My boyfriend said to remember his words don't hurt if you don't love how do I reply to him

He is good to me I am perceived, but also very grateful. I received the first doll is he sent, my annual birthday gift and blessings he never vacant, occasionally sent mood state has changed he will also send a message over to show concern. He did a lot of things for me, if you ask me touched not touched? In fact, there will be touched, but do not love is not love. I don't like and people ambiguous, I can't take for granted to enjoy his good to me, that's too selfish, don't deserve to treat my him like this. I know all too well what it's like to have a crush on someone, painful and sweet, so let me end it! The longer I put it off, the more I hurt him. Luckily, my honest and unabashedly gentle rejection didn't embarrass us with each other. He said, "I thought it would be embarrassing to fail to confess, and you wouldn't even care about me in the future, but you were so honest that I actually got over it, and I didn't like the wrong person. Thank you for your sincerity, talk away, we are still good friends. In fact, after such a thing has been hurt I will not let him also have my experience, so try to minimize the damage, fortunately I really did. I have never been able to figure out, I was only in his difficult time to lend him money even find friends to borrow money just to help him through the difficult times, but also will only occasionally show the care of friends. I didn't think I had done anything too special for him, and somehow I managed to break into his heart. He said, "You don't know how good you are for yourself. You like to laugh, laughter makes people happy, you are always so cheerful and sunny, open-minded and upright, as well as your special sincerity, kindness and bravery, dare to love, dare to hate, heavy feelings." I almost cried when I heard this, no one has ever really evaluated and affirmed me in this way. Thank you for liking me, thank you for affirming me, and letting me know that I am actually really good and nice! Despite the fact that nowadays is a fast food society for feelings, I still hope that everyone treats their feelings, no matter if it's family, friendship, or love, with all their hearts and make truthfulness and kindness the bottom line. If you don't love, please don't hurt, please reject it sincerely and gently! Deep love can not afford to hurt, please leave them a way home!