The first situation, as parents like to interfere in the life of the younger generation. Originally, their own life can be calm and harmonious, but often the parents will not like to see, will be blamed and want to intervene to deal with. We often say, "Raise a child a hundred years old, long worry ninety-nine." Parents actually want their children's lives to be as happy as they imagine them to be. Moreover, as elders, they are used to disciplining their children. Therefore, when their children's actual lives deviate from their ideas, they want to take control. But from the children's standpoint, why do parents want to make their children always obey them when they are already adults or have their own ideas. I don't think it's pleasant for anyone to have their lives interfered with like this now that it's about their own lives. In the long run, I think there will be conflicts between children and parents, and if the tone of voice is not good, I think both sides will no longer be willing to communicate calmly. Gradually, the relationship will get worse and worse.
The second situation is that there is no filial son before the bed of a long illness. This old saying, I think we should have heard it before. Modern young people or middle-aged people live under great pressure, and work is very busy. If, at this time, there is an old father or mother who has been sick for a long time. If the family's financial situation is still good, and can afford to hire a caregiver, it's okay. If the economic level is average, usually work very hard, this time to go home to take care of bedridden parents, the pressure of work, the pressure of life will be in the heart. If things do not go well at this time, the mental pressure will be very great. In fact, I think who does not want to have the ability to take care of their own family, the family is warm and happy? However, if one is unable to do anything about it or is very tired of supporting one's body to take up the responsibility, anyone would find it very hard to go through it. And, if you can't find a breakthrough to solve the current situation for a long time, I don't think everyone can support it.
In fact, many times, we can understand when we think outside the status quo. We are all ordinary people, and although we have selfishness, we are not considered to be great evils. We often have conflicts with our parents or fail to do our filial piety while living.