whole village is very honorable, others are for to him as an example. After graduating from college, Wang Yongqiang again studied for a master's degree, after graduating from the master's degree he was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences physics research doctoral students, and later became a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University.
In those days, being able to go to university was enough to honor one's ancestors, not to mention getting a postdoctoral degree. The two were married in Beijing, and Wang Yongqiang lived in his father-in-law's house.
The couple later discussed studying in Japan, and before leaving the country, Wang Yongqiang often contacted his family, and from time to time, he also sent his own savings back to his family. The family learned that the child to study abroad, uncle also traveled to Beijing to visit, after the hospitality, the two went to Japan to study. This is to go is 20 years, 20 years Wang Yongqiang never contacted once with the family, the family only know the child went to Japan, the 20 years in the end is dead or alive who is not clear.
People are found, but Wang Yongqiang refused to recognize
Wang Yongqiang's father, Wang Jisheng said, I and his mother's age, especially in the past two days, the mother's body is extremely bad, the biggest wish is to close their eyes before taking a look at their children. Said Wang Jisheng also took out the year when his son in Beijing to write the last letter, the old couple instantly fell in tears, looking at the really quite difficult for people. Subsequently, accompanied by reporters, Wang Jisheng and Wang Yongqiang's uncle came to his father-in-law's home in Beijing, who knew that the people said, the two have long been divorced, please do not come over to bother you.
The media spread the word, and it didn't take long for someone to say that there was a man working in Atlanta, USA, who was very similar to the description of Wang Yongqiang, who was confirmed to be the same as Wang Yongqiang, who hadn't been in touch for 20 years. Reporters with doubts can not wait to ask Wang Yongqiang why 20 years without contact with their parents. Wang Yongqiang to the media simply said seven words: "clear official difficult to resolve family affairs." When it was hard to get in touch, only to be rejected by their son, the family replied with four words, "Disappointed to the core."
At this point, the media reported the matter. Many people have scolded: "higher education is of no use, is not the same as the white-eyed wolf" There are also people said that Wang Yongqiang has no human nature not to mention filial piety. In the face of all kinds of public opinion, finally Wang Yongqiang's uncle still said the reason behind this.
The truth of the cruel farewell
Wang Yongqiang left home for 20 years, in fact, because of a good scar. Because of the family's poverty, during the school year, his parents asked him to drop out of school several times to work in order to support the family. This has left a psychological shadow on a child, since Wang Yongqiang went to college and then did not ask for a penny with the family. At the time, there were four dollars a month in teaching subsidies for college, but the parents were looking at the four dollars, so Wang Yongqiang had no choice but to save money and send the money back to the family on time.
When Wang Yongqiang got his doctorate, he already had 72 dollars a month, and he didn't talk to his parents about it when he was using money everywhere in the big city. His parents then thought he was deliberately hiding it and didn't want to give it to us.
When he was pursuing his post-doctoral studies, he met his girlfriend in Beijing, who was in very good condition, and Wang Yongqiang never said anything about his family's real situation. When Y.Q. Wang wanted to get married, his parents insisted on coming to the wedding and asked for 1,000 yuan for traveling expenses. When the couple was preparing to go to Japan to study, the parents wrote again, asking Y.Q. Wang to take the two of them with him, as well as a brother with polio. In desperation, Wang Yongqiang had to make up lies that he went to Japan to earn a lot of money, will soon be back, then buy a house for you to enjoy. Only in this way did he convince his parents. In the face of parents endless pressure, in Wang Yongqiang inside into a disease.
ConclusionChina since ancient times, there is a "hundred good filial piety first" such a good virtue, parents raise children is not easy, the child in the ability should also be filial piety parents. But like Wang Jisheng and Guo Qiaodi such a one-dimensional request, never ask the child is not bitter and tired, the brain only to enjoy happiness and want endless money, time and time again to use the moral abduction, and ultimately forced Wang Yongqiang choose to go far away. Parents want their children to have success, which is proud of parents, but if never satisfied to rely on affection to blackmail, will eventually crush the last line of defense.