Auntie funeral home before the square dance to send off the old man, the deceased's family can accept this way to pay tribute?

Department of local customs, the families of the deceased even if they do not accept and what can be done? can only go with them! This custom is really unacceptable, obviously a thing full of sadness, but made into a happy thing, is not the future of marriage and children to cry up? Can't figure it out!

One, the aunt of the funeral home before the square dance to send off the old man

Square dance when the rise of basically a group of aunties in the square jumping around, is not day and night, the square dance seems to be a bit tainted in the past few years, the aunties are arbitrary, want to jump where they jumped to where they jumped, the highway, the ship, the top of the mountain, the airport, etc., is where the odd one out where they go.

The original intention of the square dance in order to let the big moms to strengthen their bodies, but now it has become one of their ?
In Guiyang, Guizhou, a funeral parlor in front of a group of big moms surprisingly square dance, the purpose is to send off the old man who just passed away.

Beginning of my mind is the old man who passed away is not their dance partner, or was invited by the family of the deceased, it turns out that are not, is a big woman up on their own initiative to dance to send the old man. The villagers here even said it is a local custom , can not understand. People died, family members are in sad sad, but you are here to dance, can not think differently?

In our perception that such things the deceased's family has the right to maintain an attitude of opposition, but the customs here are such that the deceased's family can do? Is it possible to argue with the women on this sad day, to fight against the local customs.

The family of the deceased has no ? qualifications? Accepted or not, they can only have been endured, silently sent to let the old man. Keep the sadness and anger to themselves, who let do this is the custom?

A person's departure for the family is a great sadness, at this time the family would like to go quietly to send, quiet remembrance, you a group of older women but where to dance what "good day", this is a few meanings? For the families of the deceased is sad sad days, you are insulting them?

I propose that such a custom should be abolished, as well as for jumping square dance of the big moms should be strengthened management, jumping square dance is just to strengthen the body, not to become a weapon of the big moms, means to stipulate that they honestly, in the appropriate place to jump, and to respect the local residents of the life of the rest and relaxation of the time.