Like a flowing river, feelings are constantly changing, you never know when you will meet the real belonging to your destiny and happiness, the only thing you can do is to wait and constantly improve their ability and core competitiveness.
When you want to have a good relationship, you first have to be able to stand on the other side of the position and angle to consider the problem. For women, if you want to capture a man's heart, you first have to judge whether he is worth it.
If he himself does not love you, you to him again good will not help, after all, feelings are no way to force. As the saying goes, the strong twisted melon is not sweet. The world is so big, you will always meet really suitable for your life partner, you don't have to be with a man who does not love you to get entangled.
When a man really cares about you, willing to make the necessary concessions or compromises for you, he always has you in mind, you can choose to interact with him or love. Otherwise, no matter how good or outstanding he is, you should not be easy on him.
When you meet a man who truly loves you and you also love him y, if you want to catch his heart, you have to pay attention to learn to talk to him like this.
1, speak carefully
Talking is a way to promote mutual feelings. When you talk to a man, be careful not to seem too rough or impatient, you have to be careful and whisper.
If you speak too loudly, or even move to make a scene with him, you may scare the man away. The reason why a man is willing to take the initiative to get close to you is because you are able to speak to him calmly and peacefully, and you speak like a gentle spring rain, melting the iceberg inside the man little by little.
A woman who speaks in a delicate voice is often easy to impress a man's heart, and men are also more willing to maintain good interaction and intimate communication with you.
If you talk to a man too sharp or mean, you talk too loud, you talk without any leeway or mercy, then the man no matter how much he loves you, he may also drift away from you because of this.
So, if a woman wants to catch a man's heart, you have to pay attention to talk to him not to be too excited, and do not show too rough, you talk to the attitude to try to be gentle. Otherwise, he may be too lazy to take care of you, and the distance between you will become more and more distant.
2, speak reasonably
Women should learn to convince people with reason, you don't want to be forceful to a man. When you talk to a man, pay attention to the logic and proportion of the speech, you have to be justified, rather than all kinds of nonsense.
If you have an opinion about a man, you are dissatisfied with him, you don't always hold it in your heart, and don't say bad things about him behind his back, you have to learn to express it in time, and to express it in a euphemistic way.
When you make a request to a man, you have to pay attention not to exceed his ability. For example, you know that his monthly income is very little, but always ask him to buy you all kinds of expensive gifts, you talk to him all kinds of high and mighty, bad attitude, then how much he loves you, but also may be so and you turn the other cheek.
So, if a woman wants to catch a man's heart, you have to pay attention to talk to him to be organized, to have a basis, to have a certain persuasive.
If you talk to a man without basis and proportion, you always make something out of nothing, you deliberately exaggerate the facts, and even often humiliate or insult him, then the man will refuse to keep in communication with you, and he will slowly alienate and cold shoulder you.
3, speak full of temperature
When you talk to a man, to be full of truth, to have temperature and emotion. If you talk to a man with no temperature, talk too cold or cold, you never refuse to think for him, you talk never care about his feelings and mood, then the man how to love you, but also may be gradually alienated from you.
The most important thing for two people to do together is to keep each other warm and in need of each other. When you are willing to listen to a man's heart, and in his loss or frustration, can through the warmth of the language to soothe his inner anxiety and anxiety, you can inspire him to get back on his feet, and you are willing to accompany him out of the dilemma, the man may therefore be impressed by you.
When you talk to a man, you have to be careful not to hurt him, and you shouldn't pry too much into his privacy, let alone open his scars. On the contrary, you have to maintain empathy and sympathy, you have to fully sympathize with his difficulties, you have to go forward and backward with him, **** the difficulties.
Only when you learn to use warm language to melt the ice and snow inside his heart, every word you say to him is for his sake, you are sincerely want to help him, your language can bring him endless strength and courage, you can catch his heart.
If every word you say is like a sharp bayonet, making him feel especially sad and aggrieved after listening to it, and he doesn't want to talk to you at all, then you will soon lose his love and sincerity for you.
So, if you want to catch a man's heart, you have to learn to let yourself say words full of temperature and emotion, you have to be sincere and frank enough to him.
In short, a woman can only capture a man's heart if she learns to speak to him with all her heart.
When you talk to a man, you have to pay attention to the color of his face. When a man's face becomes more and more ugly, it means that he is not interested in the topic you are talking about, and even the questions you ask him may have touched his bottom line. At this time, you have to quickly change the topic, or simply keep silent.
If you can produce a strong emotional **** Ming, you and he has a lot of **** the same language, even if each other silent, you can instantly understand each other in the heart in the end in the thought, the man will be on your love.
The reason why a man likes to be with you is because you are not bored or boring together, you always have endless topics to talk about, his heart you are willing to listen to, his worries you are willing to help him share.
If you are indifferent to a man, you neither refuse to listen to his heart, nor are you willing to talk to him with all your heart, you either often put him down, or cold war to him in the end, then how much he likes you, and may be all kinds of respect for you because of it.
Relationships need to be cultivated slowly, and chatting is a good way to enhance each other's feelings.
When you want to catch a man's heart, you may want to start by cultivating a tacit understanding between you. In order to cultivate the tacit understanding between each other, you have to fully understand his hobbies, temperament and personality, growth environment and so on. All of this information to obtain, you need to take the initiative to find him to communicate and exchange.